Trying to Get Pregnant

WTO Saturday 11/26

Month/Cycle: 

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R/R: 

CS/Q: 

GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 


"It's time to try defying gravity."

Me: 38  DH: 38
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree

Re: WTO Saturday 11/26

  • adiratadirat member
    edited November 2016



    Month/Cycle: 6/7

    CD: 16

    WAYDTGKU: Temping, CM, OPKs, PNVs, CoQ10, B6, B12, vitamin D, green tea, avoiding soy. Pelvic MRI in December, boo.

    R/R: I had this whole plan to do EOD from the first day I saw EWCM until 2 days after temp spike (or longer with EWCM continuing) but then with the holiday, we didn't even get close. I think yesterday was O day and if so, our timing will be -5, -2, and +1. I feel out already :( 

    CS/Q: Meh. Didn't temp consistently over the holiday or do twice-per-day OPKs. I think yesterday was O day because I had my severe left side pain, a frankly disgusting amount of EWCM, and a near-positive OPK last night when we got home. My temp this morning was in a gray area -- 97.2 over my usual coverline of 97.1. Sigh. 

    GTKY: Tough question. I really loved this poem when I discovered it in college: https://hrsbstaff.ednet.ns.ca/smileymi/Michael's PDF Poetry/Highway Michigan.pdf



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  • Month/Cycle: 3/3

    CD: 15

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, CP, OPK, PNV, CoQ10, B complex, magnesium, PreSeed, DTD EOD

    R/R: So confused. Had a blazing positive OPK yesterday afternoon around 3 and now it's negative again without a temp rise. I was pretty sure O would happen last night, but we will keep HIO. I'm kinda happy O didn't happen yet since DH couldn't finish this morning before work. I knew he would drink too much! We will try again tomorrow. Just keep temping! Just keep temping!  :/

    CS/Q: It's just gonna show that I haven't O yet!


    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 
     "She Walks in Beauty" by Lord Byron and "The Road Less Traveled" by Robert Frost 

    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • Month/Cycle: 6/8

    CD: 15

    WAYDTGKU: This part always makes me feel like a broken record

    R/R: DH went home last night but at least we were able to sneak away and HIO once more before he did. 
    Also, still working on my damn continuing education credits.  I'm about 2/3 of the way done with my current 10 credit class and then have to do 9 more.  Maybe next time I won't procrastinate quite so bad...

    CS/Q: nope

    GTKY: I'm not sure why, but ever since the first time I heard it, I loved "A Poison Tree" by William Blake.




    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • @adirat You still got decent timing with -2!  Also, your link didn't work, but I was able to find the poem.  That's a really nice one!

    @NYTino24 Maybe it's a slow rise instead...?  Hopefully it was just a false surge and you'll pick up the actual one soon!


    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • @NYTino24 Keep HIO! Maybe today's the day.

    @lulu1180 Thanks, though we have had such better timing and got nothing so it's hard to feel optimistic. I have always liked your poem too. 


  • @adirat I know what you mean.  After the cycle that I got nearly perfect timing and still bfn, I stopped feeling any kind of hope that it might be "our cycle"


    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • Month/Cycle: 3/4

    CD: 3

    WAYDTGKU: HIO, PNV, OPKs, RRLT

    R/R: Going to my H 10 year HS reunion tonight. That will be....fun. I guess. Luckily my period is basically gone so we finally get to bang. TMI- Our sex drives are really high, so with the exception of my period or a business trip, we rarely go more than 48 hours without having sex, and its been like 3 days and I am DYING

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 

    Its A.A. Milne (author of Winnie the Pooh). Its the first poem I knew as a child and I still love it even though its small and silly and dumb

    Wherever I am, there's always Pooh
    There's always Pooh and me
    Whatever I do, he wants to do
    'Where are you going today?' says Pooh
    'Well that's very odd, cuz I was too!'
    'Let's go together', said Pooh, said he
    'Let's go together', said Pooh

    @adirat -2 is a great number! You are most definitely not out

    @NYTino24 hopefully you haven't O'd yet!

    @lulu1180 I loooove the poison tree
  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD: 7

    WAYDTGKU: PNVs, temping, OPKs, CoQ10, cutting out alcohol

    R/R: I ran a half on Thursday and I'm still really sore. And I have another half on Sunday. This time last year it would have been a breeze but I'm actually worried about Sunday.  It's because I haven't trained at my own pace at all. And onThirsfay I ran at my own pace. **TW. On Sunday, we'll be going slower because I'll be running with my KU bff (which is the pace I've been training at) so hopefully it'll be ok **TW end. We head over to the race at noon to go to the Expo so we'll spend the night there. 

    Oh! And I finished Gilmore Girls last night.  I think I liked it but I don't really like who Rory's become and I feel like the ending did make sense but it was still a cliffhanger instead of wrapping everything up nicely. And there's a TW in it. 

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt. 
    This used to be my fav when I was younger. I'm not so optimistic anymore. And I've seen this with different titles


  • ChefRamsayChefRamsay member
    edited November 2016

    Month/Cycle: 
    10/3AL
    CD: 
    10
    WAYDTGKU: 
    BBT CM 
    R/R: 
    Rant: I'm started using the bump app and it eats random parts of my post all the time! I'm going back to using mobile in browser.

    Rave: We're going bowling later with my H family (it's what we do for Thanksgiving). Then I'm planning on cleaning and drinking wine tonight and watching way too much tv.
    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 
    I loved reading Shel Silverstein and Robert Frost to my DD when she was little. My favorite poem is Happiness by Priscilla Leonard. 

    **TW**
    Me: 30  DH:30
    Together 2003, Married 2011
    DD: July 2005
    BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
    BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017

    TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!


  • Month/Cycle: 15\15

    CD: 7

     WAYDTGKU: app, ovulation strips, metforminin

    R/R: I am glad that thanksgiving is done. We had a houseful and my mom in law and sister in law argued most of the time. Just finished cleaning the house and dishes yesterday. Today is my bday so I am going to spend the day relaxing. 

    CS/Q: I haven't done charting bc I get up at a different time each day depending on what have to do at work that day. I know I need to. 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 
    i don't have a favorite poem. 
  • Hi gang. I took yesterday off from bumping to binge watch the Gilmore Girls reboot. I loved it but I have to agree with @purplg8r that I was surprised how they ended it. I guess that was always how it was supposed to end. 

    Month/Cycle: 7/8

    CD: 10

    WAYDTGKU: pnv, temping, opks, hio 

    R/R: my temps are really high every morning and have been almost all week. So weird. 

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 

    This would take a lot more thinking but there is an excerpt from TS Eliots Four Quarters that I really like. It starts off 'home is where one starts from'. I'll look it up later. 
    History and blog link in spoiler
    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

    Take a look at my blog


  • Month/Cycle: 13/14 ugh....

    CD: 24

    WAYDTGKU: charting, temping, checking cm, PNV

    R/R: I'm sorry for not posting much lately. We've had a lot going on and I've been stalking but just not posting. I'm really trying not to stress about all of this but it has been difficult, especially since I would have a 1 month old if I wouldn't have had a miscarriage in March. on top of that, my husband's cousin told him that his wife is pregnant. They have 4 kids (the youngest is 5) and she had her tubes tied and then reversed but was still told they couldn't get pregnant. The news devastated me, honestly. I try to be happy with people but it's so hard. No one really knows that we are struggling to get pregnant because they all feel that we should be done, but I know there is room for 1 more and I don't feel that our family is complete yet. I'm crossing my fingers for this month, it would make a wonderful holiday for us. 

    CS/Q: see chart below. I've been ovulating late the past few months, except for last month where it seemed I didn't ovulate. Do you think the big W on my chart means a win this month....Hahaha just playing but it is kind of funny!

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt......nothing for me here
    Married since 5/23/09
    Stepdaughter-2/17/02
    DS #1 born 1/25/10
    DS #2 born 4/25/12
    BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
    Trying for #4 since 11/2015
  • @adirat I'm sorry you feel your timing wasn't good. But -2 would be a good number. Hoping it is a good month for you.

    @NYTino24 boo for no O yet, but yay for more time to HIO. 

    @lulu1180 I agree that that part always makes me feel like I say the same thing over and over. 
    Married since 5/23/09
    Stepdaughter-2/17/02
    DS #1 born 1/25/10
    DS #2 born 4/25/12
    BFP 2/2016 M/C 3/2016 @ 5 weeks
    Trying for #4 since 11/2015
  • @busymommy23 Thanks :) I don't think you have ovulated yet. It may be that your body geared up to ovulate (based on two separate incidences of EWCM days apart) but didn't get there. The stress you're describing could contribute. I hope things even out for you too and O is right around the corner! Hugs, it's so hard to be struggling with TTC when others around you aren't. 


  • I meant to pop in earlier to say I'm moving over to TWW finally. See you all there soon :) and thanks for keeping me sane over Thanksgiving!
    Me:34 | DH: 35
    Married: 6/10/11
    *TW BFP: 12/4/16  EDD: 8/12/17
  • sheknows6sheknows6 member
    edited November 2016
    Month/Cycle: 2/3

    CD: 3

    WAYDTGKU: pnv's, opk's, temping 

    R/R: impatiently waiting to see an endocrinologist, my period was two days long again so I'm really positive this is impacting my fertility 

    CS/Q:  nothing to see here

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 

    Desiderata by Max Erhmann; sharing the whole thing because I need it today
      Go placidly amid the noise and haste,and remember what peace there may be in silence.As far as possible without surrenderbe on good terms with all persons.Speak your truth quietly and clearly;and listen to others,even the dull and the ignorant;they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons,they are vexations to the spirit.If you compare yourself with others,you may become vain and bitter;for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble;it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.Exercise caution in your business affairs;for the world is full of trickery.But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;many persons strive for high ideals;and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself.Especially, do not feign affection.Neither be cynical about love;for in the face of all aridity and disenchantmentit is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years,gracefully surrendering the things of youth.Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.Beyond a wholesome discipline,be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe,no less than the trees and the stars;you have a right to be here.And whether or not it is clear to you,no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God,whatever you conceive Him to be,and whatever your labors and aspirations,in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,it is still a beautiful world.Be cheerful.Strive to be happy.

    Me: 32 / DH: 33
    DD born: 3/31/19

     




  • @sheknows6 How long have you been tracking your cycles? 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @adirat  -2 is still decent! 
    @NYTino24  when in doubt, HIO!
    @kiwi2628 have fun at your reunion. 
    @ChefRamsay sounds like a great evening. 
    @Hopefulmommy1980 I wake up st different times too but decided to try charting anyway and I have been randomly waking up around the same time so I just temp then. Sometimes I go back to sleep after. 
    @busymommy23 I feel similarly about the holidays and the lo's that I would love to be holding. Creepy internet hugs to you. 

    Month/Cycle: 18/8

    CD: 16

    WAYDTGKU: all the things

    R/R: I ordered a big sis shirt for DD yesterday because it was on Black Friday clearance... I already had one in a smaller size that I had to donate because she outgrew it before she could wear it. I don't know why I did it and I feel like it's going to show up when af is due. 

    CS/Q: this is my first time posting a chart so hopefully I did it right and this is my first month temping. I think I Oed yesterday? We also went out drinking last night so I know this big spike could also be from alcohol. My other high open circle days were drinking days too. I guess I'll see what happens tomorrow. 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 

    I'm not a big poem person so I can't think of one but I'm enjoying reading everyone else's! 
    DD1 born 1/15/14
    DD2 born 9/10/17
    BabyFruit Ticker


  • @NYTino24 realistically, about 9 years now. I have always tracked when my period started and stopped as well as my flow level. I had irregular lengths for some time when I was younger so I got in the habit of tracking them.

    i only just started temping two months ago

    Me: 32 / DH: 33
    DD born: 3/31/19

     




  • @sheknows6 was all of that time off birth control? 
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @NYTino24 I was on birth control for about 6  of those 9 years intermittently, and I've been off it completely for the last two years.

    i should mention I was recently diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and the onset of my symptoms coincides with my menstrual irregularity; I posted about this in 2ww so I'm not sure if you saw it or not.

    Me: 32 / DH: 33
    DD born: 3/31/19

     




  • @sheknows6 Yeah, I'd say you definitely have had plenty of time to get to know your body's patterns then! I hope you get some answers at your doc. Sorry I can't help
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • @sheknows6 I'm sorry you have to wait so long to see an endocrinologist, but I am hopeful that once you get this sorted out, you'll get KU in no time!

    @spiderlover25 Yes, I would say that yesterday was O. Woohoo!


  • @NYTino24 @adirat

    thank you for the help and the kind words :) I'm really hopeful this will work out when I go to the endo later in December; I'll keep you guys posted!!!

    Me: 32 / DH: 33
    DD born: 3/31/19

     




  • @busymommy23 your chart looks like one of my an-O charts (which have been my first 4 since TTC and charting). Zig zagging all over the place. I don't think you've O'd yet. It definitely could still happen! 
    TTC#2 
    DS born 9.17
    TFMR 10.19
  • I introduced myself in the newbie post, and thought I'd jump right in!

    Month/Cycle: 1/1

    CD: 8

    WAYDTGKU: charting, some diet changes

    R/R: None really yet! 

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt. 

    I have a couple: Nearer by C.S. Lewis and The Musn'ts (I think that's the official name) by Shel Silverstein. 
  • Month/Cycle: 4/4

    CD: 6

    WAYDTGKU: HIO ED (that's the plan anyway...), green tea, going to give preseed a try (just bought some!), and OPKs if I ever get those ordered. 

    R/R: DH and I got our living room decorated for Christmas and it is beautiful!! We still want to do something with lights out front that is simple/classy/easy but not sure what that will be 

    CS/Q: are wondfo OPKs any good? 

    GTKY: What is your favorite poem? Feel free to share an excerpt 

    Oh gosh, I loved studying poetry in college but I'm drawing a complete blank! I know I liked Keats but can't think of any poems in particular. I should dig out my poetry books! 
  • @mamafromthepnw Welcome!

    @lee^2 I use the Wondfo OPKs and like them a lot. Work well, straightforward to use, and so cheap. Someone posted a while back about knockoffs that are ineffective being sold online, so you may want to make sure they're Wondfos. I got mine on Amazon. (Sorry I can't remember who had this issue to tag her...)



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