My husband and I both work so my daughter who is 20 months old goes to daycare which she loves but for the last few months she has been very emotional. She wakes up in the morning screaming, kicking and crying and i know she doesn't want to wake up but she does that all the way from the time she wakes up to daycare and we've tried everything to get her to calm down. Then, once i pick her up from daycare its the same thing. She's even been getting angry and upset when its time for bed. I'm just not sure what to do right now with this attitude and how to calm her down. We only get to see her a total of 3 hours a day on the weekdays and 1/2 of it is her throwing a huge meltdown. Any suggestions? she's in bed every night by 8 p.m. and i wake her up at 7:30 a.m. and i know maybe i should start putting her to bed earlier but its just so hard when we have such little time anyway.