R/R: last week was very busy, so I didn't post here. I'm a little sad our timing for our first TTC cycle wasnt better but we all have to start somewhere.
CS/Q: I sleep with my mouth open and I think it's been affecting my temps. Last night, for some reason, I think I slept with my mouth closed (or at least more than I usually do) and got my first post O temp where I think it should have been. Do you all see/experience something similar if you're a mouth breather when sleeping?
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I never go out for mani/pedis so I try to do that for myself at least once a month.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I got to acupuncture 2x a month.. and I'm going to the chiropractor weekly (trying to get my spine in great shape for carrying a baby). I also get a massage once a month.. so basically, I'm spending a fair amount of dough on self care.
R/R: The Sunday blues are already setting in. I feel like my 4 day weekend flew by! Work will be very busy for the next few weeks, so that's definitely adding to my anxiety.
CS/Q: --
GTKY: I'm definitely an introvert and try to set aside time to just be alone. It sounds silly, but I feel so much better after half an hour of walking around Target by myself, or being home alone and watching crappy TV.
@nia23 -2 is still great timing! I remember a poster in the grad thread from a month ago only had -3 timing! If you think that mouth breathing is affecting your temps, you may want to consider temping vaginally.
Me: 32 H: 32 Married: October 2009 TTC#1: August 2016
@Peedy yay! glad to see your temp back up!! @nia23 when i temp'd orally, my temps were all over the map. I switched on the start of a new cycle to vaginally and they have really given me more accurate readings, as well as a much prettier chart. If you're not too thrown off by the idea, I suggest it if you have to continue temping next month I wash it before I use it again. It alleviates a lot of the second guessing if you have a wonky temp and wonder if it was due to breathing.
Month/Cycle: 1st month trying that I've actually Ovulated, been "trying" with an-O cycles since August
CD/DPO: FF switched my O date forward one day (ughhh) when I input more info so I used to be CD 15/5 but now looking like CD 15/4
Timing: depends.. either -3, -1, +1 or -4, -2, 0
Testing: Maybe Dec 3.
R/R: Have one more day in the weekend, kept thinking yesterday was Sunday!
CS/Q:Not quite positive what to do with FF CH right now. I had taken an early temp on CD 11 (4:30 instead of 6am) and if I use the 4:30 temp, it says I O'd on Wednesday CD11. If I use the 6am temp (I didn't get out of bed or even move) it says I O'd on Tuesday CD11. Any stalkers with advice?
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I exercise almost daily. It's my me time, whether it's running, walking or some boot camp type program.
Thanks @JulesDP and @Flinstone for the advice and support! I haven't told anyone that DH and I are are TTC so having the advice of you ladies means a lot to me.
@Peedy - your self care routine sounds amazing! @Flinstone - YAY for actually Oing! So excited for you!
Month/Cycle: 9/7
CD/DPO: 17/5
Timing: -4, -2, O
Testing: 12/5 (Day AF is due)
R/R: So yesterday I was letting my dog run in the backyard like usual, then I remembered I hadn't grabbed the mail in a few days so went up front to grab it. Our mailbox is on the other side of the street, so I usually just let my dog run free in the front yard while I cross to go grab it. Yesterday, when I turned around to cross the street from getting the mail I saw a car coming fast (faster than they should on our street) and my dog running straight towards me. He did end up getting hit, but is fine. He's a little bruised probably on his back left hip but thank God that's it. He's limping just a little but mostly using the sore leg. It was so scary! I saw it was about to happen and couldn't really do anything about it. The guy who hit him stopped to see if he was okay. I said he looked fine and thanks for stopping, then ran to tend to my dog. Poor little pooch.
CS/Q: Nada. Temps are finally back up to normal post-O temps with my dumb thermometer. Mabis is on the way to save the day!
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I used to be in a really good habit of seeing a chiropractor regularly, but since we've moved I haven't found a new one. I just got a recommendation from a coworker the other day, so hopefully I'll pick that back up as my best self care habit. And I think our insurance covers some of it, so it won't be as expensive as before (my chiro where we used to live had been working with a group, but then started her own company and couldn't take insurance yet, but I followed her because she was great. Which meant it was all out of pocket.)
R/R: I'm feeling you on the Sunday blues, @JulesDP. I'm not feeling too sad about going back to work, more so about missing friends I don't live near anymore.
CS/Q: No thanks.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Frequent exercise is definitely my self care. Going to either go to the gym or try to do a brisk walk today to help combat the blues.
@Flinstone glad you find positivity in exercise as well! Sorry I missed your post where you said that earlier. I'm on mobile so I end up missing a bunch. As far as the temp question, I had the exact same thing happen this week and ended up going with a later temp that was higher because it matched O symptoms better for the day FF gave me crosshairs. That may not help you at all, but figured I'd share.
@KhRun17 SO glad your dog is ok. That would be really scary.
Side note and question: I realized that some people tag me with an "i" at the beginning, but it should be an "l" as in "L"...do you think I should change my username?
@KhRun17 awe, poor dog!! I'm glad he made it through ok. @Peedy totes jelly about your self care!
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD/DPO: 24/10
Timing: -4, -1
Testing: probably 12dpo
R/R: welp, back to work tomorrow. I really like my job so I don't mind!
CS/Q: stopped charting after O
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? My work has free yoga classes on Monday's and thursdays at lunchtime, so I do that when I have time.
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
@KhRun17 I am so glad your pup is okay. I would have been a mess. Even if she was fine.
Month/Cycle: 4
CD/DPO: 25/5
Timing: -3, -1
Testing: Wednesday? But I'm not sure if I should get AF Wednesday or Friday.
R/R: DO NOT want to go back to work.
CS/Q: nothing- my chart is weird and I don't know if I should expect AF on weds or fri. I usually O on cd18 but I O'd cd20 this time. And my LP is usually 10 days but sometimes 8. So I guess we will see.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
@Flinstone, I think you Oed on Wednesday. The reason is because your temp jumped significantly. I always O 2 days after my OPK. FF can be discouraging. I believe it has my CH wrong as well this cycle. It usually self corrects. We'll see. You have me intrigued about temping vaginally. You just use a regular digital thermometer? @KhRun17, I'm glad your dog is okay! @BertieMeetsGertie: free yoga at work? Lucky!
Month/Cycle: 3/2
CD/DPO: 39 (see signature)/ I think 4DPO FF thinks 6DPO
Timing: Timing on my theory O, -1, -2, -4 Timing on FF theory +1, O, -2
Testing: Saturday or Sunday. It's hard to hold out!
R/R: Like everyone, I don't want my long weekend to be over.
CS/Q: I asked this yesterday but not sure anyone saw: do you guys notice a difference in your temps/coverline based on season and how cold it is in your house? Does temping vaginally change this??
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I exercise (barre and yoga classes) 3-5 times a week.
TTC since 8/7/16 BFP 9/13/16 MMC 10/18/16 D&C 10/20/16
Testing: BFN on 9dpo (PM). Not testing again until 13dpo. I've got a minor retinal surgery that morning and would like to know before the surgery.
R/R: Not looking forward to going back to work tomorrow. The number of emails will probably be insane.
CS/Q: none
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Crossfit is my day to day stress relief. I also get regular chiropractic treatment (mostly maintenance after a bulging disc earlier this year) and I have a massage therapist come to my house every other week (my indulgence).
Together 2007 | Married 2011 | Me: 36 | DH: 38 Adopted Furbaby: 2014 TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17 TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
R/R: I ordered a Mabis on Amazon and it came yesterday but it was definitively a fake. Has this happened to anyone else?
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I love taking bubbles baths with a glass of wine and a good book. I try to do it once a week, but I haven't been doing it lately. I also like to knit at the end of my day just to unwind and relax.
Me: 26 | DH: 26
Married: 08/23/2014
TTC Baby #1: August 2016-February 2017 BFP 02/25/2017, EDD 11/07/2017
@JulesDP I am right there with you girl. The next few weeks at work are going to be so stressful, I am so anxious. And like you I am an introvert so one my self-care activities is just finding "quiet" time for me.
R/R: Sorry I've been MIA ladies, we had company that just left this morning. Today is kind of a blah day. H has a migraine and I re injured an old hip injury yesterday so I'm down for the count. I had hip surgery three years ago and every now and then it acts up and I can't even walk. It sucks.
CS/Q: Nothing today.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? My work has a gym in the building so I try to make myself take a lunch and go to the gym 3x a week.
@daisymae6215: I love bubble baths! I recently discovered Dr. Teal's bubble baths and epsom salts. I buy the Soothe & Lavender bubble bath and the avocado epsom salt (moisturizes the skin). I can only tolerate about 10 minutes in the tub though before I start getting light headed.
@BertieMeetsGertie: do you work at Google?!?! Haha, j/k. I guess anytime someone says their work offers cool free things, I automatically think of Google (or at least it's portraying on the Internship). But that's really cool they offer free yoga!
nia23: Welcome! Sorry if you have been on for a while, first time I am noticing your post. I feel ya on the timing frustration. I think we hit -1, but not 100% sure. This was our first official cycle trying (NTNP last month) and DH had some performance issues since I stressed him by being like "OPK is positive, let's do it!!!!" Learned my lesson...going to be much more relaxed and subtle next month. FX though for this cycle!
@baileygomez thanks! I've been lurking for a couple months and just started posting here and there in the past month or so. Fingers crossed for you - and I hear ya about the performance pressure. There's gotta be a happy medium!
@daisymae6215 i got a fake when I ordered my mabis too. It's top care brand but it works fine. I couldn't deal with the stress of complaining to Amazon
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
R/R: All week I've been planning to test this morning but yesterday I was so anxious and nervous about the thought of having to see more BFNs, I decided to wait. I wish I could wait until the end of the week when AF is due but my doctor will be calling with the results of bloodwork tomorrow and I want to test before she calls so if it's bad news I won't breakdown at work. It's weird because I'm usually a POAS addict but I'm terrified about testing this month.
CS/Q:
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Nothing really, I always say I'm going to go to the gym more for "me time" but I only make it about once or twice a week.
@mrsegan13 yes! I definitely have a difference in temperatures depending on the temperature of my house. Sometimes I clench my thermometer in my hand before turning it on and putting it in my mouth because the thermometer cools down my mouth so significantly when our house is cold.
R/R: Not sure why I am posting here. AF isn't due to arrive for another 5 days and I had very little spotting this afternoon. On top of that we are having our first snow storm of the year. Yuck. It's blowing and gross out.
CS/Q:
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I walk our dogs daily. I find it really clears my mind.
@britvahok FX for you! @jess0211 sorry about your hip, it sucks to be injured when you love working out. @FLAshley oh man! a snow storm does sound pretty gross right now.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 24/9
Timing: -5 -3 -2 +1 (according to FF)
Testing: 12/1 aka 13 DPO ( I didn't even bring any pee sticks on my work trip! Such restraint! I did have a dream that I got 2 positive HPT last night though, ugh )
R/R: Rant: I'm out of town for 3 nights preparing regional stores for a visit from our CEO. It's an exciting opportunity but I have to run around and travel again this weekend. I am feeling nervous about work and about testing on Thursday. Rave: the hotel my manager booked is really cute with lots of good shops within walking distance.
CS/Q: Ovagraph (the app suggested by TCOYF) thinks I O'd on CD 18 and give me CH for that day.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Window shopping! I love zoning out with a mindless TV show on Hulu and putting stuff in my virtual shopping cart. I have a shopping budget so if I have room then I will actually buy stuff here and there too.
Me & DH: 29 Married June 2015 NTNP January 2016 TTC #1 October 2016
Re: TWW Sunday 11/27
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I never go out for mani/pedis so I try to do that for myself at least once a month.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I got to acupuncture 2x a month.. and I'm going to the chiropractor weekly (trying to get my spine in great shape for carrying a baby). I also get a massage once a month.. so basically, I'm spending a fair amount of dough on self care.
GTKY: I'm definitely an introvert and try to set aside time to just be alone. It sounds silly, but I feel so much better after half an hour of walking around Target by myself, or being home alone and watching crappy TV.
@nia23 -2 is still great timing! I remember a poster in the grad thread from a month ago only had -3 timing! If you think that mouth breathing is affecting your temps, you may want to consider temping vaginally.
Married: October 2009
TTC#1: August 2016
DD Born 10/20/17
@nia23 when i temp'd orally, my temps were all over the map. I switched on the start of a new cycle to vaginally and they have really given me more accurate readings, as well as a much prettier chart. If you're not too thrown off by the idea, I suggest it if you have to continue temping next month I wash it before I use it again. It alleviates a lot of the second guessing if you have a wonky temp and wonder if it was due to breathing.
Month/Cycle: 1st month trying that I've actually Ovulated, been "trying" with an-O cycles since August
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I exercise almost daily. It's my me time, whether it's running, walking or some boot camp type program.
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
@Flinstone - YAY for actually Oing! So excited for you!
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I used to be in a really good habit of seeing a chiropractor regularly, but since we've moved I haven't found a new one. I just got a recommendation from a coworker the other day, so hopefully I'll pick that back up as my best self care habit. And I think our insurance covers some of it, so it won't be as expensive as before (my chiro where we used to live had been working with a group, but then started her own company and couldn't take insurance yet, but I followed her because she was great. Which meant it was all out of pocket.)
Dating: 11/14/2010
Married: 10/18/2014
TTC April 2016
BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Frequent exercise is definitely my self care. Going to either go to the gym or try to do a brisk walk today to help combat the blues.
Married: 6/10/11
*TW BFP: 12/4/16 EDD: 8/12/17
@KhRun17 @peedy thanks! haha so happy!
DS born 9.17
TFMR 10.19
@KhRun17 SO glad your dog is ok. That would be really scary.
Side note and question: I realized that some people tag me with an "i" at the beginning, but it should be an "l" as in "L"...do you think I should change my username?
Married: 6/10/11
*TW BFP: 12/4/16 EDD: 8/12/17
@Peedy totes jelly about your self care!
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
My work has free yoga classes on Monday's and thursdays at lunchtime, so I do that when I have time.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
@BertieMeetsGertie: free yoga at work? Lucky!
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
I exercise (barre and yoga classes) 3-5 times a week.
BFP 9/13/16
MMC 10/18/16
D&C 10/20/16
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
Crossfit is my day to day stress relief. I also get regular chiropractic treatment (mostly maintenance after a bulging disc earlier this year) and I have a massage therapist come to my house every other week (my indulgence).
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
Massages I buy groupons or bundles and get one once a month. Averages to about $40 (after tip) for 60 minutes of bliss and relaxation.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? I love taking bubbles baths with a glass of wine and a good book. I try to do it once a week, but I haven't been doing it lately. I also like to knit at the end of my day just to unwind and relax.
BFP 02/25/2017, EDD 11/07/2017
@Flinstone congratson Oing
@KhRun17 oh no! I am so sorry about your pup I am so glad he is okay though! Scary!
@BertieMeetsGertie that's awesome that your work does that!
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
My work has a gym in the building so I try to make myself take a lunch and go to the gym 3x a week.
@BertieMeetsGertie: do you work at Google?!?! Haha, j/k. I guess anytime someone says their work offers cool free things, I automatically think of Google (or at least it's portraying on the Internship). But that's really cool they offer free yoga!
nia23: Welcome! Sorry if you have been on for a while, first time I am noticing your post. I feel ya on the timing frustration. I think we hit -1, but not 100% sure. This was our first official cycle trying (NTNP last month) and DH had some performance issues since I stressed him by being like "OPK is positive, let's do it!!!!" Learned my lesson...going to be much more relaxed and subtle next month. FX though for this cycle!
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
@daisymae6215 i got a fake when I ordered my mabis too. It's top care brand but it works fine. I couldn't deal with the stress of complaining to Amazon
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
@juliebeannn GL with your eye surgery!
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Probably yoga, though I have not been very good about it lately
@Nia23 if you are always a mouth breather than it's probably not a big deal as your looking for the trend.
@khrun17 that is so scary I'm glad your pup is ok though!
@jess0211 I hope your hip feels better soon
@lmmtravels I'd leave your name
@juliebeannn hopefully it was just to early to test
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
I get my eyebrows professionally done once in a while.
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ? Nothing really, I always say I'm going to go to the gym more for "me time" but I only make it about once or twice a week.
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
I walk our dogs daily. I find it really clears my mind.
@JulesDP I really enjoy my alone time too.
@Flinstone Congrats on O !!
@KhRun17 Oh, your poor pup ! Glad he is okay and that the driver stopped to see that he was was okay !
@Immtravels Sorry I see your feeling down in the dumps today ! Treat yourself.
@Brooklyngirl6 When you get KU you will need a back up self care plan !
@jess0211 I hope your feeling better soon.
@britvahok FX for you !!!!!
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@flashley don't count yourself out yet, yesterday was still early to test and your chart is pretty!
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
@jess0211 sorry about your hip, it sucks to be injured when you love working out.
@FLAshley oh man! a snow storm does sound pretty gross right now.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
GTKY: What is something you do for self care ? How often do you try to do it ?
Window shopping! I love zoning out with a mindless TV show on Hulu and putting stuff in my virtual shopping cart. I have a shopping budget so if I have room then I will actually buy stuff here and there too.
Married June 2015
NTNP January 2016
TTC #1 October 2016
Chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/50e54f/
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility