TTC After a Loss

Bad timing

Bad timing again this month... it sucks as I always seem to O in our first week in a new city. The first week is SO crazy and DH has no energy to FWP. And on top of that I have had a cold too. We only managed it once over O time?image

Oh well, no big deal, I am kind of scared to get pg again anyway. What if I have another m/s and it pushes me more months behind while I recover and get back on track with my cycles?

Isn't that a sad thought. In fact, I erase all that, its Monday and I will not start the week of bitter!!!?

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There that's better!!!?

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Re: Bad timing

  • That sucks Mary :(    BUT, all is takes is ONCE, right??? GL!
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  • I like the way you talk yourself out of a bad mood. I know how you feel about fearing another loss. We had to sit out last month because my back has been bothering me and I'm on meds. I just thought it will happen when it's supposed to. Who knows all you need is the once. Good luck!
  • I'm sorry you are having a tough time. ?But good for you for trying to stay positive!! ?I understand the frustration of wanting to try again combined with the fear of another m/c. ?But you are doing the right thing by staying positive. ?It will happen! ?

    I'm just waiting for my aunt to show up...?

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  • Lol, you are positive even when you're bitter :)  I agree with Danielle though, only takes once!
  • OH no--- PPs are right - it takes 1 time!

    You positivity is inspiring- but even you are allowed to be sad /bitter every now and then!

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  • I love the way you pep talk back into being positive.  Gotta stay positive.  And true...once is all it takes....so just maybe.
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    Yep, all it takes is one... lets hope DH has some SS (Super Sperm!!!)?

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  • I am sure your DH has "rockstar" swimmers and if this is supposed to be your cycle, it will be :)

    Your attitude is awesome. I need to learn that :)

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  • Great attitude girl!

    This could be your lucky cycle though - it only takes one!

    Hope you recover from your cold soon -

    Good luck :)

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  • It only takes one time!  Best of luck!
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  • And do you remember the days when you just had sex with husband or significant other--there was no bad timing? 

    It has difficult for us to find good timing to TTC when I O--it has moved around as far as the exact day, and I normally do not know the exact day until a couple of days after--kinda a guessing game at this point.  But I am just enjoying the time I do have with my husband and letting him know that he is doing a good job!!

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  • That sucks, but I got my first BFP by doing it only once!!  Maybe you will have a pleasant surprise!
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
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  • It's funny, even when you are down, you still end it up on a positive note!! 
    4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
    5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
    IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
    Beta #1: 485
    Beta #2: 2,495
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