Oh how I wish having a baby didn't cost so much!
We have 2 wonderful, wonderful boys...I have the dream of a 3rd child as well. I didn't think hubby was on board but he recently said he was in-if we went for it NOW to get through the baby stage and be done. For me, that 3rd child dream would be a few years down the road-when we would only have to pay for that one to be in full time daycare and the other 2 could be in school. I remember the stress of realizing what we would pay for our 2 boys to go to daycare, I can't imagine factoring in a 3rd, although our oldest currently does half days of school and will be full time next year. Its just so difficult-and sad for me that I would have to base the decision on that.
I know there is no right or wrong answer as to whether we should have a 3rd or when it would work best for us. But I have faith that if its meant to be it will eventually happen! If not, we will continue to enjoy life with our 2 little guys we have now!