So I know there is a thread on this, but it's buried down a bit on the board. I came across this article, and I wanted to make sure everyone who participated in that thread got to read it. I cried reading it! It's exactly what I needed to hear, and I hope it's what you need to hear as well!
https://www.ramshackleglam.com/2015/07/30/the-post-i-wish-id-read-before-having-my-second-child/
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