It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
I feel like a jerk ! DH and I went out for breakfast. This is his busiest time of year. He truly loves his career. His phone hasn't stopped the last few days and when gets home he tells me every detail about his day. I love hearing about it but lately I have been realizing I am not really listening to him. We went away a couple of weekends ago and he talked about work the ENTIRE time. This morning I maaaayyy have gone about it the wrong way when I told him I am sick of hearing about work all the time and it's all he ever talks about. He got SO upset. He said he is going to stop talking about it. He only told me about it because he thought I liked hearing about it. We went to drop apples off at his hunting spot after this and we did not speak the entire drive there, walk through the woods, or the drive home. When we got home he said "Well that was a fun adventure!". I am a little upset that he got so offended and I also feel really bad that I did offend him ! He asked me what I was thinking before he left for his shift and I said nothing because I need to find a way to explain I love hearing about his day but not 24/7 !
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
Yesterday DH came to my school and did a fire safety program for my class. Then we had Trunk or Treat and I met up with him at his parents' house for dinner. I literally drove an hour to see them for 30 minutes. I was so tired that I was ready to sleep when I got home, but my OPK was positive and we had to power through it. DH is at work until tomorrow morning, and we have softball playoffs today and tomorrow. Some friends are going out to the bars for Halloween and parties tonight, but I just don't want to go out.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
I went to a walk in doctor yesterday for a possible foot fracture and he decided to fat shame me the whole time and "counsel" me on my calorie intake. I walked into the room and the first thing he asked me was if I was taking my diabetes medication. I'm not even diabetic - my sugar levels are good. Then he insisted on reading though my whole chart because my actual doctor MUST have missed something. Literally my only "health problem" is that I'm anemic.
And, to top it off, because I was going for an X-ray he asked if I was pregnant. I said no, but we are trying. And what does he say? "Well if you actually cared about having a child you'd lose the exorbitant amount of weight you're carrying. That's why you don't have a child yet." Aca-scuse me bitch. I've been in a room with you for 6 minutes and you have the audacity to say what?
All because I dropped a jar off the top shelf at the grocery store onto my foot.
@Dilynne That is not cool. I'm sorry you were treated that way. My sister keeps spraining her ankle because she hasn't lost the baby weight she started putting on 12 years ago, but it sounds like you have a totally different situation. Did you say anything to the doctor to show you were offended? I would have sat there with my mouth wide open.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@dilynne My Jaw dropped in shock just reading that. What a prick. I hope you didn't let it ruin your day. I can't even imagine.
My son is 1 today! We are having a nice quiet family day today's and having a big bash for him tomorrow. I have 2 dozen cupcakes to ice tonight and a lot of cleaning that I have been putting off! This year has flown by.
Married:09/27/14
Baby N-Born:10/29/15 Our Angel: EDD: 05/11/17. MC at 6 weeks Baby #2- EDD: 07/18/17
@Dilynne I would be livid. That is so unacceptable, not to mention super unprofessional. If he has a health concern about your weight, there's a right and wrong way to go about it, and he was absolutely wrong. That Dr is a bully. I'd 100% be making a formal complaint to someone about his practice....
Thanks everybody. I was pretty upset. I kept reminding him that I was here for a foot injury. And then called H who was ready to go down there with pitch forks.
@Dilynne I'm so sorry that happened to you. That's completely unprofessional and I hope you didn't take any of it to heart. I also hope your foot feels better really soon!
@MrsN092714 Yay for 1! It's such a fun age. My DD turned 1 in June and I had to ice all of the cupcakes in the land too so I know what you're going through!
This weekend is pretty boring and it's going by too fast. I went and got my rings checked today (it's part of the warrantee) and then we went to Target for a few things. We're installing a dishwasher and having some friends over in a little bit. I have to write a paper tomorrow and I'm not excited about that.
Edited for spelling mistake
Me: 24 DH: 28 DD 6/9/15 TTC #2 with PCOS since 10/16
July 2017 Siggy Challenge- Animals Eating Summer Foods
@Dilynne wow, that's just completely ridiculous! I can't understand how anyone could think that speaking to someone that way is called for in any circumstance
Spent the day visiting my parents and discussing a possible new business venture for my H, as well as planning out a possible patio for the backyard. Otherwise, pretty standard weekend.
@Dilynne wow that is completely unacceptable and so unprofessional. I am angry for you just reading this so I can only imagine how it made you feel. I'm so sorry you had to experience that. I would really put a complaint in!
It's Sunday already and the weekend is flying by! It's been fun and still have some fun to look forward to later today pumpkin picking with my nieces! DH and I did a paint night yesterday I love them they are so much fun and I like the creative aspect!
Loving the Redskins playing in London at 930am. I like an excuse to drink before noon.
Me: late 30s | H: early 30s TTC #1 since April 2015 RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016 IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal Polyp removed May 2017 FET May 2017 - BFP! Baby boy born 2/2/18
Aca-scuse me!!! LOL! I'm sorry, but I LOVE your reaction. Keep doing you.
This weekend.... took some much needed time off of work to spend at home with DH and the dogs. Celebrating our first wedding anniversary Went out to dinner and exchanged gifts on Saturday, although our actual date is Monday. Enjoying the beautiful fall colors of the midwest!
... Me: 26 DH: 25 Married: October 2015 TTC #1 since July 2016
Re: Weekend Randoms
Me 27 DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
And, to top it off, because I was going for an X-ray he asked if I was pregnant. I said no, but we are trying. And what does he say? "Well if you actually cared about having a child you'd lose the exorbitant amount of weight you're carrying. That's why you don't have a child yet." Aca-scuse me bitch. I've been in a room with you for 6 minutes and you have the audacity to say what?
All because I dropped a jar off the top shelf at the grocery store onto my foot.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
My son is 1 today! We are having a nice quiet family day today's and having a big bash for him tomorrow. I have 2 dozen cupcakes to ice tonight and a lot of cleaning that I have been putting off! This year has flown by.
Our Angel: EDD: 05/11/17. MC at 6 weeks
Baby #2- EDD: 07/18/17
@MrsN092714 - Yay for 1 year old!
Married: 07-2014
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
***TW***
BFP: 11/4/2016
*TW*
Married: 07-2014
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
***TW***
BFP: 11/4/2016
*TW*
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
@MrsN092714 Yay for 1! It's such a fun age. My DD turned 1 in June and I had to ice all of the cupcakes in the land too so I know what you're going through!
This weekend is pretty boring and it's going by too fast. I went and got my rings checked today (it's part of the warrantee) and then we went to Target for a few things. We're installing a dishwasher and having some friends over in a little bit. I have to write a paper tomorrow and I'm not excited about that.
Edited for spelling mistake
DD 6/9/15
TTC #2 with PCOS since 10/16
July 2017 Siggy Challenge- Animals Eating Summer Foods
DD born: 3/31/19
It's Sunday already and the weekend is flying by! It's been fun and still have some fun to look forward to later today pumpkin picking with my nieces! DH and I did a paint night yesterday I love them they are so much fun and I like the creative aspect!
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
This weekend.... took some much needed time off of work to spend at home with DH and the dogs. Celebrating our first wedding anniversary Went out to dinner and exchanged gifts on Saturday, although our actual date is Monday. Enjoying the beautiful fall colors of the midwest!
Me: 26 DH: 25
Married: October 2015
TTC #1 since July 2016