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Re: GTKY - You or Him

  • JJMNO1616 said:
    @Everycol0r How did you trick your DH into saying "I love you"? 

    @morado23 @cherryblossomgirl507 High five for online dating sucsess! Found mine on Plenty of Fish  :D




    I think I said something along the lines of "I have this feeling I want to say something but I'm worried it's to soon............."
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

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  • •Who's oldest? Him, by a year
    •Who was interested first? We met online (another OkCupid success story!) but I avoided his phone calls for two weeks before I finally agreed to a first date so I guess he was.
    •Same high school? Nope
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Him
    •Said "I love you" first? Me
    •Hardest working? Same
    •More sarcastic? Him
    •Who makes the most mess? It's a tie!
    •Wakes up first? Me
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Another tie
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Him (I never learned how to drive! I definitely miss having chauffeur)
    •Better cook? Depends on the dish
    •Spends the most? Definitely him
    •Smarter: We're both smart in different ways.
    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: 6/2016
    TTC #1: 12/2016
    Benched due to deployment- Off the bench 8/8/17!


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  • •Who's older? Me
    •Who was interested first? Both
    •Same high school? No
    •Most sensitive? Me 
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Him
    •Said "I love you" first? Can't remember!
    •Hardest working? Both 
    •More sarcastic? Me
    •Who makes the most mess? Him
    •Wakes up first? Depends on the day. When neither work, me
    •Bigger Family? Me, but not by much - both are huge
    •Who cooks the most? Him
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Me
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Him
    •Better cook? Him
    •Spends the most? Me
    •Smarter: Both; I have a better vocabulary, but he's better with math 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • LoveInDC said:
    JJMNO1616 said:
    @Everycol0r How did you trick your DH into saying "I love you"? 
    *Snip*
    I think I said something along the lines of "I have this feeling I want to say something but I'm worried it's to soon............."
    @Everycol0r Yasssss! Girl, same!



    DH and I met IRL, but I totally called him out and made him drop the L bomb first. I think I said something like "I'm pretty sure there's something you want to tell me." And we went back and forth before he cracked just so I could be the one who got to say "I love you too" Mwahhhahhaha. Early victories.
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

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  • •Who's oldest? Me
    •Who was interested first?  Him
    •Same high school? Yes
    •Most sensitive? Used to be him but after having a kid, me
    •Worst temper? Me
    •More social? Me
    •Said "I love you" first? Me
    •Hardest working? Him
    •More sarcastic? Me
    •Who makes the most mess? Him
    •Wakes up first? Him
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Probably me although I rarely cry, unless I'm frustrated or reallyyyy pissed off 
    •Better singer? Definitely me--private voice lessons all throughout high school
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Me
    •Better cook? Him, I'm a better baker
    •Spends the most? Him
    •Smarter: I'm more book smart, he's more steet and techie smart
    TTC History
    Me: 35 DH: 34
    Married 07/2012
    DD born 07/2014
    DD2 born 10/2018
    DS born 10/2022

    IF history:
    TTC #2 since January 2016
    June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
    Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
    Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
    Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
    Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
    Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
    FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
    FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22


  • •Who's older? Him
    •Who was interested first? Me! (for almost a year!)
    •Same high school? No
    •Most sensitive? Him
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Me but he has more friends
    •Said "I love you" first? Him!
    •Hardest working? Both
    •More sarcastic? Me
    •Who makes the most mess? We are both quite messy 
    •Wakes up first? We both sleep in!
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? He is the only one who cooks
    •Who cries more? Depends on times (I have done a lot of TTC crying lately)
    •Better singer? Neither
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Him
    •Better cook? Him
    •Spends the most? Both
    •Smarter? Both (even though he is very insecure and would say me, I think his brain is one of the most beautiful things on earth!)

    I LOVE this game ;-)
    Me: 31 | DH: 33
    TTC #1 since May 2016
    MFI – Low Morph (0-5%)
    IUI #1 Aug '17 BFN
    IUI #2 Oct '17 BFN
    IUI #3 Dec '17 BFN
    IVF April/May 2018
  • •Who's oldest? Him
    •Who was interested first? Me
    •Same high school? No
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Me
    •More social? Me
    •Said "I love you" first? Him
    •Hardest working? Equal but he has more dedication
    •More sarcastic? Him
    •Who makes the most mess? Me
    •Wakes up first? Him
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Neither haha
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Him-per his job
    •Better cook? Me for sure 
    •Spends the most? Me
    •Smarter: I'll admit Him

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  • •Who's oldest? Him by 8 months
    •Who was interested first? He checked my profile first (before it was done) but I message him first.  Another OKCupid success story!
    •Same high school? nope
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Him
    •Said "I love you" first? In person, him; I kind of said it in a text quite a bit earlier
    •Hardest working? him
    •More sarcastic? him
    •Who makes the most mess? I think him but he also does about 2/3 of the house cleaning
    •Wakes up first? without an alarm, him
    •Bigger Family? me
    •Who cooks the most? me
    •Who cries more? me
    •Better singer? neither
    •Hogs the remote? neither I think
    •Better driver? depends on who you ask
    •Better cook? him
    •Spends the most? probably me because I do most of the shopping
    •Smarter: both in different ways


    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • DeeVeeZee DeeVeeZee member
    edited February 2017

    •Who's oldest? Him - by 6 years - infact he is a year younger than my baby brother!!!
    •Who was interested first? Him - I just wanted to be free at the time - actually called him my toy boy - but he wouldn't give up!
    •Same high school? No - thank goodness!
    •Most sensitive? Hmmm tough - me to a degree - I cry easily in movies - but he has also shed a tear or two at times
    •Worst temper? Oh definitely me!!! And it lasts!!!
    •More social? Both - but more when he gets to know you
    •Said "I love you" first? Him
    •Hardest working? Me - Mentally and him - Physically
    •More sarcastic? Again definitely me
    •Who makes the most mess? BOTH - I just OCD crazy when it happens
    •Wakes up first? Both
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Both - he uses his head - I need recipes!!
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Him
    •Hogs the remote? We share evenly lol
    •Better driver? Definitely me
    •Better cook? Both
    •Spends the most? Me when I'm in the mood
    •Smarter: I'd like to say me but I think we are pretty even lol!

    (Also testing my siggy for the first time - finally figured out how to do it - now I just hope it works!!!)

    Edited. .me to him on age and stupid errors

    Me 38  3 DH 31

    Married 2012

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  • •Who's oldest?  Me
    •Who was interested first?  We met on Tinder, so I'd say this was equal, though I didn't answer his message right away
    •Same high school?  No
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper?  Me
    •More social? I think this is equal also
    •Said "I love you" first? Him :)
    •Hardest working? Him
    •More sarcastic? Also equal
    •Who makes the most mess? ME
    •Wakes up first? Him
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most?  Me
    •Who cries more? ME
    •Better singer? Me, but I still like to listen to him
    •Hogs the remote?  Him for sure!
    •Better driver? Me, but he'll say I'm the worst
    •Better cook? Me
    •Spends the most?  Me
    •Smarter: Him
    Me:31 ~ DH: 28
    Swiped Right: 6/2014
    Married: 9/2016
    TTC # 1: 11/2016 
     BFP: 5/2017
    Baby Boy: 1/2018
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  • Who's oldest? Me, by about 6 weeks
    •Who was interested first? We are also an OK Cupid couple. But he was interested in and messaged me first. I had already thumbs downed him due to his ridiculous profile. He had changed it before he messaged me and I was like aww why did I reject this guy?  
    •Same high school? Nope
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Hmm, were both pretty mellow buy probably him
    •More social? Him
    •Said "I love you" first? Me, but I was half asleep and thought I had heard him say it first. 
    •Hardest working? Probably a tie.
    •More sarcastic? Him
    •Who makes the most mess? Him
    •Wakes up first? For work him, when it's by choice, me
    •Bigger Family? Immediate family same, extended me
    •Who cooks the most? Him
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Me
    •Hogs the remote? Me
    •Better driver? Him
    •Better cook? Tie. I cook/bake, he's amazing on the grill
    •Spends the most?  Me
    •Smarter: I think he's inherently smarter but I apply myself a little more. :)
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  • •Who's oldest? Him
    •Who was interested first? Him
    •Same high school? Nope 
    •Most sensitive? Me 
    •Worst temper? Neither, we're both pretty even tempered 
    •More social? Equal 
    •Said "I love you" first? Him
    •Hardest working? Him
    •More sarcastic? Me
    •Who makes the most mess? Me
    •Wakes up first? Me
    •Bigger Family? Equal 
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Me
    •Hogs the remote? Him
    •Better driver? Him
    •Better cook? Him
    •Spends the most? Him
    •Smarter? Him 

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  • •Who's oldest? Him
    •Who was interested first? Him
    •Same high school? NO
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Me
    •Said "I love you" first? Me
    •Hardest working? Him
    •More sarcastic? Him
    •Who makes the most mess? Depends on the day
    •Wakes up first? Him
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Me
    •Better singer? Him
    •Hogs the remote? Both
    •Better driver? He'd say him, but I dissagree
    •Better cook? Me
    •Spends the most? Me
    •Smarter: Him
  • •Who's oldest? Me
    •Who was interested first? Him
    •Same high school? No
    •Most sensitive? Me
    •Worst temper? Me
    •More social? Him
    •Said "I love you" first? Him
    •Hardest working? Him
    •More sarcastic? Me
    •Who makes the most mess? Me
    •Wakes up first? Him
    •Bigger Family? HIM
    •Who cooks the most? We each cook for ourselves, but he cooks more for me
    •Who cries more? Me, not that it happens
    •Better singer? ME
    •Hogs the remote? HIM
    •Better driver? Him
    •Better cook? Him on the grill, me for everything else
    •Spends the most? ME
    •Smarter:

    Me: late 30s | H: early 30s
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
    IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
    IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
    Polyp removed May 2017
    FET May 2017 - BFP!
    Baby boy born 2/2/18

  • •Who's oldest? Him
    •Who was interested first? Tied. Apparently we were both secretly stalking each other for quite some time
    •Same high school? No
    •Most sensitive? Him
    •Worst temper? Him
    •More social? Me
    •Said "I love you" first? Tied
    •Hardest working? Tied
    •More sarcastic? Him
    •Who makes the most mess? HIM
    •Wakes up first? Tied
    •Bigger Family? Him
    •Who cooks the most? Me
    •Who cries more? Him
    •Better singer? Me
    •Hogs the remote? Neither, not TV people.
    •Better driver? Depends- If everyday life were the Indi500 or a Fast and Furious movie- Him. Casual, law abiding citizen driving- Me.
    •Better cook? I'm going to say Me- he's more creative, but he has a tendency to over season or burn things 50% of the time.
    •Spends the most? Him.
    •Smarter: Tied, we're both intelligent, just skilled in different areas.

  • •Who's oldest? him
    •Who was interested first? both...?
    •Same high school? nope
    •Most sensitive? hmm..... usually him I think
    •Worst temper? oh totally me
    •More social? me, but he is once you get him somewhere
    •Said "I love you" first? he did
    •Hardest working? him
    •More sarcastic? me! he never get it lol
    •Who makes the most mess? tie
    •Wakes up first? me
    •Bigger Family? hmm, i guess me? about tied though
    •Who cooks the most? me
    •Who cries more? tied? (I'm not a big crier)
    •Better singer? he would say me lol
    •Hogs the remote? we watch all the same stuff
    •Better driver? we would both say ourselves lol
    •Better cook? me
    •Spends the most? usually joint
    •Smarter? Depends on the topic
    Angel Babies 1&2 2/14/09
    DS born 3/11
    Angel Baby 3 6/28/11                                                         9/5/17 BFP!!
    divorced October 2014                                                       9/6/17 hCG 88 progesterone 9.1 (prometrium started)
    Married DH 10/15     DH's DS born 6/09                            9/8/17 hCG 242!!!
    Not preventing since 11/15                                                 EDD 5/8/18        Adjusted 5/15/18
    TTC since 1/1/16                                                                9/27/17 we have a heart beat!



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