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Intro: Returning after 3rd MMC

lilyasterlilyaster member
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I'm not ready to think about TTC yet, but I know well how supportive and active this board is.  We just found out that our baby has no heartbeat at 13 weeks, grew to about 12.4.  This is my third MMC in a row, all around 11-12 weeks.  I'm 35 and have three wonderful healthy kids, with one early natural m/c between my 2nd and 3rd. 

Planning on having another D&C this week as they went pretty well both times before.  I'm praying we can get more testing done this time as we have absolutely no answers as to why this would keep happening.  I know we can get through this as we have before, but really don't know if we'll be able emotionally to try again. 

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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    I'm sorry for your losses.  Hope you get some answers to why this is happening.
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  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses, but welcome to the board. I hope you get some answers about why this keeps happening. 
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  • GG620GG620 member
    I am so, so sorry for your losses. Prayers to you and your family. I am have two in the past 5 months and it can be emotionally devastating. I hope you and your DH get some answers *hugs*

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    June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d

    August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d

    June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!

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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    So sorry for losses. I hope you get some answers 
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  • Uhlease13Uhlease13 member
    I'm sorry, my heart breaks for you. This whole thing just isn't fair. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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  • splashmountainsplashmountain member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope they can get you the answers you need.
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  • sprkls8506sprkls8506 member
    So sorry. Hopefully you get some answers soon!
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    Sorry for your losses.  I hope you can get some testing and some answers.

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

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  • justsuziejustsuzie member
    So sorry for your losses.  It sucks, and I hope that you find some answers.  
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  • brooklyngirl18brooklyngirl18 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses, it's heartbreaking. I hope you get some answers.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
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  • laeberge3laeberge3 member
    I'm so sorry @lilyaster.  I hope you are able to get some answers. Hugs to you.
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

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  • SP128SP128 member
    @lilyaster So sorry that you find yourself here.  Hoping that you get some answers. 
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • lilyasterlilyaster member
    Thank you guys so much.  It sounds like we will be able to get fetal tissue testing this time around, which should bring some closure.  It was strongly discouraged with the previous two and I wish we had done it. 
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  • babypibabypi member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you get some closure with this one through the testing. 
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  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    Sorry for your losses. We are all here for you
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  • amberrukaamberruka member
    I'm so sorry for your losses, and hope you get some closure with the testing. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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  • Hopefulmommy1980Hopefulmommy1980 member
    I am sorry for your losses. I hope the testing gives you some answers 
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  • merrypottermerrypotter member
    So sorry for your losses :( 
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  • sierrafoxtrot-2sierrafoxtrot-2 member
    Sorry for your losses.
    **TW** Loss mentioned
    Me:35 DH:35
    Married 9/2013
    BFP#1 1/28/2014 DS born 10/21/2014
    BFP#2 7/4/2016 , MC at 7w5d on 7/27
    BFP#3 1/5/2017
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  • SoonToBeMommaHoweSoonToBeMommaHowe member
    @lilyaster I hope we can offer you some comfort during this rough time. I'm so sorry for all that you've been through 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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  • mylittleversaillesmylittleversailles member
    I'm very sorry for your losses. I hope you find peace in the near future.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

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