For everyone due 3/7, 3/14, 3/21, or 3/28!
How far along are you?
How big is baby?
Upcoming appointments this week?
Any new symptoms or changes?
Rants/Raves/Questions?
GTKY: Have you definitively decided on a name? I know we have a board-wide post on this, but I'm curious to talk about this in a smaller group too!
Is there any meaning behind it? Are you concerned about a delivery room stand-off with your S/O? Give us the details.
Re: Tuesday Ticker Change 11.29.16
Sorry I've been MIA for the last 2 weeks but I'm back now, ladies!
Baby's name is Gabriel Michael. There's not a technical reason for us choosing this besides us just liking the name! However, Gabriel and Michael are both archangels so that's pretty cool. After we decided on the final name I realized that our last name also has 7 letters. Gabriel = 7 Michael = 7 Last Name = 7. I don't know what the plans are for his life but I have a feeling that it's going to be pretty darn special!
Not concerned about a delivery room standoff. DH and I are on the same page with all of this! I told him I want an unmedicated birth, if safe/possible, and he completely supports me. His comment was "you're the only woman I know that would be badass enough to have a baby without medicine" haha! Love his confidence in me
High School Sweethearts: 10/13/06
Married: 10/13/13
Baby #1 EDD: 3/20/17
As for the delivery room - we both want him to be there in the room but don't want him to really be doing anything other than holding my hand at the top of the bed haha...as a nervous FTM I'm just going to trust the medical team & will be taking all their recommendations, and DH is on board with that.
Raves - I ordered a bunch of stuff from JC Penney and forgot to change the shipping address. I haven't lived at this address in 2 years, but I sent jeans to my oldest son there last year. Well, $150 of stuff got delivered there yesterday and the new homeowner texted me this morning (how she got my number, IDK) to let me know my package is there!
We have definitely decided on a name. Her name is Norah Elizabeth Marie. I sing Norah Jones to my 9 month old to put him to sleep, Elizabeth is H's mom's middle name, Marie is one of my middle name's as well as my mom's middle name.
How far along are you? 27 weeks – whoa!
How big is baby? Lettuce
Upcoming appointments this week? I have an appointment today, but I’m kind of dreading it. Of course I’m excited to hear baby’s heart beat and have confirmation that everything is all good, but I’m feeling really frustrated with my practice. At 27 weeks, I have only seen my actual OB ONCE and for about 10 minutes overall. I am always seen by the nurse practitioner. I’m told there are also 2-3 other OBs who could potentially deliver me, depending on who is on call when I’m ready to go. I’m about 90% sure that if I don’t get some clarification and understanding as to WHY THE EFF I haven’t seen the actual doctor yet throughout this pregnancy, I’ll be switching practices after today. I love the nurse practitioner and as a general obgyny appointment, I wouldn’t care, but it seems insane that not only have I not met the other doctors, but I don’t even know my own this far along. Am I crazy? This is the exact opposite from my last pregnancy/OB.
Any new symptoms or changes? Nothing particularly new besides the constant urge to pee, especially when walking, and serious cramps during my commute to and from work. Sleeping is challenging, but I love feeling him move all the time.
Rants/Raves/Questions? Nothing that comes to mind.
GTKY: Have you definitively decided on a name? I know we have a board-wide post on this, but I'm curious to talk about this in a smaller group too!
Is there any meaning behind it?
Are you concerned about a delivery room stand-off with your S/O?
Give us the details. I think we’re
about 90% set on Evander James. Evander is
the name we said we’d use if DD was a boy and it just sort of stuck around
until now, and James is DH’s dad’s name.
He’d love if we could use it as a first name, but I’m pretty strongly
opposed. We’re still keeping our options
open incase we find something else we love before DS is born, but I’d guess
that we’ll end up with Evander. J
As far as the delivery room, if my DH had his way, I would go in the woods and give birth next to a log or something like that. He is anti-doctors and hospitals (feels it is all just a money-making scheme) and he watched The Business of Being Born and bought everything that documentary showed. That being said, I am 36 and will probably have this baby when I am 37 (baby due at end of March, my birthday is March 10) and I don't want to take the risks seeing as I am already AMA. And if we do in fact have placenta previa, then all ideals go out the window because if it doesn't resolve itself by week 36-ish, we do an early c-section no matter what since it isn't safe to vaginally deliver a baby in those conditions. So, basically, he has made his opinions known and I have told him that I hear him but since it is my body that has to go through it, I ultimately get the final say. And really, the most important thing is to get out little guy here safe and healthy, no matter the method of birth.
@hippiemama I'm sorry you're frustrated with your practice. That doesn't seem right to me that you've barely seen your doctor at this point. Have you requested to see a doctor and they keep giving you the NP?
@thisisallyson Good luck with your measurements tomorrow. T&P to you!
My heartburn has been more active and I find myself getting less comfortable when staying in one position too long. Sleep has gotten much better and I find myself sleeping through the night more consistently. However, I am still struggling to sleep in like past 7am. I get up everyday for work around 6:15 and on the weekends the body just doesn't want to let me sleep past 7am. I keep telling it that sleep is going to be gone very soon. I think I'd rather be up and about instead of just being in bed. Still discharge and growing belly.
Rave - We got our car seat! Thank you Americans for Black Friday - 30% off my Car seat. Not bad!
Another Rave - Loving this course I am in with Intermediate studies for Education. I am hoping it will give me the edge to get back into teaching and on a school board.
Rant - Because I know work is coming to an end in a couple of months, my motivation is starting to go down hill. I could care less about my job and cannot wait to be with my baby girl. I literally tell myself .. only ___ many days. I also hope that after Mat Leave, I am able to get back into the teaching of children world and stay away from corporate world forever. I am so not built for it. Some people are amazing for it, but I am just not.
I had 6 girls names that I loved. My husband liked one. lol Least he did like one. We are pretty serious about the name Kate Mary O(last name). Kate doesn't have much connections with us, but Mary does. Mary is my husbands Aunt who passed away a couple of years ago. He has such fond memories with her and thinks it would be nice to honour her. I think it works! I do not think any stand off in the delivery room will happen, unless its a boy haha.
High School Sweethearts: 10/13/06
Married: 10/13/13
Baby #1 EDD: 3/20/17
Late to the party this week!!
@babyspice I feel like it’s going so fast too!! I really live the name Miles.
@spartanrd4 Evelyn was on my list of names for my little lady. DH vetoed it. Leah Evelyn is beautiful. My hand swelling has been better this week than last too. I hope it continues! I felt like I had sausage fingers for a few weeks!
@OctoberLove13 I love your names and the lucky 7s. That is super neat.
@serenity13 I’m glad that your cervix is hanging in & yay for movement. It’s AMAZING isn’t it!!!
@DrillsergeantCat I’m so glad the new owner of your old home is so nice & honest!!
@hippiemama I would be super frustrated by that too. My practice has been awesome about helping me get visits scheduled with all the docs who take call and could deliver our LO. I personally would express your concern at this visit and then if they don’t address it change in a month, but that’s just me. How did it go? I realize I am a few days late.
@thisisallyson I think my DH is a bit like yours. He seems a bit disconnected from planning things for the baby. I think he may still be in self protection mode from our losses. I also LOLed imagining you clutching a tree popping baby out in the winter woods. FX your placement moves on up ASAP!!
@gracie4400 I am mystified by my Los sleep schedule. It’s all over the place. Some nights I have been up lately (because of a cold) and she has moved around some, but not every night. The only time she is consistently wild is after dinner when I am relaxing.
@klz0330 I am starting to get that full feeling too. It seems to have changed suddenly in the last few days. I really need to adjust my portion sizes because I am tired of being uncomfortable!
@MsTurney I share all the symptom comments you have J
How far along are you? 23+2
How big is baby? Grapefruit, box of mac & cheese (mmm)
Upcoming appointments this week? I had one on Tuesday. All was status quo. Next week’s appointment is an important one. Will post more about that in next wks ticker change.
Any new symptoms or changes? Honestly things are pretty much status quo, except I am feeling SOOO full after eating all the time now. I really need to teach my brain to eat smaller portions and eat more frequently because what I’m doing now (how I normally ate) really isn’t working for me anymore. Also, carpal tunnel on the right is HORRIBLE. I HAVE to get a brace on my way home today. My hand is weak & a mess. I’m ready to just go see an hand specialist and get a steroid shot in it…..
Rants/Raves/Questions? Not really. I wish my hand wasn’t numb 24/7 & I am trying not to be freaked out about the # on the scale. Otherwise no rants. I picked up some paint samples on the weekend for the nursery. That’s a definite RAVE J
GTKY: Have you definitively decided on a name? I know we have a board-wide post on this, but I'm curious to talk about this in a smaller group too!
Is there any meaning behind it?
Are you concerned about a delivery room stand-off with your S/O?
Give us the details. UGH DH & I can’t agree on the name! Middle is done, Rose the name of my paternal
grandma. His pick is Amelia Rose. Amelia is a lovely name but it’s becoming so
popular I really don’t want that to be her name. I told him I would compromise with Emilia
but he doesn’t like the E spelling……. My pick is Evangeline Rose. I love this name & am not going to back
down for Amelia! I told him that I am
the one who signs the birth certificate LOL.
This name thing may be our delivery room showdown! IDK how my DH is going to be at the delivery
honestly. I love him, I hope that he is
a rock for me & is amazingly supportive. I suspect I might want to smack him
for downplaying all I am going through.
That is the only thing I think might annoy me.
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19
My name is Alexis so that one is out. It's is beautiful though
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19