December 2016 Moms

Over due check in 12/18

anyone here with me?

1- how over due are you?
2- how are you feeling about it?
3- any signs baby may want to come soon?
4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date?

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Mother of an April '15 baby
Due December 16

Re: Over due check in 12/18

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  • I think I had 4 hours but I feel like a million bucks!!

    I hope you go soon and avoid a Christmas baby @slartybartfast! I also feel responsible, like maybe if I walk/clean/stick my finger in my ear more he will come. 

    And i I still don't know what a contraction is/feels like. 
  • I'm so with you.

    1- how over due are you? 41 + 3

    2- how are you feeling about it? Awful. Can't help thinking it's my fault, because I'm anxious, because I'm older, because something. I've completely stopped expecting to go into labor on my own and I'm worried about my little guy, even though he's doing fine on all the tests and is moving around just fine. Bummed that I went from being excited to welcome him to depressed and disappointed in my body...

    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? So many - losing bits of mucus plug, sporadic but mild contractions, he's so low my midwife was sure I'd be in labor soon at my last check in.

    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date? I'm going in first thing tomorrow to talk about options. I doubt they'd want me to go past 42 weeks. I was pretty set against induction but at this point I'll probably go along with whatever's recommended - I feel like it would go well since I'm showing some signs of progress.
  • I agree and am so surprised all of us are being so hard on ourselves! I really think most things that 'work' to start labor are coincidental. Thinking about you ladies!

  • 1- how over due are you? 41+3
    2- how are you feeling about it? Surprised since my first came 10 days early. Irritated and anxious!!
    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? I'm having all sorts of random contractions, and have lost my mucous plug so yes?
    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date? I'll be induced Thursday at 41 weeks. 
  • Those of you who are up against a wire... have you looked into acupuncture induction? 
    Its always been my go to plan if I went close to 42 weeks. I had it scheduled with my 3rd who came at 41+2 days... I had to wait 2 more days due to a weekend for the acupuncturist to get back from a camping trip then she came on her own before that!
    Anyhow, my reasoning in trying it first was that it can't hurt the baby at all... no castor oil to cross placenta or cause me to get depleted. I forgot if I mentioned that in the other thread... ignore me if I did. But it seems to be pretty effective, especially if you're on the edge. 

    Youre all on my mind and im sorry. I know it's so frustrating (scary, annoying, maddening and discouraging!) Hugs  <3

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  • 1- how over due are you? 40 weeks, 2 days
    2- how are you feeling about it? Eh, starting to get a bit impatient. Bored too, house has been cleaned, bags packed. DH and I have already started leave at work, so we're both kinda staring at each other waiting for something to happen.
    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? Lots of irregular contractions over the last few days. Lost my mucus plug this morning.
    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date? My OB will induce a week overdue. I'm really hoping it doesn't come to that.
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  • I officially belong here now :(
    1- how over due are you? 40w1d
    2- how are you feeling about it? Disappointed. I and everyone else thought I would go early since DD2 was 2 weeks early. I planned for it, took off work early, and now here I am, just...waiting. I still have some Christmas shopping to do, I was hoping LO would come out so I could be more mobile, but alas, looks like it's going to be a gift card Christmas. I can only waddle so far in the stores.
    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? None. I'm getting BH and toning contrx, but I assume no dilation since I don't think I've lost MP yet (never have lost it pre-labor). Lots of loose BM. 
    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date?  Haven't had that discussion with the OB or midwife yet. I'm assuming it will come up during my appt tomorrow, and they will probably be fine with up to 41 weeks, especially if the BPPs are normal. I don't know their policy on induction with VBAC, and I'm not sure if the risks outweigh post date risks for AMA. I'm just hopeful baby comes before Christmas, and that we get out of the hospital before Christmas for the kids' sake.
  • Big huge hug to you @zubenescamali I am also wasting leave. So far one week and counting. It's really frustrating!!
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  • Thanks @slartybartfast it's been good and bad to have the two weeks off ahead of time, I had some time I wouldn't have been able to roll over and it really has been helpful on my SPD to take it easy, but I also feel bad for my employer since there is so much going undone while I'm gone, and I'm sooooo restless, I feel like I've completely squandered my time off!  At this point I've decided to just fill the time with Christmas cookie baking, a new cookie for every day baby doesn't come ;) 
  • I'm here too. Being induced tomorrow at a couple days over due depending on which due date you go by. I went 18 days late with my DS two years ago and they aren't going to let me do that again. I totally can relate to the disappointment about not going into labor on your own. This is my second and final LO and I was really hoping to feel that excitement of timing contractions or my water breaking and needing to head into the hospital. But at the end of the day we'll all have babies in our arms one way or another. 

  • Welp I have to call labor and delivery at 2 to either head in for induction or get a time if they are full. Im still 2 cm but the NST picked up actual contractions today!

    I'm pretty weepy today for some reason. I'm kind of sad he won't be with me all the time anymore, is that a thing? I feel bad dropping the dog off at the boarder even though her house is better than ours and he gets long walks on the woods there. I'm also so ready to be done with the anxiety! So baby should be here by tomorrow
  • Congrats @LandJ13 - and yes I imagine knowing ahead of time, it's gotta be extremely emotional..
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  • How are people spending their time these days? DH and I have done some dates. We've done movies. We've done food. We've walked here and there. I've laid around. I've read. I've cooked and baked. We hung out at the rec center pool. I'm over it all. I dunno what to do. I am boooooooooorrrrrrred. 
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    Due December 16
  • It's official. Still pregnant this morning makes me overdue. Bummer. Good news, my intuition is spot on. I figured I'd go over from the very beginning.  :/
  • Hang in there @tinattt23!!!! 
    i keep telling myself to surrender control, baby will come when she is ready!
    Yesterdah DH and I went to see Office Christmas party and I guess it's been awhile since we've been to the movies. They have reserved seating now and plush, reclining chairs. It was awesome!
    today I booked a prenatal massage and am splurging on the 90 minute version. Hopefully she can work some of those acupressure points. I might as well get some pampering out of the waiting game.
    treat yo'self!!!

  • Well as of today I belong here now, I was convinced he'd be early my entire pregnancy.
      
    1- how over due are you? Currently 1 day.

    2- how are you feeling about it? I still don't know yet. I wanted him here by Christmas. I'm so over people telling me oh you don't want him born the 24th or 25th. MIL last night says how it won't be any fun for him since he won't have a special day. I'll make it special gosh darn it. 

    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? I'm dilating on my own but not in sync apparently. I'm a 4 internally and a 2 externally. I had contractions and back pain off and on yesterday. So we will see.

    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date?
    Induction scheduled for 12/28 at 330.
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  • Well, here I am!

    1- how over due are you? 1 day

    2- how are you feeling about it? Okay. Kind of wish I could be snuggling the babe already.

    3- any signs baby may want to come soon? Contractions since last night. Almost 4cm at my appt yesterday. But who knows, I've gotten my hopes up before and it just ends in disappointment.

    4- how late can you go?/do you have an induction date? 12/25 8:00AM
  • @maamawaabangi I'm following that logic. It sounds legit. Would be interesting to see someone study it. 

    On a side note, I'm actually really pleased with my OB that induction has not been mentioned. We talked about it hypothetically long ago but nothing recently. And she induced all 4 of a family friends babies on their due date, so I know it's her norm. I feel like she actually supports my plan even if it's not her standard of care. Next week's appointment (41+1) may be a different story, but at least for now she's leaving my body to do its thing without giving it any deadlines. It's nice not to have to fight for my time like I'd figured I would. 
  • @maamawaabangi I was hesitant with the date. She suggested the date and before we agreed she reassured multiple times that she had to be there anyways, and would rather be delivering a baby than doing nothing. She did seem to hint that it would probably be earlier anyways but that nothing is promised.

    Her norm is to give it about a week before induction, and she actually wanted to do it today (but schedule was already full) which makes me wonder if I'm having a huge baby or something :/

    Hoping that setting a deadline will encourage her into coming early FX

    The nighttime logic makes a lot of sense. I have much stronger contractions in the evening..
  • @maamawaabangi I like the sound of that theory. I'm not quite overdue (2 days to go, so I'm lurking for now), but the last 2 days, the only time I am crampy is in the middle of the night and wee hours of the morning.
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  • I'm not overdue anymore but I just wanted to send love from the other side. I made it to 41 weeks and 5 days, just 2 days shy of what would be my induction date. I blamed myself like crazy even though I was doing all the things. There was nothing I did differently the day she came except go to a movie when I felt contractions come on, because I was sure they would just end up going away, and that time they didn't. 




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  • @SaraRose83 Just like going to the bathroom after ordering food in a restaurant. Maybe I'll try that tomorrow....today is D-Day for me!
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