My dear friend is having twins. This is her second pregnancy. While I wish I could just offer to throw a shower or sprinkle for her, it's not going to be easy if it's a one hostess show. I wouldn't be able to take on the costs of it alone and the planning that is involved. The friends or acquaintances that she knows are people that I don't know. Do you offer to throw a shower and ask if she can appoint someone else like a family member or friend to help me? Or is this considered rude? And considering that I live further away from her, do you suggest to throw the shower at her place since it would be closer to everyone else? I don't even know if I should take the responsibility of doing a shower if I know I can't do it all alone. Any thoughts? Thanks!