I recieve love best by Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. I give love best by Acts of Service- like if I love you I'm going to cook for you. If you're sad I'm cooking for you, to celebrate achievements I'm cooking etc. Or doing things to make someone's life easier- running errands, cleaning, that sort of thing.The way to DH's heart is definitely through his stomach so thats pretty clutch. He also takes Words of Affirmation to heart, it makes him feel really good to be validated or thanked for working hard. A little goes a long ways there.