I got a call yesterday confirming what we already knew - this pregnancy is not viable. I am 8 weeks and my hcg levels have started dropping. I was offered a d&c on Friday, which I turned down.
Last night, as I was going to bed, I started cramping. It didn't last long, maybe 30 mins, & they were mild (I've had worse with af). Woke up this morning and had more cramping, but also needed the bathroom, so I assumed that may have been what was going on last night too. Now I'm cramping again. Nothing bad, pretty much like last night.
If you waited to miscarry naturally, how long did you cramp before you started bleeding? How heavy was the bleeding at first? Am I going to end up standing in a pool of blood in the middle of Thanksgiving with 20 or so people that have no clue what is going on?