So we are at a rough part in the relationship with me and my ex. We have been broken up for four years now, so dating is to be expected. However through the time we've been broken up I've had one relationship and he is involved with my daughter. We have been together for two years and we are discussing marriage. However my ex has had many relationships. I understand that not all are going to be successful or last. But each one lasts between 3-4 months. Most often than not she will live with him for those months, or stay there most of the time and be there on all weekends. Particularly his every other weekend. I know i cannot make a rule that he cannot have girlfriends around her as she is now 5, and it's nearly impossible to avoid them meeting. But what can I do to make this easier? She gets attached and likes these girls and then they break up, fight in front of her and then she never see's them again. I'm seeing the negative affects on her and he is in denial and continues dating and introducing them to her immediately.
She has told me that "Daddy keeps throwing away his girlfriends, but I think he's going to marry this one. They've been together for a while." They were dating from August until October. And have been broken up since. She had no idea they were broken up when she told me this last week. and just the past weekend she met his new girlfriend.
I'm at a loss. I know I cannot control what happens at his house as it was our decision to break up. But this is not what I want her to think of relationships and for her to develop a trust issue from losing people she gets close to.
Any help or advise is great, thanks in advance.
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