Are there any cat owning mamas out that can give me advice on how to keep a cat out of the nursery? I married into a relationship with a cat and she's an asshole to say the least. I'm worried because the room that the nursery is going to be used to be her hang out spot. As nice as I try to be, she's unfriendly to me and even hubs for that matter. I'm concerned what her attitude will be towards the baby, especially because she's losing her favorite place to hide because of the little one. Letting her stay in the nursery while I'm not in it is not an option for me. I can keep the door closed but wanted your thoughts.
Re: Keeping Kitty out of the Nursery
Samantha - 4/5/2017
You can try getting one of those silent alarm things that only cats can hear (something about the frequency) and plug it into an outlet in the baby's room. I have friends who have used them to keep cats off kitchen counters. Or maybe diffuse some orange oil or something citrusy. There's no guarantee any of these will work other than shutting the door, though. Good luck!
We have two cats who are extremely stubborn and who don't respond to repeated techniques like scaring with sound/air or a spray bottle. Plus, my husband and I are at work all day so we can't keep a constant watch of where they're wandering. So, we are planning on trying to put a screen door on the nursery. We just moved into a new house so we are keeping the door closed for now, to teach them to stay out. But with a screen door, it's like having the door open: I can go in and out freely and still hear/see the baby, without the cats being able to get in.
ETA: Pinterest has some suggestions about screen doors for the nursery if you're interested!
We're planning to have el kiddo sleep in our bedroom for the most part, which the cats have always been allowed in. We will be closing them out of the bedroom whenever we are sleeping in there along with the baby. Planning to start easing them into the concept of them not being allowed in there by closing them out for a couple hours each day, but I do not expect it to go well - they are spoiled! I don't want them to feel like they're losing territory, though, and possibly take a dislike to the baby because of it, so we'll let them in there as long as we're in there, too, and keeping an eye out.
We have a spare bedroom that is going to be the nursery which they have never been allowed in, so naturally every time that door opens, all three want to try and wheedle their way in. They will still never be allowed in there after baby is here.
I will say that the citrus thing didn't work one tiny bit with our cats in the past. Even though one of them very clearly disliked the smell, it never deterred him from his mission to sleep in the Christmas tree that weighed only about as much as he does.