Hey there Ladies I just had my hospital tour today and it was so great to sit down with an RN and have her explain the ins and outs of their labour, delivery and post pardum care procedures and costs.
Have you booked your tour yet?
What are some questions you were happy that you asked?
Re: Hospital Tours
1. Dimmed lights during labour
2. Labour balls and showers
3. Delayed Clamping
4. Wiping of vernix but not bathing the baby until 24hrs after
5. The Bonding Hour where the nurses tip toe around you attempting not to interfere with your bonding
And
The fact the they JUST renovated the labour and delivery wing so everything is sparkly new!!
It's great that you did go though. Anything that puts your mind at ease! It's a scary time especially with everything being unknown. I probably should ask my husband of he wants a tour to ease his mind...i forget about his feelings sometimes. I did a tour of the hospital with him when we were at my GD test waiting that one hour. I showed him all the good spots for food and the quickest way to get me to L&D. Plus what all the sounds mean, hospital policies for family etc. I think it eased his mind a bit but this thread does make me think i should ask him if wants to tour L&D.
I will say our overnight there was more helpful than a tour though (not that I hope anyone is admitted early). I would suggest talking to possible friends/family that delivered on the unit. It gives you a different perspective (like why do you only get limited pillows/blankets and why are the outlets so far from the bed).
We have our hospital tour on the 12th. I was planning on asking all of the questions you had already listed and am following this thread for anything I might have missed. None of our family/friends lives in the area so we are the first to deliver at this hospital, but I have a dental hygienist who recently delivered there and the pediatrician I interviewed yesterday said she delivered at the same hospital (with my OB group) last year. The information I found out from them has already eased my mind- so I imagine I'll be pretty calm after our tour.
I will say that when my hygienist delivered (5 months ago) the other hygienist was showing me pictures and telling me about the photo-shoot they do in the hospital. I was able to find out from her that Bella Baby Photography comes into the hospital to do a newborn shoot and the pictures cost around $300. It was nice to have that information months ago so we could look into the photographer and decide if we wanted to save up for the pictures.
BFP#4- 9/26 edd 6/5/18
My biggest questions will be whether I can send the babe to the nursery for rest and what's the maximum length of stay for vag and c-section. It might sound crazy but I'm taking advantage of being there for as long as possible. Coming home to a very active five year old is going to be a lot and I'm going to need all of the rest I can get.
DD2: EDD 1/16/17 - Born 1/12/17 at 39w3d
We're touring another Kaiser hospital with our Centering group, so at least we'll get a general vibe of a maternity ward.
By the way, if you also have Kaiser don't automatically assume that every facility has yoga balls for every room, ours only has one for the whole floor
Questions we asked that were not covered initially, but perhaps they were getting there:
Security measures taken to make sure baby is safe. My hospital has proximity bands, security is allerted if baby get to far from Mom, then if baby some how makes it past one of the secure doors to the elevators w/o Mom the elevators are shut down and go to the first level with security waiting for them b4 the doors open. I like this.
If there is no Nicu, what is the plan if we need it? Ours does not have one. The hospital they would send baby to is 5 min away by car, they call and St. J's sends an ambulance with all the necessary doctors in it, they are there in like 3 min.
How to request a certain room for prefered birthing methods
Are the rooms labor, delivery, and recovery? Our hospital is this way, though as a form I don't know the difference, I like the idea of not being all over the place.
Policy for allowing guests in and out, not that there is anyone we don't want to visit, but while I'm in labor only my husband, Mom, and dad can come into the room.
how many beds are there. The hospital we are at has 16 beds and the nursing staff far out numbers the amount of rooms that are usually full - again a +! And from a few incidents we have had which require sleep overs at L&D we have learned that we LOVE the nurses here! the other hospital we were looking at had well over 25 beds, and when my cousin delivered I did not see any nurses going above or beyond, in fact she said some of them were awful.
Food!! What do you do if you deliver after food services closes?! Ours has a snack room, and if it looks like you will be delivering late they take your dinner order and put it in the the fridge for you then warm it up. Or you can have outside food brought in. We stayed the night last night for BHs that were getting too often for the docs comfort, my mom brought prime rib, asparagus and gratin potatoes that we had been planning to prepare for dinner. I would have been disappointed w caf food after knowing that was what was supposed to be for dinner.
Beta 5/9/2016 BFP!!
Embryo transfer scheduled for April 28, 2016 and beta test May 9, 2016 (day after Mother's Day!)
Transfer Meds include: Lupron Depot (4/1), Minivelle Patch (every 3rd day), Estradiol (3x daily), Amoxicillin, Progesterone in Oil, Methylprednisonlone. Lovenox and baby asprin added after transfer.
3/22/16 - Sono Saline ultrasound cyst to be aspirated on 4/1/16 if not cleared up by 3/29 US - It cleared on its own
Retrieval 3/4/16 - 26 eggs retrieved, 23 mature, 20 fertilized, 14 embryos currently frozen
Starting IVF Stims on +/- Feb 22, 2016
HSG scheduled for 1-26-16 - All clear "beautiful uterus" (though inverted)
Switched clinics and now prepping for IVF in February / March
Trying to conceive since November 2012
Guess ehat!! i juse found out that I'm eligible for a free breast pump through my Kaiser insurance!! plus you can take home all the diapers, wipes, sections etc that they put in your room !!
Beta 5/9/2016 BFP!!
Embryo transfer scheduled for April 28, 2016 and beta test May 9, 2016 (day after Mother's Day!)
Transfer Meds include: Lupron Depot (4/1), Minivelle Patch (every 3rd day), Estradiol (3x daily), Amoxicillin, Progesterone in Oil, Methylprednisonlone. Lovenox and baby asprin added after transfer.
3/22/16 - Sono Saline ultrasound cyst to be aspirated on 4/1/16 if not cleared up by 3/29 US - It cleared on its own
Retrieval 3/4/16 - 26 eggs retrieved, 23 mature, 20 fertilized, 14 embryos currently frozen
Starting IVF Stims on +/- Feb 22, 2016
HSG scheduled for 1-26-16 - All clear "beautiful uterus" (though inverted)
Switched clinics and now prepping for IVF in February / March
Trying to conceive since November 2012
Me: 31 | Husband: 32
Married: September 2014!
TTC #1: January 2016 BFP 5/16/16 Quinn Born 1/27/17