I just saw my OB today I had my nucheal ultrasound and bloodwork done a few weeks ago. The dr is sending me for an anatomy ultrasound scan in 2 weeks because he said the bloodwork came back showing my baby has a higher risk of downs syndrome. I'm freaking out about this now because of course every single thought is running through my mind. Has anyone been in a similar situation?? First baby and I'm about 16 weeks along..
Re: High risk for Downs
One question - the anatomy scan won't give a definitive diagnosis. Did you consider CVS or an amnio? Both of those will be conclusive (and yes, invasive).
Hang in there!
BFP #1 6/13 DD 3/14
Mirena 10/14-5/16
BFP #2 9/2/16, CP confirmed 9/8/16
BFP #3 10/10/16 EDD 6/22/17
The waiting is the hardest part...
Hang in there!!
They offered me amniocentesis to confirm. The chance of miscarriage was 1 in 100. My chance of downs was 1 in 250 i didnt want to take the higher risk with amniocentesis so i waited and my boy is fine.
What i would say is that downs as much as we dont want our children to have this....they can lead a happy and quite normal life.
Even if my boy had it...i would love him no less!
~Declare it..Claim it..It will be!!~
5/9/09
Here We Go Again!!
Just like @2610cherie mentioned Downs children/adults can still lead very happy/normal lives... it's all about how much you work with them to make sure they live up to their potential, and never EVER say they can't do something because of the "disability".
Sorry, this is a tad bit of a touchy subject with me as my younger (now 23) year old sister has T21. I couldn't imagine her any other way. She is simply amazing. I won't sugar coat it and say that it's always easy, because it's not. But, it's worth it. It's definitely not the worst case scenario.