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Structure?

Tennis11785Tennis11785 member
edited October 2016 in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Is there any desire to put some regular posts/structure to this board, similar to the birth months or ttgp boards?  People would be welcome to still post generic intros posts, but we'd also have some regular posts.  People can join in and leave as they feel appropriate.  

If so, I'm happy to help lead the charge.  I think it would help build a community here, beyond just responding to each other's intros and questions.  I know personally, I'd love to connect with women who understand what I'm going through (at least to some extent; I know no two miscarriages or situations are the same) and have the ability to share our experiences, without having to talk about loss all day long.  If that makes sense...

If not, I'll retreat.

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Me: 31+ H: 32
TTC Since 11/2015
#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
MissPrint1219alemarie1

Re: Structure?

  • That's a great idea!
    “Be present in all things and thankful for all things.”  ~Maya Angelou

    ~~~~ TW ~~~~~~

    Me: 40    DH: 39
    Married 12.19.13
    BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
    BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
    BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
    BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
    BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
    BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
  • I think it would be great 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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  • great idea!

  • I was going to suggest this but felt like I was still too new here. But its a wonderful idea. I would like to help with whatever you'd like :) 
  • Please do. I agree; I'd like to see more activity on this board. 
    TTC since 8/7/16 
    BFP 9/13/16
    MMC 10/18/16 
    D&C 10/20/16
  • Thoughts on these posts? 

    Monday - Weekly Check In (generic set of questions)
    Tuesday - 10 Things Tuesday - share 10 random facts about yourself
    Wednesday - WTF Wednesday.  Have something ridiculous happen?  Someone say something crazy to you?  Share it here.  
    Thursday - Tasty Thursday - share a good recipe! 
    Friday - FFFC - Flame Free Friday Confession - although in my experience they aren't always flame-free.  It's more of a chance to share confessions/unpopular opinions.

    I'm open to changing any of the topics.  I tried to give us a mixture - ones that worked on other boards, positive ones, negative ones, etc.  Any other topics you've used on boards that you really liked? 

    ** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **


    Me: 31+ H: 32
    TTC Since 11/2015
    #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
    MamaBishMissPrint1219
  • This sounds awesome!  Would love to get to know this community more : )
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Sounds great! 
  • @Tennis11785

    Yes!! That's what I miss most about the other board I was on. Let's do it !! 
  • @Tennis11785 love this idea  <3

    DD angel baby 10/16 <3
    Rainbow Due 02/20/18


  • When do we start?

  • I can start tomorrow to just to get it going.  I don't know that I'll be able to create the thread every day, so others should feel free to get the ball rolling if you don't see it posted.  

    ** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **


    Me: 31+ H: 32
    TTC Since 11/2015
    #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
    pinnerk
  • I'm in! 
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
     Rainbow baby Savannah born 5.13.16 at 30 weeks    
     ♥ 
    Baby Cadence born still 3.24.15 at 28 weeks 

            
  • I think this is great, I would also suggest having a weekly or bi weekly objective to help us with our grieving process. Let's say (for example) this week we'll all do something for ourselves that makes you happy, treat yourself to a massage, mani pedi, go for a run, just about anything that makes you smile and share your experience. 
    I'm 29, husband is 30
    Together since 2006
    Married 01.17.15  <3

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    SP128Tennis11785MamaBish
  • fiorip - Love that idea! 

    ** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **


    Me: 31+ H: 32
    TTC Since 11/2015
    #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
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