October 2017 Moms

*TW* Time for me to go

It's with a heavy heart that unfortunately, it's time for me to go. Had our last follow-up ultrasound yesterday and confirmed our biggest fears. Baby stopped growing at just over 6 weeks and there's no longer a heartbeat. We're waiting on a call from the pregnancy loss clinic to find out what our next steps are. My doctor mentioned that they may want to do a D&C as it's been 3 weeks and my body hasn't recognized that the pregnancy is not moving forward anymore, so who knows how long it will go before it does. You ladies have been amazing during my short stay here and I wish you all the best for the future. Thank you so much for your support. I'm gonna miss you guys!

TTC since 01/2011
07/2013 - First round of testing  - CD21 and CD3 blood tests and HSG  + multiple SAs for DH
07/2013 - Diagnosis - Anovulatory and DH has very low counts - Referral to urologist for further testing
08/2013 - Urologist showed varcocele veins and testicular defect from birth. Unable to repair
11/2013 - Consult with RE regarding treatment. Benched due to finances
2014/2015 - Took break from pursuing treatment, moved to a new province
06/2016 - DH redid SA as per direction from new family doctor - Counts have increased!!
07/2016 - Consult with new RE - ordered a repeat HSG
09/2016 - Providing no issues on HSG - Scheduled to start first IUI with Clomid
01/17/2017 - First IUI with Clomid - BFP - M/C @ 9 weeks

Come on Baby "B"! Time to come out and play!

Re: *TW* Time for me to go

  • I'm so sorry @ZukiWife. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Be kind to yourself.  <3
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  • My dear, I am sorry for your loss. Please be well, take the time you need to heal and to grieve. I'm wishing the ultimate best for you and your family now and in the future. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(
  • I am so sorry for your loss and wish you and your family the best.

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Lean on others during this time, and be easy on yourself. Find some books on loss from a perspective you find comforting (I am a Christian so I found gospel-centered MC books, but I am sure there are many other options). My heart hurts for you. Sending you love and prayers <3
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Please be gentle to yourself. 
    TTC x 1.5 years.
    Acupuncture, Femera x3 cyles, and HSG.
    BFP in September 2014, DS born June 2015.
    TTC x2 months.
    BFP January 2017.


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    I am so sad to see this update, and am so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself.
    TTC #1 since May 2014
    3 failed IUI cycles
    Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
    Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
    Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14

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  • I'm so so sorry for your loss.

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  • Ugh I am heartbroken for you @zukiwife. ((Hugs))



  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(

    Me: 32 Him: 29 Live : London, UK
    TTC #1 since October 2015
    IVF Fresh Nov 16 = BFN
    IVF FET Jan 17 = BFP
    EDD: Oct 4th 2017
    TEAM: PINK!!
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  • i am so sorry for your loss...

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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. 
  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you! Take care of yourself!
  • Oh @ZukiWife I am so sorry for what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Big hugs <3
    Me: 31 DH:35
    TTC #1: March 2011 
    Fur-children: 3 dogs + 2 cats (all rescued)
    dx: Endometriosis and Fibroids 
    2 Laps and 1 Abdominal Myomectomy
    6 rounds of clomid
    5 rounds of iui
    IVF #1 Gonal F, Menopur and Cetrotide
    ER 12/1/2016:Retrieved 22 eggs 12 fertilized, developed moderate OHSS
    4/4 day 5 embryos were normal for PGS!!! 2 boys/2 girls
    FET 1/10/2017  
    Gallbladder surgery 1/10/2017
    FET 2/2
    BFP 2/7/17 <3 Beta#1: 594!!! Beta#2 1630!!!
    Having a girl! EDD 10/21/17
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  • So sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you mamas going through this. 
  • I am so so sorry for your loss.
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  • Oh my. So so sorry for you. Take care.
  • Oh no :( I hate this, it's so unfair. I'm so sorry for your loss, and sending hugs your way.

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  :'( I can't imagine how much you're hurting right now. Be good to yourself.



    Me: 36 / DH: 37
    Met: 9/21/08
    Married: 10/5/13
    BFP #1- 2/5/17 * EDD- 10/18/17 * DD born- 10/25/17
    BFP #2 3/18/19 * EDD 11/25/19* DS born 11/30/19
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been where you are and it is a difficult thing. Please give yourself time to grieve the loss of your sweet babe. You'll be in my thoughts.  <3
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.   <3
    me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013

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    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP .  jan 2017
    DD .  oct 2017

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018
    mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
    RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
    surprise BFP .  aug 2019
    DS .  may 2020

    dx Hashimoto's 2023
    ttc #3 . feb 2023
    mmc . apr 2023
    mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
    dx elevated nk cells
    tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
    BFP . mar 2025

  • So sorry to hear this. I'm in the same boat and wouldn't wish this hurt on anyone. If it's any consolation I had my d and c today, and it sucks and is sad, but it was relatively quick and physically painless. I'm here for you if you need an ear to bend. So much love and prayer to you and your family.
    *TW* Angel J. Conceived 1/1/17 - nonviable 3/7/17
  • So very sorry for your loss.
  • So sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
     
    TTC + medicated cycles
    3/2015: Start TTC
    8/2015: PCOS Dx
    4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
    2/2017: BFP




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  • I'm so so sorry. Take care of yourself. Big hugs!

  • So very sorry for your loss. :(
  • I'm sorry for your loss

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