TTGP After Dark 10/21

lulu1180 · October 2016

I hope everyone has fun with this! Feel free to answer whatever you are comfortable with and feel free to ask questions of your own for us all to answer!

Here's a few to get us started

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?

What position do you enjoy most?

adirat · October 2016

YAAAS

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oh shit I thought "after dark" just meant late night with drinking lol
@lulu1180 I guess it's good I didn't start this...

lulu1180 · October 2016

Hahaha it should still be fun while drinking!

saralee797-2 · October 2016

I remember this thread from a while back!! I'm going to peg myself as kind of a prude so I have more question than anything like how do you introduce toys into things?! I'd like to but worry about MH response. I don't own any currently.

I think the craziest place was probably an elevator in an all girls dorm in college. It was HOTTTT but I've done it outdoors, in cars etc. prob the closest time I came to getting caught was in my childhood bedroom - my bf was going down on me with the door open during a party and my aunt came upstairs so I had to pretend to not be so hot and bothered .... it was torture and I still wonder to this day if she knew what was going on.

Dirty talk not so much. It doesn't fit my personality.

Position umm me on top but I have also had a lot
of success with missionary but with my feet literally facing the ceiling. It probably looks hilarious but whatever. If it's not oral, I have so much trouble finishing. I get in my own head. I have found a couple tried and true methods and that's one of them.

JuneRoseRuby · October 2016

My H asked to mix things up once so I bought him a cock ring. We were so distracted by it and kept laughing because it was a bizarre sensation during sex that we weren't used to so it pretty much just sits in the drawer now!

Is it pathetic that I can't currently come up with a wild sex spot? I'm sure there was one! Recently we had a house full of guests and I just had to HIO, so I pretty much pinned my H in the bathroom to get it in real quick. That's the most wild I have in my head right now.

I'm definitely more open/wild than my H and he is pretty reserved, so dirty talk doesn't really happen unless we are pretty wasted. I'm definitely open to it though!

@Saralee797 I'm with you on the oral.

Position, probably from behind (not in the behind

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lulu1180 · October 2016

@Saralee797 If you want to introduce toys I would suggest starting with a pretty basic vibrator and maybe bring it out and start using it with him there then ask him to help or take it over. I'm sure he would find it the hottest thing ever

I am actually the furthest thing from a prude now. I went to a pure romance party and won a prize for being the kinkiest in attendance (I had participated in 9/10 of the things the consultant mentioned)

I have 2 different toys....one that's similar to a rabbit type toy and simple vibrator but slightly curved at the end. I use them more in my own....probably about 1-2 a month. With DH it's maybe a couple times a year if that.

The craziest place is either outside behind a bar with DHs friend keeping watch or in his friends living room. His friend was passed out and his gf was upstairs for the night (or so I thought). So I got on top of DH discreetly, or so I thought. The Gf came down and tried waking the friend up and eventually told him that his friend was trying to get busy lol. Apparently not nearly as discreet as I thought.

Im not huge into dirty talk, in fact I had never done it before I met DH. He usually initiates but I try to keep it going as I know he likes it.

My favorite position is reverse cowgirl. Me on top facing away from DH.

RunRestRepeat · October 2016

Oooooooh, look what happens around here after dark!

We have too many toys. Seriously, it's been like a part time job hiding our box from family every time we move. Most of the time we use them together.

Hmmmm, the first thing that I think of is in the upstairs office of a climbing gym he was working at. We've also done it in a LOT of forest preserves/state parks.

Yep. And I think even more than that, I like how much DH likes it

Honestly, I like all the sex. If I had to pick, probably from behind!

saralee797-2 · October 2016

@lulu1180 I'm just pretty open to mixing it up in general but I think toys could be fun. I can't see my H ever being the one to do it though so I know I would have to be the one. We did try watching porn together because of TTC... it definitely was sexy!

lulu1180 · October 2016

@Saralee797 I've never watched porn with DH but have watched it with an ex before. It is definitely hot! Have you ever masturbated in front of him? If not, you might want to try that first and then have him help you and then try moving to a toy

RunRestRepeat · October 2016

I second @lulu1180 - I'd be shocked if he didn't want to jump in with a toy if you started on yourself first!

Redpuma119 · October 2016

I have t seen one of these in a long time!!!

1- We have a few toys but I they're mostly collecting dust in a drawer. Maybe we should try a new one.

2- I am a flight attendant and sometimes we have to reposition planes, which means we fly an aircraft, sans the passengers to a new location. It's almost impossible to join the mile high club.. Unless you're flight crew

Redpuma119 · October 2016

It cut off half my post!

3- dirty talk has its place but I'll never call my H daddy

mrs35 · October 2016

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?

Well I had toys when DH and I were long distance but when the batteries died and we were in the same place I kinda didn't replace them.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?

Well we've been together since high school.. So high school and part of college any where and everywhere we could have sex we did it. We have had sex in the same room as other couples but I can't thing of any place incredibly weird.
Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
yes. I often (especially during fw) need to encourage H

What position do you enjoy most?
Doggie. Or oral but that isn't helpful for ttc

eta: I am possibly drinking right now. Please excuse errors.

MTgirlCOworld · October 2016

@Saralee797 I agree with PP if you started touching yourself or using a toy and DH wasn't super into I would be surprised.

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?

We have a few. We like to be adventurous and keep things interesting.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex? Oral on DH while he was driving.

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex? Not particularly but DH is into it so I play along sometimes.

What position do you enjoy most? Cowgirl

slaven · October 2016

It's noon here in Korea but I'll join in haha

We don't have too many toys. There's the trusty bullet that is great because I need clit stimulation for a good O and then there's a cheap rabbit vibrator that doesn't vibrate anymore (even with new batteries) but it's been used for some anal or him playing with me (cleaned in between obviously). I do love our basic bondage stuff like bed tie down straps, cuffs, and blindfold. Nothing crazy but we'll get more eventually.

Craziest place was at a drive in movie theater with an ex. It happened a few times actually, once we fondled even with his brother and brother's gf there and we had full out sex another time but were alone. I almost had sex in the bathroom of a club in Shanghai with a guy from my study abroad program but the bathroom attendant stopped that. I went back to the apartment he was sharing with friends and they talked him out of it. Apparently he had a gf.....I wasn't too fazed by it and slept in his bed while he slept on the couch. I was also shit faced beyond belief.

I get my best O with me on top with the bullet but I tire out quickly or O so hard that I'm done for the night. I also like from behind to be spanked or legs up missionary.

lulu1180 · October 2016

@slavenski Yes to a good hard snack on the ass! I let DH have his way with me on Saturday and it was fantastic!!! Like I couldn't even kiss him without him telling asking me to. I've never done quite that extreme but it was SO HOT!!!

SaphireSweetie88 · October 2016

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO? DH and I have several toys but we don't use them very often. Usually because we don't think about it. The 1 problem we have with toys is that we will go to an adult store and go "oh this looks fun" and then buy it and usually end up feeling meh about it. I've always used toys with DH never alone.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex? DH and I had sex in the woods with me leaning against a tree and he was behind me. It was about noon and there were other people walking through the woods. It was the risk of being caught that really got us hot and heavy

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex? Depends but usually no. It usually ends up sounding so cheesy we end up laughing and there goes the mood.

What position do you enjoy most? If I want to get off, its a tie between missionary and doggy style. If I am on top, I can't really feel as much as I can in other positions so it's not as enjoyable for me (if that makes sense). If I am more so into getting DH off and willing to not get off, I like reverse cow girl because of the reactions I get from DH (and the ass smacks don't hurt either

Since porn has been mentioned: DH and I have tried watching porn together. Sometimes it's really hot but we like different types / styles of porn so there are times where one of us is turned on and the other - not so much.

TinyTurtle · October 2016

It's 10am here, but pretty cloudy so might still count as after dark

@Saralee797 I echo what has been said here already with toys - MH was dubious at first, but we introduced a bullet vibe and I showed him how to use it (he said he enjoyed the show!). I think sometimes guys see toys as a threat, if that's the right word, so using them together just shows that it's fun for you both.

@JuneRoseRuby I was thinking of buying a cock ring but maybe not now, if anything it sounds a little distracting!

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
My fave vibrator just died so I'm super sad about that, but I've always got one in the drawer for clitoral stimulation, since I was about 18 and a friend bought me one as a not-so gag gift. Usually used solo, as H really likes oral (and he is more than welcome to it!).

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?
We're not super kinky, but I really enjoyed doing it in a park when we were out fishing (because fishing is boring and sex is fun). About 30 seconds after we finished an old lady came by walking her dog! Luckily I was wearing a skirt so she was none the wiser.. You're definitely right @SaphireSweetie88, the idea of getting caught is such a turn on!

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
No I find it too cringey!

What position do you enjoy most?
I love missionary, especially if my legs are hooked over his shoulders. I also like to be on top sometimes but I'm too lazy to do it often...

bumpybump · October 2016

I know it's not dark out but I'm trying to avoid the ILs and doing this instead.

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
No. We (really I) used to but we never really used them anymore so I threw them all out. It started to gross me out knowing they were just sitting there unused for so long.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?
Well, not a crazy place but back about 10 yrs ago, when I lived in Georgia, I had met a guy on Match. We didn't hit if off romantically but did like to have some fun. Once we had sex in the same room as his buddy and another girl but she stopped it early (never even got to penetration) so he came over to us and joined in

. So, I've been with two guys.
Place wise, I guess the balcany overlooking a pool in Thailand during our honeymoon.

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
I did when it was just sex but not since I've been married.

What position do you enjoy most?
I'm right there with a lot of you and say missionary with legs on shoulders or from behind (and not anal).

JAM85 · October 2016

Awesome!! And so distracting right now

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?

i have my go to vibe and I go use that solo for a quickie sometimes as my sex drive is higher than his. We have a few other ones like a vibrating ring for him her likes but the other ones we haven't used in a bit

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?

eh I can't say we've have any in a weird place because DH is very stuck on having to shower before each time so kind of kills and impromptu activity

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?

yes a little bit nothing to crazy

What position do you enjoy most?

doggie I would say is my favorite or one leg up missionary

izza2 · October 2016

I'm jealous of some of you guys' sex lives. We haven't been nearly as adventurous as we used to be since H got his new job.

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
I have one, a simple little vibrator. My solo use depends on how often we have sex that week, haha. If it's been 3+ days, I'm dying and test out the batteries. Otherwise, I can go months without touching it. I've only used it with H once, and it didn't do anything for him, so we haven't used it since. I'd love to get a cock ring and try some other toys, but I'll need to come in to some money before I can do so.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?
Craziest is a tie between H's big rig (18-wheeler) when we were parked at a truck stop waiting until we could get to the plant and deliver the load, since we couldn't get there any earlier than 1 hour before his appointment. So I convinced him to deliver his load in me while we were waiting.

That and when we visited my brother and SIL in Arkansas, we were in their guest room, which was right next to their kids' room, and doubled as their storage room/where their kitty litter was. DSS was sleeping in the room with us, and we couldn't close the door because the cat needed access to the litter box, so we never had an opportunity to make out, let alone have sex. One night toward the end of our stay we were going crazy, so we went outside under the guise of taking a short walk and H smoking, and had a quickie in the back seat of my car instead. We had like 3 cars go by during this, and we were terrified someone would come outside or walk by and catch us!
Weirdest place has to be the den floor. We wanted to "christen" the room a few months after we bought the house, but it was way awkward and uncomfortable. Plus, the dog's crate was right there and even though he was outside at the time, I felt like he was right there next to us.

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
I do, definitely. We don't talk dirty all the time, but when we do, it definitely kicks things up a notch for both of us.

What position do you enjoy most?
It's a three-way tie. If I'm exhausted, I love the leapfrog or the oover-the-shoulder-smolder. And if we're both in to it, we love the "hang loose" position, with me mostly off the bed. It's not as easy now because our bed is much taller than our old one, but throwing a few pillows and a blanket on the ground under my shoulders does the trick!

BertieMeetsGertie · October 2016

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
Nope, no toys here. Not sure where to even start!

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?
Ok, we didn't actually have full on sex, but we did some foreplay in the back of a movie theater (and no, we weren't the only ones there).

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
Never tried it. I think it would be really awkward and we would end up laughing.

What position do you enjoy most?
Doggie for the win!!

hupp0013 · October 2016

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
We do have toys. We don't use them often at all.

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex? Outside of my parents' cabin with their window open.

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
I do. It doesn't happen a lot though.

What position do you enjoy most?
Reverse cowgirl.

flashley-2 · October 2016

Totally missed this post last night !!!

Do you have any toys? How often do you use them solo? With your SO?
We have a bullet and that is it. We very rarely bring it out but I use it solo. Probably too much. We do however use ribbons and panties as sex tools. We love making love but we also love turning it up and getting "freaky".

Where is the craziest/weirdest place you've ever had sex?
DH and I dressed up for Halloween last year as vampires. We ended up eating peanut butter pie at a restaurant and getting a bit too excited feeding one another. We stopped the car on an old dirt road and got out and enjoyed hot sex on the hood of the car !

Do you enjoy dirty talk during sex?
I never say a whole lot while we are actually having sex but before we get to that point we definitely do talk dirty. DH loves to talk dirty the entire time. I think it's pretty hot and brings me to the point a lot faster !

What position do you enjoy most?
I enjoy on top the best and DH loves it from behind. Both bring me to O but on top brings multiple !

iceandsnowflakes29 · October 2016

Hi everyone! Hope you don't mind if I pop in for a quick question because, I don't really belong on TTGP. I was here last year and...

(TW LOSSES mentioned)

Long story short lost both my tubes to ectopics and can no longer get pregnant unless, we do IVF.

*end TW*

Since then, DH and I have been trying to enjoy our time in the bedroom and make the best of things.

Problem is- I've never in my life had a vaginal orgasm! ! I've Googled the SHIT out of this and despite trying numerous things still nada.

So if you've had one, please tell me how! Or what you did!

Anyway, wishing you all healthy pregnancies very soon!!

Sorry, I know haven't been on here in a long time and what not but, really am desperate for some advice.

I didn't want to post it on the main board, saw the after dark thread was still a thing and decided to post it here.

Anyway, thanks in advance...

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