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Joining all of you who understand#

childcaremamachildcaremama member
edited September 2015 in Snarky and T-TTC
Hello! I posted on the Trying To Get Pregnant board but I definitely feel we are having trouble at this point so wanted to join here too. I hope that's ok!

I went off BC in Feb of 2014. January 2015 I stared using the Fertility Friend App to track my cycle, intercourse, temping, etc. DH and I are so ready for a baby! Last month I had a really hard weekend after BFN. It's hard knowing I'd be having a baby right now if it had worked first month. I'm surrounded by pregnant friends who, no joke two had accidents and two got pregnant first month off BC. They can't understand because they laugh and say they were so surprised, it happened so fast, etc. My other friends are far off from having kids and say things like "why do you want a baby so bad anyway?" If it's ment to happen it'll happen and don't try, just don't think about it. Its very frustrating. I haven't talked to anyone except DH about it in months. Its nice to talk to people who understand. Reading the boards has helped already.
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Re: Joining all of you who understand#

  • triciasmith1triciasmith1 member
    It's so emotional going through this, isn't it??? I work in a hospital doing labor and delivery, NICU, antepartum and postpartum care. And some of the people I have taken care of in the last 6 years on womens services just make me sick!!! 6th baby, no custody of any because of drugs and other poor choices. 16 or 17 year olds having their 2nd babies already. Some days it all just gets me down and I have a hard time going to my job. But I adore taking care of those beautiful babies and being a part of someone's delivery is amazing and those are the things I have to hold into and not get down.
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  • pumaprnc7pumaprnc7 member
    Welcome and good luck!!!

    ME:37 DH:30

    MARRIED: 07/19/2010, TTC #1: 07/19/2010

    DX: PCOS, First IUI: 10/01/2015, BFN

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  • SoverthisSoverthis member
    I feel ya! It is so hard to feel sane and not like a brat when something you want so bad (and should come easily) is so easy for others. Infertility is something I do not wish upon anyone. I find myself apologizing to my husband for being a crazy person quite often! Have you and your hubby started any testing? That helps me a bit, feeling like I am doing something. We started with a sperm analysis an HSG. The dr can tell ya where t go from there depending on your results. Good luck to you and your husband!
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  • Ducks&CatsDucks&Cats member
    one year ago when we started ttc I knew by the same time next year I would have a baby or at least be in my third trimester. Well here I am a year later and I have not ovulated once. I don't like to tell people about my struggles because it's too hard on me. I turn to TB to help vent with women who understand.
    TTC since May 2015 with domestic partner of 13 years. Me 33 OH 33.  No ovulation or natural menstruation. Normal SA.
    Diagnosed PCOS February 2016
    First cycle 50mg Clomid 5/3/16, O'd CD 19 BFN
    Second cycle 50mg Clomid 6/1/16 O'd CD 18 BFN
    Third cycle Clomid 6/29/16 O'd CD 16 BFP @11dpo!
    EDD April 3 and praying things work out!
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  • mountainladymountainlady member
    triciasmith1 that must be so hard... good on ya for keeping positive!

    childcaremama watching all the happy accidents is heartbreaking. You know you should just be happy for them, but the inner-jealous-vixen just can't shut her trap! If you find a way to get past it, please share the wisdom!
    Me: 34 DH: 32
    TTC #1: Oct 2015
    DX: Unexplained - all tests normal
    TXX:
    Jan '17 - 1st round of Letrozole 25mg CD1-9... BFN
    Feb '17 - 2nd round of Letrozole 25mg CD1-9... BFN
    Mar '17 - 3rd round of Letrozole 25mg CD1-9 + IUI... BFP!!!!!! 


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