I never post to forums, but I feel compelled today to share my story in the hopes that I can find support from others who have been in my same situation. I have a DS who just turned 2. I am 9w4d and found out yesterday at my first u/s that the baby passed about a week ago. My doctor is strongly recommending a D&C, and I am scheduled for one tomorrow. But I just feel like it is all happening so fast, and I haven't even had time to process it yet. All I can think about is how strange it is that there is a person inside me who is no longer alive and how weird and creepy that feels. I'm sad, but mostly I just feel shock and disappointment. I honestly don't think it has "hit me" yet. Those of you who have had D&Cs for mmc, do you feel a sense of closure afterward? I'm just wondering what to expect emotionally these next few weeks/months.