Tldr: Since I found out about my pregnancy my friends have dropped like flies...
Countless plans made and broken at the very last minute, even friends who seem very genuinely excited to get a meal and hangout continuously cancel minutes before we plan to meet...
I don't know if it's because I'm 21 and most my age are party-work-school focused? Others act as though my pregnancy is a virally contagious... Some are downright unsupportive and treat me as though I'm contributing to overpopulation and the decline of civilization as we know it... Did I mention my pregnancy was unplanned?

I'm anxious about planning a baby shower it feels like I have no friends to invite. I've signed up for two apps to meet other Moms and have not received any replies or friends so far

IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE THAT CAN RELATE? IM STARTING TO FEEL CRAZY LONELY!

Re: FTM with no friends
Good luck.
As for the shower, it's okay if you don't invite many / any friends. I love my friends but I am only going to have 1 or 2 of my closest friends at my shower.
Married: 07-2014
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
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BFP: 11/4/2016
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Some ladies here have suggested meetup.com and prenatal yoga classes as a way to meet other moms-to-be. Maybe you can give that a shot?
Honestly, having a newborn makes you feel even more isolated and lonely. Its a lot of hormones and life adjustments. You might want to really try to find some "been there done that" moms locally that can help you with the transition when the baby is here. My city has a women's group where most are moms. Prenatal yoga, city parks and a baby wearing groups are all community based too. Also, my 1st bump birth month club was invaluable when I had my baby. They were all feeling the same things as me, especially the FTMs.
Also, it's rude to plan your own baby shower. It's rude to plan any sort of gift-giving event for yourself. Showers are offered by friends or family and thrown by someone else for you. If no one offers, you don't get one.
Secondly your remark about the babyshower "If no one throws you one, you don't get one"?? Super rude. It doesn't sound like her friends are being very supportive right now. And this girl shouldn't be told she can't have a baby shower if she wants one. And YOU are not the baby shower police. It's sad that she has to throw one for herself, but nobody gets to tell her she can't. Women need to be supporting each other, not bullying each other. Sheesh
Also, OP posted and ghosted, so she really didn't seem to be too interested in the support this community could offer her anyway.
As for the shower, sorry, but you're just plain wrong. Basic etiquette is that you do not throw a party in honor of yourself, especially gift giving ones. It is extremely rude to tell your friends and family, "Hey, come buy me presents." I know I'm not the baby shower police. Of course, the OP can throw herself a shower, and I can't stop her. But she should know that it's rude and if (general) you throw yourself a shower, you will probably find a lot of your friends and family think you are rude and will sideeye and likely comment about it behind your back. Your opinion that it's ok to throw yourself a shower does not change the etiquette fact that is rude to do so.
And you think my post was bullying? Please.
Oh, and here's another suggestion I thought of, OP, look up a local Mom's of Preschoolers group. It's for moms of children up to preschool age including expectant mothers. These are typically held at churches and the organization is religious, but even if you're not, you may be able to make some initial connections through there.