Sorry if that's huge. I am mobile bumping. I will fix when on a computer.
CS/Q: none yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
They like to tell people about how confirmed their decision to get a new garage... I was attempting to park my car in the very narrow garage and was too close to the side. I ended up scraping the side of my car on the edge of the opening in the garage. That made the garage unstable and unsafe to park any vehicle in there. My parents said they would have waited another year before getting a new garage otherwise. Lucky for me, my parents weren't upset at all. They find it funny now and they found it funny then too.
Me:35 | DH: 32 Married: 06-2024 TTC #1: Since November 2015 Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016 due to previous issues. ***TW*** BFP: 11/4/2016 BFP: 07/17/2024
@SaphireSweetie88your parents were probably thrilled for the excuse to get a new garage!
Month/Cycle: 6/4
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: Sex ED/EOD, green tea, PNV
R/R: I would like to say a great big thank you to the support on yesterday's WTO after H's cold feet, I cannot tell you how much just a few sentences helped me to cope. TTC has been very isolating, and this group has been such a valuable resource of knowledge and support. As it happens H came home last night and without prompting apologised and said that he had been thinking all day, and that he does want a family/baby more than anything, but he was overthinking all the practicalities (his friends all seem to have got KU'd accidentally and so really struggled afterwards). So no rant today, but rave for you guys and rave for H getting his head screwed back on!
CS/Q: None today
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My parents love telling the story about how I once said "not quail's eggs and parma ham again" at Saturday lunch, because it apparently shows how posh I am (despite being their daughter!) as opposed to the fact that I don't like cured meat and we had it every Saturday for years! Such a strange (and boring I think) story to tell, but it was even in my dad's wedding speech.
WAYDTGKU: After "just seeing what happens" for 6 months its time to go all in, this month BBT, OPK, EOD/ED timing, charts, bells, whistles, all of it
R/R: Rant- after being a week late and getting my hopes up I spent most of yesterday either crying or on the verge of tears. No more of that, being devastated is exhausting. Rave: My sister's bachelorette party is this weekend so at least I can just take a bottle of champagne to the face
CS/Q: None right now
GTKY: My parents tell everyone how I was in a "music video" for a children's entertainer when I was 3. I was so nervous that the 10 seconds I'm in the video is me wringing my tiny hands with an anxious smile. Preview of coming attractions heh
Hope you ladies all have a wonderful weekend!
Me & DH: 30 Married since 9/29/12 TTC: 4/2016, TTA 7-8/2016, TTC #2 9/2016 Fur kids: 2 cats
R/R: It's Friday!! H has the weekend off, hopefully we can get a few projects done!
CS/Q: I had a big temp jump this morning! Trying not to get too excited about it just yet. (No question and no point in posting my chart yet so I'll count this CS as a chart statement )
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? When I was in first grade my sister graduated from preschool. Everyone was taking pictures of her all night and I didn't understand why no one wanted pictures of me too. (It was film back them so no sense in wasting it..) When my mom was putting me to bed she tried to talk to me about it which only made me more upset so I threatened to run away. I had on a pink nighty and grabbed my favorite doll. My dad caved and started taking pictures of me, sobbing in my pink nighty. That made me historical because I didn't look cute anymore and I wanted a cute picture. I didn't really go anywhere. Just sat on the deck for awhile crying.
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, CP, OPK, PNV, CoQ10, B complex, magnesium, Preseed, HIO EOD
R/R: Either I'm going to ovulate tremendously early, or I'm experiencing a false surge. OPKs are nearly positive, so DH and I HIO last night just in case. I really hope my body isn't messing with me. If it's real, I'm going to be upset that he couldn't finish the job two nights ago if it is early O. I think he was worried about having performance anxiety again, and he even mentioned it when we were done because there were flashes of it. He said, "I don't think I am nervous about baby making, but maybe subliminally my body is!" PS I tried Preseed and he didn't even notice.
CS/Q: Thanks for your answers yesterday! Just curious... how long does everyone's positive OPK / LH surge usually last?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?'
They don't really tell stories about me, at least ones I know about.. but one story from when I was younger is I used to race my sisters up the stairs and then 'clothesline' them to get up first. Then I'd have to distract them so they wouldn't tell on me. My mom didn't like me and always called me vindictive, so I preferred to avoid any conflict with her because I knew it wouldn't end well. That was the only time I was aggressive or a cheater, I swear.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
R/R: when you stop to buy tampons on you way home from work only to find out AF is over
CS/Q:
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? It used to be about a trip to the zoo and how I was obsessed with a 2-headed snake but now they just brag on me being a doctor
CS/Q: I had a +opk last night and got a small temp spike this morning. Not due if I actually ID or if it was from the small glass of wine I had. Either way, I'll try to get DH to HIO tonight.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? my parents have two stories. The first is when I was 2 I got this doll for Christmas and I couldn't stop asking everyone "isn't she cute??" The second is that when I was little I used to get out of bed and sleep on this one stair that we had coming from the kitchen to our bedrooms. My parents would always have to remind my older brothers that when they got home, they need to check the stair so they wouldn't step on me.
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
@SaphireSweetie88 I actually worry about that now! It's the first time I've had a garage (as a teen, my parents kept theirs in the garage of course so mine stayed in the driveway) and I'm always worried that I'm going to hit my mirrors!
@dmt929 have fun at your sister's bachelorette party!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, temping, opks, completely cut out all caffeine, starting CoQ10 & making hubby take it too
R/R: it's Friday! We're having a housewarming party tomorrow and I'm freaking out. I've never thrown a party before (I've always lived in apartments so never liked to have anyone over). I had a hard time with "well, if I invite this friend, then I have to invite this one too" and most of my friends have kids so it looks like we could have 52 people at any given time (since half are maybe I have to count them). I have no idea how to plan for food. And we'll have several tvs on showing the football games but I'm worried people will be bored (esp the kids).
CS/Q: none
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My mom always made my Halloween costumes growing up. I was OBSESSED with the Rainbow Brite one she made me when I was 4. Apparently the following July I had a meltdown because I wanted to wear the costume to the grocery store. I was crying and kept saying "but mommy, I have to spread happiness to all the people". And I won that argument and got to wear it.
@dmt929 I'm attending a brunch tomorrow with bottomless mimosas... Champagne FTW!
@LadyMillil What kind of doctor are you (if you don't mind me asking)?
@NYTino24 I've only ever gotten 1 positive OPK at a time, never 2 in a row or anything. I have had a false surge, but I got a positive OPK, they turned negative, temps didn't confirm O, and then another positive a couple days later.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: I'll be here for a while so nothing to see here
R/R: Friday. Thank God.
CS/Q: Nope.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
I was the first female grandchild (after 10 boys) so my birth story gets told a lot - my mom actually had an emergency c-section because she got pre-eclampsia and started having seizures. The famous story is that her best friend showed up at the hospital all excited, but found my dad and grandmother pacing the hallways. But then I was born, they announced I was a girl, and everyone "forgot" about my mom's issues because they were just so excited to see that pink blanket. Don't worry, my mom's fine now.
@TinyTurtle I am so glad YH apologized! It always means so much when it's unprompted. @dmt929 Sorry yesterday was so rough for you! Hopefully today is better! Enjoy the bachelorette party! @mrs35 I literally LOL'd at your story. I can so picture little me doing the same thing. @NYTino24 fx for O! Glad the preseed worked out! @MommytoM13@Immtravels@julesdp Good luck in TWW! Don't come back! @BertieMeetsGertie fx you O'd! @purplg8r Have fun at your housewarming party! I love a good get together! And also... who could possibly resist your Rainbow Brite spreading happiness? Adorable! @hartmich I will be here keeping you company! I'm glad to hear your mom is ok haha!
Y'all. I cannot keep up with how fast this thread moves!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: just bbt and pnvs right now
R/R: Rant: I have to work all weekend. UGH. Rave: Working this weekend means I have a 4 day weekend next week!
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I was a gymnast/cheered forever and when I was younger I hardly walked anywhere. I just "flipped" (aka cartwheels and stuff) everywhere I went.
@TinyTurtle I’m so glad your DH came around yesterday! Also, I understand what you mean about the
supportiveness of this community. I have
never been made to feel like my feelings when upset about something TTC is
unfounded. I love that I have somewhere
to come where everyone understands what I’m going through and how I feel
@dmt929 I feel you!
The past 2 cycles have been devastating for me and I was still doing all
the things. I hope your stay here is
short and you learn as much as I have from this community!
@mrs35 It’s kind of funny how a temp jump (which would be
nearly miniscule to most people) gets us TTCers all aflutter.
@NYTino24 Yay for preseed!
I did tell my DH about it beforehand and then asked him later if he
coule tell and if he thought it was too much.
@purplg8r When I had a housewarming last year, I did a taco
bar. It’s fairly inexpensive, easy to
make and everyone loves tacos. I even
found a homemade taco rice recipe that every seemed to love. If you want it, I can dig it out and post the
link. FYI I kept the food warm using a
small buffet kit from a local craft store.
@hartmich I forgot about my birth story! My mom was in labor with me for 4 days on and
off and when she was in full active labor with me, my father and the doctor
were watching the Browns game on TV.
They did win, btw
@GeorgiaWife6912 Sorry you have to work all weekend but YAY
for a 4-day weekend next week!
Month/Cycle: 5/6
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: BD EOD, temping, checking CM and
CP, preseed, green tea, PNVs, CoQ10, Magnesium, evening primrose oil, cut out
caffeine….and considering rubbing holy water on my pelvic region
R/R: It’s Friday and we’re going to my
in-laws for the weekend for their annual bonfire! I really can’t wait as it’s always so
relaxing when we go there. Also, I
totally plan on BD tomorrow morning in case today is O day
Also, about the holy water
comment – a coworker was telling me a few days ago that when she was TTC her
son after about 19 months, she had gone to a funeral at a Catholic church (she
isn’t Catholic herself) and one of the old ladies there rubbed holy water in
her pelvic region and then she got her bfp.
Is it sad if I’m actually considering trying it if this cycle doesn’t
work…?
CS/Q: nope, today is historically O day for
me so I’m hoping to see the temp rise this weekend.
GTKY: One of the (non-embarrassing) stories told
about me is that when I was about 6-7 yrs old, I cut some of the fur on my
teddy bear’s stomach because I thought it would grow back. Obviously it didn’t.
The most told story in my
family is actually about my mom. When
she was younger (think teenager) her siblings all went out to the theater to
see The Sound of Music on Thanksgiving and left her to do the dishes herself. She was one of 8 children and she didn’t go
because she had already seen the movie.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
R/R: My baby boy took his first steps yesterday!!! He will be 1 on the 29th. I must have taken about 40 videos yesterday. He caught on so quick and was walking half way across the room by the end of the day. I am one proud momma bear!
CS/Q: nothing yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I was a big time sleep walker when I was little. I was a competitive swimmer when I was young and we were at provincials staying in the university dorms. I walked out of my room and went and snuggled up on some guys lap in the main hall. Luckily he was a swim dad from a neighboring town and my mom was sitting right there to take me back to bed.
Married:09/27/14
Baby N-Born:10/29/15 Our Angel: EDD: 05/11/17. MC at 6 weeks Baby #2- EDD: 07/18/17
R/R: I'm going to need a weekend after this weekend. So much to do!
CS/Q:
GTKY: I was about 5 when we were on a big family picnic. A bee landed on my hand and I did just what you were supposed to do and I held perfectly still. Bee stomped around for a little bit and then, completely unprovoked, planted his stinger in my hand. I was so furious and offended that I had done just what I was supposed to and still got stung. (Kinda like TTC, eh? ) There's a picture of me right after crying from equal parts pain and hurt feelings.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
R/R: I leave for my work trip in Vegas on Sunday. I'm equally excited to see Vegas for the first time and wishing I wasn't going at all so it's both a rant and a rave
CS/Q: nothing to see yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My mother LOVES to tell people what a drama queen I was with the example of the time she found me crying while looking in the mirror. Have you ever watched yourself cry? It's fascinating. Your face looks completely different.
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, maca root,cut out all caffeine except one cup green tea in the morning, no alcohol, preseed, BD EOD during FW, OKP, Temping and charting, fertility foods...
R/R:Rave-my H was very excited about the preseed, put him in the mood to HIO, but he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that it was special lube and only to be used during the fertile week of my cycle, anyhow, it was a good BD last night!
CS/Q:My dog often wakes me up for what I like to call "elevator service" (to be lifted into bed, even though he can jump on the bed, he prefers the elevator method). Because of this, I temped quickly before getting out of bed at 2:45am to get him. I typically temp at 6:00am, so I temped twice just to get one with 3+hours of solid sleep, and one at the same time I do everyday. What number should I use? The temps were different.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I shared this story in TWW on my last day there so some of you may have heard it, but when I was little, on St Patricks Day, my family was having corned beef and cabbage. I asked my dad "Dad, I know chicken comes from chickens, and beef comes from cows, but where does corned beef come from?" and he told me "Dead little leprechauns". So I've never touched corned beef since then! It still makes my dad crack up.
@TinyTurtle I felt pretty isolated TTC as well and so I sought out this group and I am so happy to have people to talk about it with! I am glad you found comfort in this group! @dmt929 Have fun at your sisters bach party and get after that champs! @NYTino24 I feel like I get iffy OPKs for several days (3?) and then on my stronger CD16, I typically get what I consider to be a positive @MommytoM13@JulesDP and @Immtravels FX for you in TWW! @purplg8r have fun at your housewarming party! @GeorgiaWife6912 Sorry for the working weekend! @lulu1180 Holy water! Love it! BSC in full effect, I'm right there with you! If someone tells me it worked for them, or its good for fertility, I'm all over it! @MrsN092714 Congrats mama bear!
32 years old (both H and I) Dating 7/2008 Married 7/2014 H Type I Diabetic TTC 1/2016
12/2016
mental break from TTC-NTNP
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL) 1/17/2017
SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility) 1/18/2017
STP tubes clear 2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements 6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility 7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm) 8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup 9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze 9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid 9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
WAYDTGKU: BD EOD, temping, checking CM and
CP, preseed, green tea, PNVs, CoQ10, Magnesium, evening primrose oil, cut out
caffeine….and considering rubbing holy water on my pelvic region
R/R:
It’s Friday of my birthday weekend! I love celebrating birthdays (mine
and other people’s) so I’m looking forward to starting tonight with dinner out
with DH. Trying to focus on the birthday excitement and not the fact that I am
getting older.
CS/Q:
None today
GTKY: What story does your family always tell
about you?
Apparently when I was a
toddler, if someone did not come to put me to bed quickly enough I would go to
my room and fall asleep next to my crib. To this day I need a solid 8 hours of
sleep most nights in order to function.
@dmt929 All the hugs to you.
Have an awesome time at the party!
@TinyTurtle Glad your rant
turned into a rave today!
@purplg8r Try to relax and
enjoy that you get to have people over now!
@lulu1180 My mom tells the
story that during her labor the doctor and my dad were in the waiting room
watching the World Series.
@lulu1180 I was so excited about my temp spike that I couldn't go back to sleep after my temping alarm! It's the little things.. Also Lol'd about the holy water!! Let me know if it works
R/R: So glad it's Friday. I was supposed to go to a housewarming party tonight for a girl I work with but I'm not going now because of someone else who is going to be there who hurt one of my closest friends. Loyalty and what not.
CS/Q: none
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I don't really know. I would have to think about that one...
Me: 32 DH: 31
Married: July 14, 2007 TTC #1: January 2008 Surprise BFP: November 2009
@dmt929 Ugh so sorry you had such a rough time! Last cycle I *convinced* myself I was KU and the mental ups and downs were so hard. Have so much fun at the bachelorette party - you deserve it!
@SaphireSweetie88 I had a very similar experience with my garage at my old apartment! Both me and DH scraped the sides of our cars on it, but it didn't make it unusable. Mostly it was just embarrassing. I'm actually kind of happy DH did it too so it didn't look like I was just a bad driver haha.
@TinyTurtle So glad your H said that. I hope it can help put your mind at ease.
@purplg8r GL with the housewarming party! I always get stressed hosting people too. As long as there's beer, I find that most people are happy haha.
@MrsN092714 Ahhh! That's awesome about your son. I'm glad you were able to be there and capture it with videos!
@Kiki75 I would have FREAKED OUT about the bee when I was younger! I honestly still freak out about them haha. I'm kind of glad your family was able to capture the moment with a photo, even though it was painful
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: Still waiting for AF to GTFO ugh.
R/R: It's Friday! My computer's hard drive crashed earlier this week, so I'm hoping to get it back from the shop today.
CS/Q: Not yet. Just started temping this cycle, so I'm sure I'll have questions later on.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I work with my family, so I end up hearing family stories a lot haha. One that my mom tells all the time is when I was younger, I sneezed on her right after putting a Hershey Kiss in my mouth. Thankfully she can laugh about it now, but it was probably pretty gross at the time.
Me: 31 DH: 31 DS born 6/2017, became a heart angel 8/2018 CP 3/2019
@NYTino24 I actually get two days of positives or peak readings depending on what I am using. @SaphireSweetie88 My sister has a similar story only she was on a moped and, instead of hitting the breaks, she accelerated into my aunt's garage and then tipped over. I wasn't there but they said the whole garage swayed she hit it so hard. My sister is hands down the worst driver of all time. She also hit a short yellow school bus in our own neighborhood full of kids. They all had to get off the bus and the cops came. It was a minor accident but also, hilarious. @TinyTurtle Glad YH came around! @MommytoM13@lmmtravels@JulesDP Yayyy good luck and I hope to see you in two days or so! @LadyMillil I think it was Jimmy Kimmel but Alanis Morrisett updated her Ironic song for modern day and it was pretty hilarious. Your post made me think that if there was a TTC Ironic song that would definitely be on there. If you follow my weird train of thought... @hartmich bottomless brunch is may fav!! Have all the mimos my friend! @lulu1180 You are so lucky to have such good inlaws! I feel like that is rare. Also, a bonfire sounds fall-tastic and amazing. Have so much fun! @JuneRoseRuby Glad the preseed did the trick @laurad75 I know you have mixed feelings but enjoy Vegas! @abjm0325 Happy Birthday!!!
Month/Cycle: 10
CD: 18
WAYDTGKU: All the things and now HIO ED!
R/R: Popped a positive OPK last night! This is actually the earliest I have ever got a positive in a cycle which is exciting for a couple reasons - my last cycle was 43 days and I think it kills our chances bc by the time I actually O we are exhausted AND I had an HSG this cycle and I was worried that would somehow mess my cycle up for the worse. We also had "gourmet sex" which is something to rave about when it is usually roll over and let's get this done lol It's been 10 months guys... the romance of all this is long gone for me.
CS/Q: No but my preO temps are a bit high which is odd but we have been sleeping with just the windows open. Idk.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Oh god, at this point I think even MH rolls his eyes whenever he hears it because my parents ALWAYS tell the same story about me. I was the kind of toddler you could take anywhere. My parents traveled all over the country with me and I never cried on a plane etc. Well my Pop-pop was apparently a bit of a high roller in his day and he asked us to meet him for dinner at one of super fance restaurants in one of the casinos in AC. My mom said that it was essentially a record screech and stares when they showed up with a baby and even the wait staff was initially annoyed because they had to find me a high chair. But I sat there (in some ridiculously fancy dress) the whole time just looking around and smiling and by the end the waitresses were bringing me strawberries dipped in brown sugar to eat and other diners were coming up to them. I think they cherish that memory because the rest of my childhood was mayhem. My brother came along and then my sister 18 months later and, well, we were terrors and the best of friends.
WAYDTGKU: Petty much everything anyone has ever suggested
R/R: I am so dang glad its Friday! This week has been chaotic and I just want to forget work for a few days
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you I honestly don't know nothing I can really think of. My mom is not the sentimental type so we don't really do that I guess.
- My BF did use the holy water because her family was pressuring her to and she figured it wasn't something you should lie about so she just tried it. Coincidence or not it worked lol.
R/R: Rant: I thought I was finally done with AF and then bam, this morning it hit again... ugh, I just want it to be over. Rave: It's Friday and I'm going to a surprise Birthday party tonight for a friend! Really excited about it!
CS/Q: No questions today!
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My parents like to tell the story of when I was two and ran into my cousin and got a small cut on my forehead... and then insisted on wearing a band-aid on for the next 3 months saying I was Pocahontas. To this day I have no idea why I thought wearing a band-aid made me look like Pocahontas.
Sorry I've not been around for the last day or two... night shift has been brutal. Anyway, I'm also heading to the TWW, since I got CH this morning. See you all over there soon, I hope!
Hey all, Just stopping in to say Im heading over to TWW, FF gave me CH today even though I think they are wrong on my O date (and if I add in a high temp tomorrow they move), but I am 99% sure I O'd the day after CH (all signs point to yes).
But I Love the GTKY today so Ill play: My Dad always loved to tell people about my bald spot on my head. When I was born (not totally sure why) the plates on my skull were softer than usual, and when they did form, for some reason I developed a bald spot. Its about the size of a half dollar coin, in the middle of my head. But My Dad would always tell my friends that if you touched it, it would make my left leg twitch. So of course my friends would ask about it, and try to touch it (its hard), but to their surprise its kinda weird feeling (very waxy) so they would only try once.
**TW Loss/pregnancy mentioned** Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16 BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17 BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19 BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19 BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2 Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage IVF started Feb 2020 retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal. Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
@BertieMeetsGertie fingers crossed it's O! That's such a cute story! I used to sneak out to sleep in this flimsy PAC man play tent in our living room a multiple times a week.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: opks, bbt, cm
R/R: TGIF! I started a new gym membership last night. I'm looking forward to getting back into a stable fitness routine. I'm in the worst shape I've ever been in, I blame newlywed syndrome! I think I might jump in on some of the fitness boards here.
CS/Q: none yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
My Grandpa has passed now but he used to always tell a story about when we lived in New York and he came to visit us. We were on the subway and I was in my stroller behind a partition. The train was packed and I was singing my ABCs at the top of my lungs. All the grumpy people riding the subway started to smile and look around. He told the story really cute and I used to get so sick of hearing it but now that he's gone it's a special memory to me, even though I don't remember the actual day.
Whew... sometimes it is hard to keep up in here! *takes deep breath*
@SaphireSweetie88 I took off my side mirror doing the same thing! @TinyTurtle I am happy to hear your H came around and apologized! @dmt929 Have fun at the bachelorette party! Champagne to the face... LOL @mrs35 I was the oldest of 3 and I was always jealous of the attention my siblings got. I am 5 years older than my brother and 7 years older than my sister. So they were always toddling around together and I felt like the odd man out! @MommytoM13@lmmtravels@JulesDP FX for you in TWW. Hope you don't come back! @BertieMeetsGertie FX for O! @purplg8r Have fun with your party! Try to relax and enjoy! I also love the Rainbow Brite story. @GeorgiaWife12 Sorry you have to work but yay for a 4 day weekend! @lulu1180 Holy water! Bahaha, I say try it out and let us know! @MrsN092714 Yay for proud momma bear moments! @abjm0325 Happy Birthday!
Month/Cycle: 2/1
CD: 34
WAYDTGKU: Just PNVs right now
R/R: I know I have been whining about this all week ladies, so I apologize. But god my uterus. *TMI warning* Last night I had a little bit of blood when I went to the bathroom and after cramping all night I thought for sure I would wake up to full blown surfing the crimson wave. And still... Not a damn thing. I wouldn't be so frustrated if I didn't feel like there was a gorilla sitting on my pelvis. But it's like AF is raging out down there but she just won't get on with it. *End rant*
On a rave note: My MIL and I are hosting a LuLaRoe pop-up party tonight so that should be fun! Also, it's Friday!
CS/Q: Can you ladies fill me in on the preseed deal? I have seen y'all talk about it a lot. Where do you get it? Also, do y'all suggest a certain kind of BBT thermometer? Or can I just pick one up at the drugstore?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
When I was around a year old and just learning to walk, I tripped and fell and when I landed I bit a hole through my tongue. My mom always talks about how it grossed her out for while when she would feed me because of the hole. I still have a scar on my tongue.
WAYDTGKU: hio EOD, pnv, charting, stuff I happen to do everyday anyway -> green tea, magnesium, fish oil
R/R: CD 1... yay
CS/Q: my PNV has folate rather than folic acid (smarty pants vitamins) - should I be taking a folic acid supplement also?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? That I rear ended a school bus on my first week with my license
@SaphireSweetie88 I scraped my parents car in their garage 5 years ago and never told them! My mom later tweeted "what kind of rude person side swipes someone in a parking lot and doesn't leave a note" they still don't know it was me!
@Saralee797 are we sisters?! Haha I also hit a short yellow school bus! Luckily there were no kids in it but cops still had to show up
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Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Well... this is sort of a FFFC, buttttt... My family always tells this story about when I was like 5 and shoved popcorn up my nose and didn't tell anyone but it got super infected and started to smell and was all gross and yucky. The confession part is that it wasn't popcorn, but foam from inside my mattress. I'd put it in my nose and then blow it out for fun, but that one got stuck.
@purplg8r Good luck with your party! Chances are everyone won't be able to make it, so hopefully you won't be too overrun at any given time! For food, can you just do a lot of pizza and call it good? Or big pots of chili and toppings? Something easy that can just stay warm. I'm sure everyone will have a great time
R/R: I don't know why but I just feel "off" this cycle, like I'm disconnected in a way. Maybe it's just because so much is going on here with some work/family stuff. I just feel like I'm doing this all kind of passively or halfheartedly this cycle, if that makes sense. And it's rather frustrating because I want to put all effort in, but I'm so distracted.
CS/Q: Nope, still waiting for positive opk.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Hmm, oh so many! They like to recount how I called snow mashed potatoes the first time I looked outside and saw it. They like to tell people how I kissed all the goats at a petting zoo. My mom loves to tell how at my kindergarten screening, by the time I got the last person (who ended up being my teacher), when she asked me my name I said "Can't you read it? It's right on those papers!" lol Because she was about the tenth person to ask me what my name was and all that jazz. There are just too many and they get progressively worse as I get older lol
@TinyTurtle I'm so glad to hear about H!! Yay! @dmt929 "champagne to the face" is my new motto for today. God speed. @NYTino24 I don't have any words of wisdom, but "nearly positive OPKs" and stress about stressing H out and missing the window are all of my concerns, too. I feel you. @purplg8r Can you make food that a) is easy to make in large quantities, b) people can serve/assemble themselves in the kitchen, c) you'd be ok with having leftovers of? Chili (a veggie and meat option), tacos (like @lulu1180 suggests too!), or pasta have all worked well for me in the past! Add a big salad and put out a few dressings and you're good to go! GL! @lulu1180@NYTino24@JuneRoseRuby I'm so fascinated by your preseed experiences! I'm getting some today (at an actual drug store after my amazon wondfo wait made me a crazy person) so I'll chime in tomorrow. @JuneRoseRuby I personally would use the later temp (the one from 6am, the usual time you temp), but make a note of both so you can plug either in and see how it effects your chart. @littlebug2010 Your GTKY is HILARIOUS. And yay for CH!!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: BBT/CP/CM charting, PNVs, HIO EOD
R/R: (see below)
CS/Q: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/67935dMy temp dipped further today, so not a fallback rise like we thought might have happened on CD16. I'm hoping I O today since CP is HS (no idea if open though..) and my wondfos are getting darker (hoping this mid-day/this afternoon I'll catch the surge). I guess best thing will be to see what my temp does the next 3 mornings! Hoping for a spike because I'm losing it over here big time (starting to feel like we need a TW for CH announcements which is INSANE, I know!!). On the theme of looking for silver linings, at least this charting thing helps me partially understand why I'm not KU yet: I clearly have no idea how long my luteal phase is and my cycles are irregular so OF COURSE I haven't hit my FW.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? When I was a toddler I would put everything in my mouth and one time at a party at my house I walked over to my mom with an unhappy look on my face, opened my mouth, and showed her a partially crunched up, still alive, snail in my mouth. Apparently I liked the crunchy bit but not so much the slimy part... My mom says it's one of the grossest things she ever saw/had to deal with haha
Me: 28 I MH: 27 Married August 2016 TTC #1 September 2016 BFP 10/31/16 EDD 7/16/17
R/R: Rant - My back hurts I have an old injury that's flaring up. I also have to do laundry tonight. Rave - I get to go to a party tonight!
CS/Q: Not so much a questing but more of a dear diary.
Dear diary, i'm just confused. I've had flashing smiley on my CBAFM for four day in a row. I was expecting to get a full smiley today, and O tomorrow. So maybe my timing was a day off. Or maybe my cycle changed this month. Or maybe I only get a full smiley the day that i'm going to O and not 24-36 hours before. Lastly, we're having sex EOD right now (except we still want -1, 0, +1) and what if CBAFM is wrong and we miss our window. Sigh... I guess out timing will still be okay either way.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? They don't really have any.
@motherhubbard19 I've seen preseed at most drug stores, but it's also on amazon (isn't everything)?! And @lulu1180 posted the BBT info on yesterday's WTO in response to @SaphireSweetie88 I think: most women on here use the Mabis that you can get on amazon. I personally use one from Target that seems to be fine, but who knows. Whatever you get, make sure it's a BBT specific thermometer that goes to the hundredth. GL!
Me: 28 I MH: 27 Married August 2016 TTC #1 September 2016 BFP 10/31/16 EDD 7/16/17
@NYTino24 When I tested 1x per day, I only had a dark OPK on one Wondfo, when I tested 2x per day, I could see a surge for 12-24 hours (meaning that I turned 4 tests, but you could see the progressive darkening and then lightening).
@TinyTurtle so glad your DH came to his senses! I had a hunch that he would
@dmt929 sorry for CD2 yup, track all the things!!! Have fun at the bachelorette party - champagne the shit out of it!
@purplg8r I'm having a similar conundrum about a housewarming party. We've lived in our house for about 18 months, but just now finished it (mostly). I know that people are dying to see what we've done to the interior. But yeah, aside from providing food and booze, I have no idea how to throw a party lol.
@lulu1180 LOL to the Holy Water..... although I'm sitting here thinking "why the heck not" and thinking about where I may be able to procure some.
WAYDTGKU: most of the things. Should start HIO EOD soon....
R/R: FRIDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!
And, I started watching "Does this baby make me look fat" on youtube. LOVE IT. Total TTC gold. I made DH watch some.
CS/Q: When I was on BC (pill) I pretty much only cramped for the first couple days of AF. I've been off BC for 3+ cycles now, and I have cramping of some type pretty much EVERY DAY all cycle long. It ranges from mild aching to the occasional sharp pain. My ob/gyn is unconcerned. Anyone have experience with this? Input?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Oh man. Lots to choose from. I was a horse crazy little girl (still am!), so when I was about 3 or 4 my mom would take me trail riding on her friend's horses. I rode double with my mom since I was so little. After one of our rides, my mom got off and was taking the horse's bridle off and getting it tied to the hitching post before she got me off. Apparently a bee or wasp stung the horse because he spooked and bucked. Of course I went flying and sprained my thumb (no idea how I injured my thumb of all things). I cried and fussed, and my mom assumed that this would be the end of my horse loving days. But no, through my tears and pain, I actually asked to get back on the horse. My mom loves telling this story to illustrate the BSC that engulfs horse people.
Re: WTO Friday 10/21
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: OPK / PNV / Sex
R/R: It's Friday!!!
Sorry if that's huge. I am mobile bumping. I will fix when on a computer.
CS/Q: none yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
They like to tell people about how confirmed their decision to get a new garage... I was attempting to park my car in the very narrow garage and was too close to the side. I ended up scraping the side of my car on the edge of the opening in the garage. That made the garage unstable and unsafe to park any vehicle in there. My parents said they would have waited another year before getting a new garage otherwise. Lucky for me, my parents weren't upset at all. They find it funny now and they found it funny then too.
Married: 06-2024
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
***TW***
BFP: 11/4/2016
BFP: 07/17/2024
Month/Cycle: 6/4
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: Sex ED/EOD, green tea, PNV
R/R: I would like to say a great big thank you to the support on yesterday's WTO after H's cold feet, I cannot tell you how much just a few sentences helped me to cope. TTC has been very isolating, and this group has been such a valuable resource of knowledge and support.
As it happens H came home last night and without prompting apologised and said that he had been thinking all day, and that he does want a family/baby more than anything, but he was overthinking all the practicalities (his friends all seem to have got KU'd accidentally and so really struggled afterwards). So no rant today, but rave for you guys and rave for H getting his head screwed back on!
CS/Q: None today
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
My parents love telling the story about how I once said "not quail's eggs and parma ham again" at Saturday lunch, because it apparently shows how posh I am (despite being their daughter!) as opposed to the fact that I don't like cured meat and we had it every Saturday for years! Such a strange (and boring I think) story to tell, but it was even in my dad's wedding speech.
Together: 08/08
Married: 08/14
TTC#1: 04/16
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: After "just seeing what happens" for 6 months its time to go all in, this month BBT, OPK, EOD/ED timing, charts, bells, whistles, all of it
R/R: Rant- after being a week late and getting my hopes up I spent most of yesterday either crying or on the verge of tears. No more of that, being devastated is exhausting. Rave: My sister's bachelorette party is this weekend so at least I can just take a bottle of champagne to the face
CS/Q: None right now
GTKY: My parents tell everyone how I was in a "music video" for a children's entertainer when I was 3. I was so nervous that the 10 seconds I'm in the video is me wringing my tiny hands with an anxious smile. Preview of coming attractions heh
Hope you ladies all have a wonderful weekend!
Married since 9/29/12
TTC: 4/2016, TTA 7-8/2016, TTC #2 9/2016
Fur kids: 2 cats
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt, opk, sex eod, cm
R/R: It's Friday!! H has the weekend off, hopefully we can get a few projects done!
CS/Q: I had a big temp jump this morning! Trying not to get too excited about it just yet. (No question and no point in posting my chart yet so I'll count this CS as a chart statement
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
When I was in first grade my sister graduated from preschool. Everyone was taking pictures of her all night and I didn't understand why no one wanted pictures of me too. (It was film back them so no sense in wasting it..) When my mom was putting me to bed she tried to talk to me about it which only made me more upset so I threatened to run away. I had on a pink nighty and grabbed my favorite doll. My dad caved and started taking pictures of me, sobbing in my pink nighty. That made me historical because I didn't look cute anymore and I wanted a cute picture. I didn't really go anywhere. Just sat on the deck for awhile crying.
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, CP, OPK, PNV, CoQ10, B complex, magnesium, Preseed, HIO EOD
R/R: Either I'm going to ovulate tremendously early, or I'm experiencing a false surge. OPKs are nearly positive, so DH and I HIO last night just in case. I really hope my body isn't messing with me. If it's real, I'm going to be upset that he couldn't finish the job two nights ago if it is early O. I think he was worried about having performance anxiety again, and he even mentioned it when we were done because there were flashes of it. He said, "I don't think I am nervous about baby making, but maybe subliminally my body is!" PS I tried Preseed and he didn't even notice.
CS/Q: Thanks for your answers yesterday! Just curious... how long does everyone's positive OPK / LH surge usually last?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?'
They don't really tell stories about me, at least ones I know about.. but one story from when I was younger is I used to race my sisters up the stairs and then 'clothesline' them to get up first. Then I'd have to distract them so they wouldn't tell on me. My mom didn't like me and always called me vindictive, so I preferred to avoid any conflict with her because I knew it wouldn't end well. That was the only time I was aggressive or a cheater, I swear.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Married: 6/10/11
*TW BFP: 12/4/16 EDD: 8/12/17
I hope to see you wonderful ladies over there soon
Married: October 2009
TTC#1: August 2016
DD Born 10/20/17
Month/Cycle: 4/5
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: pnv, temping, checking cm/cp, preseed, opk
R/R: Its Friday!!
CS/Q: I had a +opk last night and got a small temp spike this morning. Not due if I actually ID or if it was from the small glass of wine I had. Either way, I'll try to get DH to HIO tonight.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
my parents have two stories. The first is when I was 2 I got this doll for Christmas and I couldn't stop asking everyone "isn't she cute??" The second is that when I was little I used to get out of bed and sleep on this one stair that we had coming from the kitchen to our bedrooms. My parents would always have to remind my older brothers that when they got home, they need to check the stair so they wouldn't step on me.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@dmt929 have fun at your sister's bachelorette party!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, temping, opks, completely cut out all caffeine, starting CoQ10 & making hubby take it too
R/R: it's Friday! We're having a housewarming party tomorrow and I'm freaking out. I've never thrown a party before (I've always lived in apartments so never liked to have anyone over). I had a hard time with "well, if I invite this friend, then I have to invite this one too" and most of my friends have kids so it looks like we could have 52 people at any given time (since half are maybe I have to count them). I have no idea how to plan for food. And we'll have several tvs on showing the football games but I'm worried people will be bored (esp the kids).
CS/Q: none
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My mom always made my Halloween costumes growing up. I was OBSESSED with the Rainbow Brite one she made me when I was 4. Apparently the following July I had a meltdown because I wanted to wear the costume to the grocery store. I was crying and kept saying "but mommy, I have to spread happiness to all the people". And I won that argument and got to wear it.
@LadyMillil What kind of doctor are you (if you don't mind me asking)?
@NYTino24 I've only ever gotten 1 positive OPK at a time, never 2 in a row or anything. I have had a false surge, but I got a positive OPK, they turned negative, temps didn't confirm O, and then another positive a couple days later.
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: I'll be here for a while so nothing to see here
R/R: Friday. Thank God.
CS/Q: Nope.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
I was the first female grandchild (after 10 boys) so my birth story gets told a lot - my mom actually had an emergency c-section because she got pre-eclampsia and started having seizures. The famous story is that her best friend showed up at the hospital all excited, but found my dad and grandmother pacing the hallways. But then I was born, they announced I was a girl, and everyone "forgot" about my mom's issues because they were just so excited to see that pink blanket. Don't worry, my mom's fine now.
@dmt929 Sorry yesterday was so rough for you! Hopefully today is better! Enjoy the bachelorette party!
@mrs35 I literally LOL'd at your story. I can so picture little me doing the same thing.
@NYTino24 fx for O! Glad the preseed worked out!
@MommytoM13 @Immtravels @julesdp Good luck in TWW! Don't come back!
@BertieMeetsGertie fx you O'd!
@purplg8r Have fun at your housewarming party! I love a good get together! And also... who could possibly resist your Rainbow Brite spreading happiness? Adorable!
@hartmich I will be here keeping you company! I'm glad to hear your mom is ok haha!
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Y'all. I cannot keep up with how fast this thread moves!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: just bbt and pnvs right now
R/R: Rant: I have to work all weekend. UGH. Rave: Working this weekend means I have a 4 day weekend next week!
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I was a gymnast/cheered forever and when I was younger I hardly walked anywhere. I just "flipped" (aka cartwheels and stuff) everywhere I went.
Me: 33 DH: 33
Married: 6.9.12
DS born: 4.9.14
DD born 7.27.17
@TinyTurtle I’m so glad your DH came around yesterday! Also, I understand what you mean about the supportiveness of this community. I have never been made to feel like my feelings when upset about something TTC is unfounded. I love that I have somewhere to come where everyone understands what I’m going through and how I feel
@dmt929 I feel you! The past 2 cycles have been devastating for me and I was still doing all the things. I hope your stay here is short and you learn as much as I have from this community!
@mrs35 It’s kind of funny how a temp jump (which would be nearly miniscule to most people) gets us TTCers all aflutter.
@NYTino24 Yay for preseed! I did tell my DH about it beforehand and then asked him later if he coule tell and if he thought it was too much.
@MommytoM13 @lmmtravels @JulesDP GL in the TWW! I hope to not see any of you back here!
@LadyMillil I’m not sure if I would consider that good or bad. Sorry you made a wasted trip.
@BertieMeetsGertie Fx for O!
@purplg8r When I had a housewarming last year, I did a taco bar. It’s fairly inexpensive, easy to make and everyone loves tacos. I even found a homemade taco rice recipe that every seemed to love. If you want it, I can dig it out and post the link. FYI I kept the food warm using a small buffet kit from a local craft store.
@hartmich I forgot about my birth story! My mom was in labor with me for 4 days on and off and when she was in full active labor with me, my father and the doctor were watching the Browns game on TV. They did win, btw
@GeorgiaWife6912 Sorry you have to work all weekend but YAY for a 4-day weekend next week!
Month/Cycle: 5/6
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: BD EOD, temping, checking CM and CP, preseed, green tea, PNVs, CoQ10, Magnesium, evening primrose oil, cut out caffeine….and considering rubbing holy water on my pelvic region
R/R: It’s Friday and we’re going to my in-laws for the weekend for their annual bonfire! I really can’t wait as it’s always so relaxing when we go there. Also, I totally plan on BD tomorrow morning in case today is O day
Also, about the holy water comment – a coworker was telling me a few days ago that when she was TTC her son after about 19 months, she had gone to a funeral at a Catholic church (she isn’t Catholic herself) and one of the old ladies there rubbed holy water in her pelvic region and then she got her bfp. Is it sad if I’m actually considering trying it if this cycle doesn’t work…?
CS/Q: nope, today is historically O day for me so I’m hoping to see the temp rise this weekend.
GTKY: One of the (non-embarrassing) stories told about me is that when I was about 6-7 yrs old, I cut some of the fur on my teddy bear’s stomach because I thought it would grow back. Obviously it didn’t.
The most told story in my family is actually about my mom. When she was younger (think teenager) her siblings all went out to the theater to see The Sound of Music on Thanksgiving and left her to do the dishes herself. She was one of 8 children and she didn’t go because she had already seen the movie.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: pnvs opks sex eod bbt
R/R: My baby boy took his first steps yesterday!!! He will be 1 on the 29th. I must have taken about 40 videos yesterday. He caught on so quick and was walking half way across the room by the end of the day. I am one proud momma bear!
CS/Q: nothing yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
I was a big time sleep walker when I was little. I was a competitive swimmer when I was young and we were at provincials staying in the university dorms. I walked out of my room and went and snuggled up on some guys lap in the main hall. Luckily he was a swim dad from a neighboring town and my mom was sitting right there to take me back to bed.
Our Angel: EDD: 05/11/17. MC at 6 weeks
Baby #2- EDD: 07/18/17
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, Vitamin D, fish oil
R/R: I'm going to need a weekend after this weekend. So much to do!
CS/Q:
GTKY: I was about 5 when we were on a big family picnic. A bee landed on my hand and I did just what you were supposed to do and I held perfectly still. Bee stomped around for a little bit and then, completely unprovoked, planted his stinger in my hand. I was so furious and offended that I had done just what I was supposed to and still got stung. (Kinda like TTC, eh?
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@GeorgiaWife6912 I did gymnastics when I was young and was notorious for tumbling into every room too.
Month/Cycle: 6/7
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: temping, pnv, epo; clomid starts tonight
R/R: I leave for my work trip in Vegas on Sunday. I'm equally excited to see Vegas for the first time and wishing I wasn't going at all so it's both a rant and a rave
CS/Q: nothing to see yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? My mother LOVES to tell people what a drama queen I was with the example of the time she found me crying while looking in the mirror. Have you ever watched yourself cry? It's fascinating. Your face looks completely different.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
CD:4
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, maca root,cut out all caffeine except one cup green tea in the morning, no alcohol, preseed, BD EOD during FW, OKP, Temping and charting, fertility foods...
R/R:Rave-my H was very excited about the preseed, put him in the mood to HIO, but he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that it was special lube and only to be used during the fertile week of my cycle, anyhow, it was a good BD last night!
CS/Q:My dog often wakes me up for what I like to call "elevator service" (to be lifted into bed, even though he can jump on the bed, he prefers the elevator method). Because of this, I temped quickly before getting out of bed at 2:45am to get him. I typically temp at 6:00am, so I temped twice just to get one with 3+hours of solid sleep, and one at the same time I do everyday. What number should I use? The temps were different.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I shared this story in TWW on my last day there so some of you may have heard it, but when I was little, on St Patricks Day, my family was having corned beef and cabbage. I asked my dad "Dad, I know chicken comes from chickens, and beef comes from cows, but where does corned beef come from?" and he told me "Dead little leprechauns". So I've never touched corned beef since then! It still makes my dad crack up.
@TinyTurtle I felt pretty isolated TTC as well and so I sought out this group and I am so happy to have people to talk about it with! I am glad you found comfort in this group!
@dmt929 Have fun at your sisters bach party and get after that champs!
@NYTino24 I feel like I get iffy OPKs for several days (3?) and then on my stronger CD16, I typically get what I consider to be a positive
@MommytoM13 @JulesDP and @Immtravels FX for you in TWW!
@purplg8r have fun at your housewarming party!
@GeorgiaWife6912 Sorry for the working weekend!
@lulu1180 Holy water! Love it! BSC in full effect, I'm right there with you! If someone tells me it worked for them, or its good for fertility, I'm all over it!
@MrsN092714 Congrats mama bear!
Dating 7/2008
Married 7/2014
H Type I Diabetic
TTC 1/2016
1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid
Do you think this is available on Amazon Prime?
https://www.amazon.com/Christian-Gift-Jordan-River-Water/dp/B001B0A14I/ref=sr_1_6_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1477055156&sr=8-6&keywords=holy+water
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: PNV, CM, OPK
R/R: It’s Friday of my birthday weekend! I love celebrating birthdays (mine and other people’s) so I’m looking forward to starting tonight with dinner out with DH. Trying to focus on the birthday excitement and not the fact that I am getting older.
CS/Q: None today
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
Apparently when I was a toddler, if someone did not come to put me to bed quickly enough I would go to my room and fall asleep next to my crib. To this day I need a solid 8 hours of sleep most nights in order to function.
@dmt929 All the hugs to you. Have an awesome time at the party!
@TinyTurtle Glad your rant turned into a rave today!
@purplg8r Try to relax and enjoy that you get to have people over now!
@lulu1180 My mom tells the story that during her labor the doctor and my dad were in the waiting room watching the World Series.
@MrsN092414 Yay for your baby boy! So exciting!
Also Lol'd about the holy water!! Let me know if it works
CD: 40
WAYDTGKU: sex
R/R: So glad it's Friday. I was supposed to go to a housewarming party tonight for a girl I work with but I'm not going now because of someone else who is going to be there who hurt one of my closest friends. Loyalty and what not.
CS/Q: none
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? I don't really know. I would have to think about that one...
Me: 32 DH: 31
TTC #1: January 2008
Surprise BFP: November 2009
CP: September 2016
@SaphireSweetie88 I had a very similar experience with my garage at my old apartment! Both me and DH scraped the sides of our cars on it, but it didn't make it unusable. Mostly it was just embarrassing. I'm actually kind of happy DH did it too so it didn't look like I was just a bad driver haha.
@TinyTurtle So glad your H said that. I hope it can help put your mind at ease.
@purplg8r GL with the housewarming party! I always get stressed hosting people too. As long as there's beer, I find that most people are happy haha.
@lulu1180 FX for O today!
@MrsN092714 Ahhh! That's awesome about your son. I'm glad you were able to be there and capture it with videos!
@Kiki75 I would have FREAKED OUT about the bee when I was younger! I honestly still freak out about them haha. I'm kind of glad your family was able to capture the moment with a photo, even though it was painful
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: Still waiting for AF to GTFO ugh.
R/R: It's Friday! My computer's hard drive crashed earlier this week, so I'm hoping to get it back from the shop today.
CS/Q: Not yet. Just started temping this cycle, so I'm sure I'll have questions later on.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
I work with my family, so I end up hearing family stories a lot haha. One that my mom tells all the time is when I was younger, I sneezed on her right after putting a Hershey Kiss in my mouth. Thankfully she can laugh about it now, but it was probably pretty gross at the time.
CP 3/2019
@SaphireSweetie88 My sister has a similar story only she was on a moped and, instead of hitting the breaks, she accelerated into my aunt's garage and then tipped over. I wasn't there but they said the whole garage swayed she hit it so hard. My sister is hands down the worst driver of all time. She also hit a short yellow school bus in our own neighborhood full of kids. They all had to get off the bus and the cops came. It was a minor accident but also, hilarious.
@TinyTurtle Glad YH came around!
@MommytoM13 @lmmtravels @JulesDP Yayyy good luck and I hope to see you in two days or so!
@LadyMillil I think it was Jimmy Kimmel but Alanis Morrisett updated her Ironic song for modern day and it was pretty hilarious. Your post made me think that if there was a TTC Ironic song that would definitely be on there. If you follow my weird train of thought...
@hartmich bottomless brunch is may fav!! Have all the mimos my friend!
@lulu1180 You are so lucky to have such good inlaws! I feel like that is rare. Also, a bonfire sounds fall-tastic and amazing. Have so much fun!
@JuneRoseRuby Glad the preseed did the trick
@laurad75 I know you have mixed feelings but enjoy Vegas!
@abjm0325 Happy Birthday!!!
Month/Cycle: 10
CD: 18
WAYDTGKU: All the things and now HIO ED!
R/R: Popped a positive OPK last night! This is actually the earliest I have ever got a positive in a cycle which is exciting for a couple reasons - my last cycle was 43 days and I think it kills our chances bc by the time I actually O we are exhausted AND I had an HSG this cycle and I was worried that would somehow mess my cycle up for the worse. We also had "gourmet sex"
CS/Q: No but my preO temps are a bit high which is odd but we have been sleeping with just the windows open. Idk.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Oh god, at this point I think even MH rolls his eyes whenever he hears it because my parents ALWAYS tell the same story about me. I was the kind of toddler you could take anywhere. My parents traveled all over the country with me and I never cried on a plane etc. Well my Pop-pop was apparently a bit of a high roller in his day and he asked us to meet him for dinner at one of super fance restaurants in one of the casinos in AC. My mom said that it was essentially a record screech and stares when they showed up with a baby and even the wait staff was initially annoyed because they had to find me a high chair. But I sat there (in some ridiculously fancy dress) the whole time just looking around and smiling and by the end the waitresses were bringing me strawberries dipped in brown sugar to eat and other diners were coming up to them. I think they cherish that memory because the rest of my childhood was mayhem. My brother came along and then my sister 18 months later and, well, we were terrors and the best of friends.
CD:10
WAYDTGKU: Petty much everything anyone has ever suggested
R/R: I am so dang glad its Friday! This week has been chaotic and I just want to forget work for a few days
CS/Q: Nope
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you I honestly don't know nothing I can really think of. My mom is not the sentimental type so we don't really do that I guess.
- My BF did use the holy water because her family was pressuring her to and she figured it wasn't something you should lie about so she just tried it. Coincidence or not it worked lol.
CD: 6
WAYDTGKU: Sex, BBT, PNV
R/R: Rant: I thought I was finally done with AF and then bam, this morning it hit again... ugh, I just want it to be over. Rave: It's Friday and I'm going to a surprise Birthday party tonight for a friend! Really excited about it!
CS/Q: No questions today!
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
My parents like to tell the story of when I was two and ran into my cousin and got a small cut on my forehead... and then insisted on wearing a band-aid on for the next 3 months saying I was Pocahontas.
@abjm0325 happy birthday weekend!!
@lulu1180 I actually did the same thing with my barbie's hair. I was really convinced it would grow back!
But I Love the GTKY today so Ill play: My Dad always loved to tell people about my bald spot on my head. When I was born (not totally sure why) the plates on my skull were softer than usual, and when they did form, for some reason I developed a bald spot. Its about the size of a half dollar coin, in the middle of my head. But My Dad would always tell my friends that if you touched it, it would make my left leg twitch. So of course my friends would ask about it, and try to touch it (its hard), but to their surprise its kinda weird feeling (very waxy) so they would only try once.
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: opks, bbt, cm
R/R: TGIF! I started a new gym membership last night. I'm looking forward to getting back into a stable fitness routine. I'm in the worst shape I've ever been in, I blame newlywed syndrome! I think I might jump in on some of the fitness boards here.
CS/Q: none yet
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
My Grandpa has passed now but he used to always tell a story about when we lived in New York and he came to visit us. We were on the subway and I was in my stroller behind a partition. The train was packed and I was singing my ABCs at the top of my lungs. All the grumpy people riding the subway started to smile and look around. He told the story really cute and I used to get so sick of hearing it but now that he's gone it's a special memory to me, even though I don't remember the actual day.
@SaphireSweetie88 I took off my side mirror doing the same thing!
@TinyTurtle I am happy to hear your H came around and apologized!
@dmt929 Have fun at the bachelorette party! Champagne to the face... LOL
@mrs35 I was the oldest of 3 and I was always jealous of the attention my siblings got. I am 5 years older than my brother and 7 years older than my sister. So they were always toddling around together and I felt like the odd man out!
@MommytoM13 @lmmtravels @JulesDP FX for you in TWW. Hope you don't come back!
@BertieMeetsGertie FX for O!
@purplg8r Have fun with your party! Try to relax and enjoy! I also love the Rainbow Brite story.
@GeorgiaWife12 Sorry you have to work but yay for a 4 day weekend!
@lulu1180 Holy water! Bahaha, I say try it out and let us know!
@MrsN092714 Yay for proud momma bear moments!
@abjm0325 Happy Birthday!
Month/Cycle: 2/1
CD: 34
WAYDTGKU: Just PNVs right now
R/R: I know I have been whining about this all week ladies, so I apologize. But god my uterus. *TMI warning* Last night I had a little bit of blood when I went to the bathroom and after cramping all night I thought for sure I would wake up to full blown surfing the crimson wave. And still... Not a damn thing. I wouldn't be so frustrated if I didn't feel like there was a gorilla sitting on my pelvis. But it's like AF is raging out down there but she just won't get on with it. *End rant*
On a rave note: My MIL and I are hosting a LuLaRoe pop-up party tonight so that should be fun! Also, it's Friday!
CS/Q: Can you ladies fill me in on the preseed deal? I have seen y'all talk about it a lot. Where do you get it? Also, do y'all suggest a certain kind of BBT thermometer? Or can I just pick one up at the drugstore?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
When I was around a year old and just learning to walk, I tripped and fell and when I landed I bit a hole through my tongue. My mom always talks about how it grossed her out for while when she would feed me because of the hole. I still have a scar on my tongue.
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: hio EOD, pnv, charting, stuff I happen to do everyday anyway -> green tea, magnesium, fish oil
R/R: CD 1... yay
CS/Q: my PNV has folate rather than folic acid (smarty pants vitamins) - should I be taking a folic acid supplement also?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you?
That I rear ended a school bus on my first week with my license
@SaphireSweetie88 I scraped my parents car in their garage 5 years ago and never told them! My mom later tweeted "what kind of rude person side swipes someone in a parking lot and doesn't leave a note" they still don't know it was me!
@Saralee797 are we sisters?! Haha I also hit a short yellow school bus! Luckily there were no kids in it but cops still had to show up
eta comments
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: All the things + Metformin
R/R:
CS/Q:
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Well... this is sort of a FFFC, buttttt... My family always tells this story about when I was like 5 and shoved popcorn up my nose and didn't tell anyone but it got super infected and started to smell and was all gross and yucky. The confession part is that it wasn't popcorn, but foam from inside my mattress. I'd put it in my nose and then blow it out for fun, but that one got stuck.
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
@JulesDP @lmmtravels @MommytoM13 Yay for crosshairs!! Good luck
@purplg8r Good luck with your party! Chances are everyone won't be able to make it, so hopefully you won't be too overrun at any given time! For food, can you just do a lot of pizza and call it good? Or big pots of chili and toppings? Something easy that can just stay warm. I'm sure everyone will have a great time
@Saralee797 Yay for early OPK!!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU:PNV, OPK, green tea sometimes
R/R: I don't know why but I just feel "off" this cycle, like I'm disconnected in a way. Maybe it's just because so much is going on here with some work/family stuff. I just feel like I'm doing this all kind of passively or halfheartedly this cycle, if that makes sense. And it's rather frustrating because I want to put all effort in, but I'm so distracted.
CS/Q: Nope, still waiting for positive opk.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Hmm, oh so many! They like to recount how I called snow mashed potatoes the first time I looked outside and saw it. They like to tell people how I kissed all the goats at a petting zoo. My mom loves to tell how at my kindergarten screening, by the time I got the last person (who ended up being my teacher), when she asked me my name I said "Can't you read it? It's right on those papers!" lol Because she was about the tenth person to ask me what my name was and all that jazz. There are just too many and they get progressively worse as I get older lol
Me: 36 DH: 41
@dmt929 "champagne to the face" is my new motto for today. God speed.
@NYTino24 I don't have any words of wisdom, but "nearly positive OPKs" and stress about stressing H out and missing the window are all of my concerns, too. I feel you.
@purplg8r Can you make food that a) is easy to make in large quantities, b) people can serve/assemble themselves in the kitchen, c) you'd be ok with having leftovers of? Chili (a veggie and meat option), tacos (like @lulu1180 suggests too!), or pasta have all worked well for me in the past! Add a big salad and put out a few dressings and you're good to go! GL!
@lulu1180 @NYTino24 @JuneRoseRuby I'm so fascinated by your preseed experiences! I'm getting some today (at an actual drug store after my amazon wondfo wait made me a crazy person) so I'll chime in tomorrow.
@JuneRoseRuby I personally would use the later temp (the one from 6am, the usual time you temp), but make a note of both so you can plug either in and see how it effects your chart.
@littlebug2010 Your GTKY is HILARIOUS. And yay for CH!!
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: BBT/CP/CM charting, PNVs, HIO EOD
R/R: (see below)
CS/Q: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/67935d My temp dipped further today, so not a fallback rise like we thought might have happened on CD16. I'm hoping I O today since CP is HS (no idea if open though..) and my wondfos are getting darker (hoping this mid-day/this afternoon I'll catch the surge). I guess best thing will be to see what my temp does the next 3 mornings! Hoping for a spike because I'm losing it over here big time (starting to feel like we need a TW for CH announcements which is INSANE, I know!!). On the theme of looking for silver linings, at least this charting thing helps me partially understand why I'm not KU yet: I clearly have no idea how long my luteal phase is and my cycles are irregular so OF COURSE I haven't hit my FW.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? When I was a toddler I would put everything in my mouth and one time at a party at my house I walked over to my mom with an unhappy look on my face, opened my mouth, and showed her a partially crunched up, still alive, snail in my mouth. Apparently I liked the crunchy bit but not so much the slimy part... My mom says it's one of the grossest things she ever saw/had to deal with haha
Married August 2016
TTC #1 September 2016
BFP 10/31/16
EDD 7/16/17
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: All the normal stuff.
R/R: Rant - My back hurts
Rave - I get to go to a party tonight!
CS/Q: Not so much a questing but more of a dear diary.
Dear diary, i'm just confused. I've had flashing smiley on my CBAFM for four day in a row. I was expecting to get a full smiley today, and O tomorrow. So maybe my timing was a day off. Or maybe my cycle changed this month. Or maybe I only get a full smiley the day that i'm going to O and not 24-36 hours before. Lastly, we're having sex EOD right now (except we still want -1, 0, +1) and what if CBAFM is wrong and we miss our window. Sigh... I guess out timing will still be okay either way.
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? They don't really have any.
Married August 2016
TTC #1 September 2016
BFP 10/31/16
EDD 7/16/17
@MommytoM13 @spk112 @littlebug2010 & @lmmtravels GL in TWW! FX you don't come back!
@TinyTurtle so glad your DH came to his senses! I had a hunch that he would
@dmt929 sorry for CD2
@purplg8r I'm having a similar conundrum about a housewarming party. We've lived in our house for about 18 months, but just now finished it (mostly). I know that people are dying to see what we've done to the interior. But yeah, aside from providing food and booze, I have no idea how to throw a party lol.
@lulu1180 LOL to the Holy Water..... although I'm sitting here thinking "why the heck not" and thinking about where I may be able to procure some.
@Kiki75 damn suicidal bee!
@abjm0325 Happy Birthday weekend!!!
@Saralee797 "gourmet sex" is a great way to put it! Love it.
@haylsbayls I actually look for vitamins with Folate as L-5-methyltetrahydrofolate instead of folic acid:
https://authoritynutrition.com/folic-acid-vs-folate/
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Month/Cycle: 3/4
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: most of the things. Should start HIO EOD soon....
R/R: FRIDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!
And, I started watching "Does this baby make me look fat" on youtube. LOVE IT. Total TTC gold. I made DH watch some.
CS/Q: When I was on BC (pill) I pretty much only cramped for the first couple days of AF. I've been off BC for 3+ cycles now, and I have cramping of some type pretty much EVERY DAY all cycle long. It ranges from mild aching to the occasional sharp pain. My ob/gyn is unconcerned. Anyone have experience with this? Input?
GTKY: What story does your family always tell about you? Oh man. Lots to choose from. I was a horse crazy little girl (still am!), so when I was about 3 or 4 my mom would take me trail riding on her friend's horses. I rode double with my mom since I was so little. After one of our rides, my mom got off and was taking the horse's bridle off and getting it tied to the hitching post before she got me off. Apparently a bee or wasp stung the horse because he spooked and bucked. Of course I went flying and sprained my thumb (no idea how I injured my thumb of all things). I cried and fussed, and my mom assumed that this would be the end of my horse loving days. But no, through my tears and pain, I actually asked to get back on the horse. My mom loves telling this story to illustrate the BSC that engulfs horse people.
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018