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Apparently jealousy is my new symptom

mavilabridemavilabride member
in 2nd Trimester

FI isn't a Myspace/Facebook kind of person.  He thinks its pointless.  In my sane days I recommended he get one to keep up with his old friends and some family members (his family in Chile have pages).  But he doesn't check it often and sometimes tells me to go in there and do stuff for him.

So today he emails me and asks if I can log on to his page and accept "April"

Me: Who the fuuck is April??
Him: An old friend from high school
Me: So what now you're accepting invitations from random people you knew in high school??

Indifferent

Damn.  That means I'm going to have to have sex tonight.

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Re: Apparently jealousy is my new symptom

  • SteffsjetSteffsjet
    LMAO! 
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  • chels0120chels0120 member
    Don't ya love when you KNOW you're being irrational and can't stop yourself?!
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  • mavilabridemavilabride member

    imagechelsb@cc.usu.edu:
    Don't ya love when you KNOW you're being irrational and can't stop yourself?!

    It was like watching a train wreck.  And because he's so great he responds back with 'I don't have to accept her if it bothers you'

    And now I feel like an even bigger a-hole

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  • DaisyAdairDaisyAdair

    I went through something similar after I had my 2nd.  I was using DH's phone to call my parents and they're under "In-Laws".  Well, there was "In-Laws" and then, a few people down, was "Kelly".  Who the hell is KELLY??  Turns out it was a girl at work.  I'm not used to this because DH is in construction.  This is the 1st woman he's ever worked with and it bugged the hell out of me - likely because I wasn't used to it.  I guess if you're used to your DH working with women, it's no big deal, but this was culture shock for me. 

    Until we went to the company picnic and I met Kelly.  Then, I laughed at myself for ever being annoyed.  Not that I would have had a right to be annoyed if she was a super-model, but knowing she looked like a dude sure did help!

    Hey, enjoy the sex anyway!

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  • CeltiCutieCeltiCutie member
    oh gosh, I did something similar in 1st tri.  DH got a text msg at like 11pm when we were lying in bed and I just burst into tears.  He was like "what's wrong?" and I rolled over and kicked him and told him to leave me the hell alone and talk to his girlfriend.  He was like "ohhh honey, it was just my stupid brother see" and showed me his phone.  I didn't even look cuz I felt so dumb... LOL
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  • NoelleHansenNoelleHansen
    imagemavilabride:

    imagechelsb@cc.usu.edu:
    Don't ya love when you KNOW you're being irrational and can't stop yourself?!

    It was like watching a train wreck.  And because he's so great he responds back with 'I don't have to accept her if it bothers you'

    And now I feel like an even bigger a-hole

    Not just sex, but super hot sex. Better take a nap now... LMAO

    Oh, I think most of us have driven the engine on THAT train, esp. when pregnant....

     

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  • NoelleHansenNoelleHansen

    imageCeltiCutie:
    oh gosh, I did something similar in 1st tri.  DH got a text msg at like 11pm when we were lying in bed and I just burst into tears.  He was like "what's wrong?" and I rolled over and kicked him and told him to leave me the hell alone and talk to his girlfriend.  He was like "ohhh honey, it was just my stupid brother see" and showed me his phone.  I didn't even look cuz I felt so dumb... LOL

    You guys have super sweet hubbies. Mine would have been mad at me for "doubting him." Celti - you should take a nap now too. LOL

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  • mavilabridemavilabride member
    imageNoelleHansen:

    You guys have super sweet hubbies. Mine would have been mad at me for "doubting him." Celti - you should take a nap now too. LOL

    I was surprised he didn't say that or hasn't said that LOL I'm guessing when he realizes later he'll make a comment.  And of course I'll cry. 

    I need to get over myself LOL

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  • JamieNIanJamieNIan
    Oh He ll no!!!  MY Dh tried this and I put a stop to it ASAP.  Female friends are a no-no. I am very jealous, but it's something that hasn't gone away from the last relationship (ex was having AFFAIR with BFF).  I was with him for 15 years of full fidelity.  Normally jealousy isn't an issue until another girl I don't know is brought up.  Dh has not only accepted from other (old) females but has extended the invitation, giving out his number.  I know Dh wouldn't go there, but there will always be thoughts in the back of my head.  It only takes one jack azz to ruin it for the rest.
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