I just found out that a coworker named Whitney is actually a guy. He works in an office in Texas and I've never actually talked to him on the phone so it's been strictly email communication. Why didn't someone tell me this?! I'm pretty sure I've told him "thank you ma'am" before... oops.
Me: 24 DH: 27 High School Sweethearts: 10/13/06 Married: 10/13/13 Baby #1 EDD: 3/20/17
wtf new neighbors? in the last 2 1/2 years I only heard our prior neighbors, which included two rambunctious boys, when they turned on the faucet for a bath. (town house) These people are so loud!! I hear them stomping up and down the stairs, screaming, and doing God knows what else. The neighbors behind us have heard them while sitting in their living room and they are a good 20 yards behind them and not connected! What are you people doing? Actually, I don't care, just please stop.
In an effort to help, (after me nagging endlessly) DH vacuumed the house.. including the stairs which took forever. So I go to vacuum the couches and within a minute of turning it on I can tell it's just making noise and not actually working. Seriously?!?! You used the vacuum for hours and didn't notice it wasn't working???? WTF!?! I went out and got a new vacuum and had to redo everything which was gross so I know the vacuum didn't just break.
My WTF is about my philandering coworker. I cannot. stand. this. woman. Not only is she a cheating piece of shit, she's also SUPER dramatic. Every single thing has to be a big production and she's all woe is me. She thrives on drama and she could easily change things about her life to where she would live drama free, but oh no, who wants that? Yesterday she slipped and fell on some ice by her back door, which I'm sure hurt like hell because been there done that, but holy jeez you would think this woman severed her spine with the way she's carrying on. Every time she stands up, it's all, "oh, ouch, ooh, aah, oh my back, oh I need a nice warm bath, ugh I can't stand this pain, OUCH, OWIE IT HURTS!". I mean come on! My toddler doesn't even act like this. I finally told her earlier that if it hurts that bad then she needs to go home. In her most pitiful sounding voice she says, "oh no, I'll just push through." I really wanted to say that if she stays here at work then to please save us the pitiful narrative, but of course that would make me the bad person and then I'd have to hear about her complaining to people about how I'm just so mean. It's a lose lose situation!
@kiyamurph go to your boss and tell them that you're concerned that she may have really hurt herself and there may be a workers comp case so she should probably be taken to the ER to be checked out.
My WTF is a lady from my church this weekend - she actually had the nerve to come right out and ask me how much weight I had gained. I mean really - who the hell thinks that is an appropriate question???????????
Me 29 I DH 28 Married in April 2007 One Furbaby - Adorable Pitt Mix 15 Months TTC....2nd Cycle of Letrozole - Success! Expecting our first two little miracles - Boy/Girl Twins! - EDD March 3, 2017 High Risk Pregnancy - Type 1 Diabetic; Hypothyroidism; Di/Di Twin Pregnancy
My OB office (usually love them) have the results of my 1-hr GD test locked online so I can't see them until after my monthly appointment with them tomorrow. I have very little patience, I just want to know either way... I don't want to call them today when clearly I'll get the result tomorrow, but I am SO SO TEMPTED. WHYYYYYYY
Seriously, everything is pissing me off/rubbing me the wrong way today. I probably should have called in to work because I can't even...
I guess my real answer is the weather. High of 17 degrees (F) today (which is higher than predicted earlier this week...), low of -2. Colder tomorrow, and then when it heats up to a balmy 21 degrees on Friday and Saturday it is expected to snow a foot. Why couldn't the winter I'm pregnant be a mild winter?!?!
@kiyamurph go to your boss and tell them that you're concerned that she may have really hurt herself and there may be a workers comp case so she should probably be taken to the ER to be checked out.
Girl yeah right! Omg I'd never hear the end of it. She hurt herself at home so it wouldn't be a worker's comp thing. If anything she needs to take her dramatic self to urgent care because unnecessary ED visits continues to drive up the cost of healthcare. Don't get me started on that particular subject!
I never ask for anything-i never buy anything. My DH would agree about this, almost to a fault. He's constantly telling me I should spend money. I'm so so frugal. I still have clothes from high school and haven't bought myself a coffee in 8months kind of frugal.
DH asked about Christmas gift, and I told him I would actually really like stacking ring(s) with one including DD's birthstone, nothing crazy fancy expensive/but also not costume jewelry, and that maybe for a birthday/anniversary/or Christmas gift next year he could get me this LOs stone. i told him this weeks ago and he seemed so excited I was going to let him spend money on me and thought it would be a great present. Flash forward, last night he says he's just going to wrap the (used $50) baby carrier I ordered myself last month... Because he can't buy me rings when I'm pregnant and my hands are fat...
@kjd291 I really hope your husband is just trying to surprise you. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and also keep bail money for you on the side in case you need it.
@direwolfmini@kiyamurph I wish. sadly no, not his MO. not that kind of smart or sneaky. Never surprised me with a single thing since the day i met him 6 years ago... so I'm not holding my breath.
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
@direwolfmini@kiyamurph I wish. sadly no, not his MO. not that kind of smart or sneaky. Never surprised me with a single thing since the day i met him 6 years ago... so I'm not holding my breath.
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
Can you tell him that giving you something that you've already purchased for yourself is not acceptable? I think if it were me, I'd have two gifts for him...one a real gift and the other something of his that he already owns. After you've opened yours, decide which to give him.
@direwolfmini@kiyamurph I wish. sadly no, not his MO. not that kind of smart or sneaky. Never surprised me with a single thing since the day i met him 6 years ago... so I'm not holding my breath.
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
Can you tell him that giving you something that you've already purchased for yourself is not acceptable? I think if it were me, I'd have two gifts for him...one a real gift and the other something of his that he already owns. After you've opened yours, decide which to give him.
The issue with this is his gift this year is something he already bought for himself. Hah. But his is a several hundred dollar computer part... so...
So this morning (and this may be tmi, sorry!) as I took my usual morning poop it really hurt and I noticed a lot of blood after. I know it's not something I should be concerned about the pregnancy with since it was from a different hole & of course I had to google it to put my mind at ease, it seems like something just tore...still made me super nervous & say wtf!
My WTF moment happened yesterday. Mind you, this is the first time someone has asked to feel my belly, and it was a guy??? I mean come on man. He is a friend of mine, but it was totally weird. Next time, I'm going to say helllllll NO.
also extending a WTF to the Army today. Well, not the whole Army so much as DH's command. All week I have been reminding him of my appointment tomorrow and making sure he can make it bc its an US plus glucose test and DS will want more entertainment than I'll be able to provide. Guess who just got the call that he can no longer make it to our 9am appointment! Thankfully my angel of a neighbor can watch him but shit like this happens all. the. time. We both cannot wait to move. I know the grass isn't always greener but it's hard to imagine it could get any browner...
I never ask for anything-i never buy anything. My DH would agree about this, almost to a fault. He's constantly telling me I should spend money. I'm so so frugal. I still have clothes from high school and haven't bought myself a coffee in 8months kind of frugal.
DH asked about Christmas gift, and I told him I would actually really like stacking ring(s) with one including DD's birthstone, nothing crazy fancy expensive/but also not costume jewelry, and that maybe for a birthday/anniversary/or Christmas gift next year he could get me this LOs stone. i told him this weeks ago and he seemed so excited I was going to let him spend money on me and thought it would be a great present. Flash forward, last night he says he's just going to wrap the (used $50) baby carrier I ordered myself last month... Because he can't buy me rings when I'm pregnant and my hands are fat...
Wow, hoping he said this and is really planning on surprising you. Can't even imagine how you are feeling.
@direwolfmini@kiyamurph I wish. sadly no, not his MO. not that kind of smart or sneaky. Never surprised me with a single thing since the day i met him 6 years ago... so I'm not holding my breath.
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
Can you tell him that giving you something that you've already purchased for yourself is not acceptable? I think if it were me, I'd have two gifts for him...one a real gift and the other something of his that he already owns. After you've opened yours, decide which to give him.
The issue with this is his gift this year is something he already bought for himself. Hah. But his is a several hundred dollar computer part... so...
@direwolfmini@kiyamurph I wish. sadly no, not his MO. not that kind of smart or sneaky. Never surprised me with a single thing since the day i met him 6 years ago... so I'm not holding my breath.
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
Can you tell him that giving you something that you've already purchased for yourself is not acceptable? I think if it were me, I'd have two gifts for him...one a real gift and the other something of his that he already owns. After you've opened yours, decide which to give him.
The issue with this is his gift this year is something he already bought for himself. Hah. But his is a several hundred dollar computer part... so...
You should go out and get the present yourself.
Yeah. It's just not the type of thing that I would ever buy for myself -- even if I made him wrap it for a "gift" just takes away the meaning/point for me, Plus I'm so bad at spending a couple bucks, I could never go through wirh it. Haha
Here's my WTF from yesterday: My assistant principal observed my class for 45 minutes yesterday. Who does a formal observation three days before Winter Break???
Here's my WTF from yesterday: My assistant principal observed my class for 45 minutes yesterday. Who does a formal observation three days before Winter Break???
My WTF It's freezing outside with wind chills below 0 . I need to wait for a shuttle to take me to my car and I can't even zip up my coat because of my protruding bump. Not looking forward to this winter.
My first year of teaching, my first formal observation was during "dead week" right before finals, and my second year, with a new assistant principal, she came in for a formal observation the day we returned from Thanksgiving break. Come on.
*TW* - BFP & MC in March 2016. BFP in June 2016; EDD March 2017. Samuel born February 2017!
Wtf. I'm at the Drs yesterday and he says come back in 3 weeks. I go to the receptionist to make the appt. and say I need to come back in 3 weeks. She says the dr is out that whole week..... and then says nothing just sits there for a whole minute looking at me. So I finallly say well what about the week after. She says he's booked that week and the sits there silently staring at me again. So I finally say can I see someone else then. And she seems shocked. Like she expected me to just leave and never come back cause the dr was booked up? Maybe I'll just keep this kid inside me forever then if the dr isn't available? She legit just sat there staring at me like I was going to give up and leave. So bizarre.
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High School Sweethearts: 10/13/06
Married: 10/13/13
Baby #1 EDD: 3/20/17
High School Sweethearts: 10/13/06
Married: 10/13/13
Baby #1 EDD: 3/20/17
Married in April 2007
One Furbaby - Adorable Pitt Mix
15 Months TTC....2nd Cycle of Letrozole - Success!
Expecting our first two little miracles - Boy/Girl Twins! - EDD March 3, 2017
High Risk Pregnancy - Type 1 Diabetic; Hypothyroidism; Di/Di Twin Pregnancy
WHYYYYYYY
Seriously, everything is pissing me off/rubbing me the wrong way today. I probably should have called in to work because I can't even...
I guess my real answer is the weather. High of 17 degrees (F) today (which is higher than predicted earlier this week...), low of -2. Colder tomorrow, and then when it heats up to a balmy 21 degrees on Friday and Saturday it is expected to snow a foot. Why couldn't the winter I'm pregnant be a mild winter?!?!
DH asked about Christmas gift, and I told him I would actually really like stacking ring(s) with one including DD's birthstone, nothing crazy fancy expensive/but also not costume jewelry, and that maybe for a birthday/anniversary/or Christmas gift next year he could get me this LOs stone. i told him this weeks ago and he seemed so excited I was going to let him spend money on me and thought it would be a great present.
Flash forward, last night he says he's just going to wrap the (used $50) baby carrier I ordered myself last month... Because he can't buy me rings when I'm pregnant and my hands are fat...
I would have LOST it. My husband said that my Christmas present is the double stroller I bought, so I feel your pain to some extent...
Do you think that he's serious? Would he set it up that he's not getting you anything so that the actual present could be a surprise?
Best case scenario at this point is that he gets me anything at all. Haha
@serenity13 i would have said wtf too lol
You should go out and get the present yourself.
My assistant principal observed my class for 45 minutes yesterday. Who does a formal observation three days before Winter Break???
*TW* - BFP & MC in March 2016.
BFP in June 2016; EDD March 2017.
Samuel born February 2017!