January 2017 Moms
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MBF-1/30
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I know it's not quite Monday (11 here) but I need a bitchfest. My youngest SIL just found out she's 5 weeks pregnant. Yay, right? Like I'm excited for her, I am, cause she has wanted a 2nd one for a while, she has an almost 4 year old. What gets me is that three SILS had a hay day the day we went to the hospital because we changed our daughters 1st middle name like 2 months ago. And apparently it was a huge deal cause they all loved the original name (i did not at all. It didn't flow and was goofy sounding with the rest of the name). I guess the 2nd SIL ordered something for DD with her name on it and had to send it back since we changed it. So anyway today they are talking and SIL 3 says "I'm mot saying the name cause I don't want it ruined" okay fine, her choice. Even though they YELLED at us cause we weren't going to say DDs name( we just found out at 6 months along so we were still in shock!) Til closer to her coming out, and with our DS we weren't gonna say his name either cause they kept throwing a fit at all the names we were thinking about (not definite on). But whatever she doesn't want anyone to ruin the name. Then SIL 2 brings up the darn gift thing again and while looking right at me says "I'll just get you a gift certificate then and you can personalize so I don't mess up or ruin the name or anything". I didn't tell her to go and order something speciam, she didn't for any of the other kids(6 grandkids total) and she certainly didn't for DS. I guess MIL told my SO that he should have at least kept everyone in the loop about DDs name cause we caused a big commotion and made the SILS all mad about it. Well it didn't even matter cause she spelled DDs first name all wrong anyway and didn't even think to double check it ( which she got mad about cause she thought it was the cuter spelling). So I'm just fed up with grown adults acting petty about things that they don't even have any reason to throw fits over. Like I didn't know I was supposed to run all my decisions by them for approval. SO even said he's upset with his sisters over it. (But he won't stand up to them cause he listens to his mother over anyone and she told him to apologize that we didn't tell them) I even offered to pay for the return fee on the item cause I did feel bad that she ordered some nice thing and she said not to worry ot didn't matter. Sorry for the long rant just kinda fed up. Is this what all big families are like? It's been 3 years and the last 2 have been terrible with the family since we had our kids cause they all act like we have no idea what we're doing and they need to hold our hands. It's flat out disrespectful somedays and irritating all the time. Ugh.
Re: MBF-1/30
BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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Diagnoses and Treatments
PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏
DD2: EDD 1/16/17 - Born 1/12/17 at 39w3d
BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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Diagnoses and Treatments
PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏