I shower ever other night and on the nights I don't shower, I have to wash my feet before I crawl into bed. Even if I've been home all day, I need my feet to be clean.
I just got home from the hospital and even though I slept OK there and CAN physically take care of Preston (still feel like poop though), I told DH that I really needed a nap. I just missed my bed so much.
This morning I should have been painting the last cabinet, putting in a new electrical plug, or ordering parts for the dishwasher. Instead the girls and I went to my friend's house who I haven't seen in months, and just played there. It was a mental health day. I'm sure I'll be up late tonight making up for it.
I have been on time to my job probably less than a dozen times since I came back to work in August. Precious extra minutes of sleep or breastfeeding the baby almost always win out and I'm usually between 10 and 30 minutes late. I really do try to make it on time, and if anyone cares, they haven't told me
Me: 32 DH: 31 *The old lady by 5 whole weeks* Married: 11/2013 M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
I have been on time to my job probably less than a dozen times since I came back to work in August. Precious extra minutes of sleep or breastfeeding the baby almost always win out and I'm usually between 10 and 30 minutes late. I really do try to make it on time, and if anyone cares, they haven't told me
I haven't had sex with DH in awhile, I had been so good about really making an effort once a week for a long time, and recently I have been so bad!
I really miss him, but I am just so damn tired!! Plus breastfeeding makes me so hungry so I feel completely unsexy these days with constantly stuffing my face.
I haven't had sex with DH in awhile, I had been so good about really making an effort once a week for a long time, and recently I have been so bad!
I really miss him, but I am just so damn tired!! Plus breastfeeding makes me so hungry so I feel completely unsexy these days with constantly stuffing my face.
Same here. I try to do it once a week just so I know a month hasn't passed without us having sex. But given the option between sleep and sex, sleep wins. I keep trying to get him to go to bed earlier with me so that's not the choice, but he doesn't like hanging out and watching tv in bed instead of on the couch. Instead he likes to sit 5ft away from me on the couch and expects me to just instantly jump him when we go to bed at 11:30. Nah bro, that's (well past) bedtime.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
....my husband and I haven't had sex yet. I have no desire, am still struggling with granulation tissue, and now hemorrhoids. Sex doesn't sound even remotely fun. I'm a terrible wife. My husband is a saint.
I leave all of the initiation up to DH for sex. BB (Before Baby) I was constantly doing the jumping. Now, I agree that I feel pretty much unsexy and super tired most of the time, so if he wants any, he has to say something. It has been a couple of weeks now, so I should really probably encourage it. Especially as it's already February and we've mostly agreed to start trying again in May/June. Don't want to give the impression that I'm just using him for sperm
Edit: words are hard. I'm so tired
Me: 32 DH: 31 *The old lady by 5 whole weeks* Married: 11/2013 M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
Also, this may be more of an UO than a FFFC, but I really hope my period comes back soon. I know most of you mamas already feel the period pain, but I would love to get mine without having to wean Miles. I don't know when I was planning on stopping BF, but if I have to stop when he's a year old just because that's when we wanted to try for another, it's probably going to lead to either delaying TTC, or feeling a little betrayed that I (or Miles) at least didn't get to make the decision to wean without pressure.
Me: 32 DH: 31 *The old lady by 5 whole weeks* Married: 11/2013 M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
Yeah I leave the initiation up to him too... I feel bad but I'm just not in the mood most of the time.
I feel like I generally ate too much and am in need of a shower lol. I'm also still struggling with a little bit of scar tissue from tearing that hurts. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's still not where they were BB.
What I need is a night without Savannah and with lots of wine and lube to get my mojo back. It's just so not what you want when you can't drink too much and are just waiting for the baby to wake up and need to eat. Especially when it doesn't feel the way it used to!
I totally forgot to register my girls for preschool. I used to always have my ish together before I had kids and side eye the people who couldn't get it together and now I am that person... Epic fail!
Me (34): DOR d/t chemo/radiation, Immature Endometrial Lining, Hypothyroidism
DH (35): MFI d/t testicular torsion and removal, Low T, Oligospermia, Anti-Sperm Antibodies, Currently on T supplements Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!! March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16 July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?! 7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291 7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac 7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
My husband got disqualified from the backgrounds portion for the CHP position he applied for months ago...and I'm okay with it because I don't love the job choice. Sorry not sorry. Apparently he smoked weed last year with friends for his birthday so he got disqualified because it was "too recent". They told him to reapply next year.
Re: FFFC 2/10
Married: 11/2013
M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
I really miss him, but I am just so damn tired!! Plus breastfeeding makes me so hungry so I feel completely unsexy these days with constantly stuffing my face.
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
Edit: words are hard. I'm so tired
Married: 11/2013
M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
Married: 11/2013
M: 6/2016 E: 5/2018
I feel like I generally ate too much and am in need of a shower lol. I'm also still struggling with a little bit of scar tissue from tearing that hurts. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's still not where they were BB.
What I need is a night without Savannah and with lots of wine and lube to get my mojo back. It's just so not what you want when you can't drink too much and are just waiting for the baby to wake up and need to eat. Especially when it doesn't feel the way it used to!
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!