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Throat Punch Thursday

edited October 2016 in Trying to Get Pregnant
Because I don't think WTF Wednesday was enough! Let 'em fly, ladies!!!


Re: Throat Punch Thursday

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  • Mine is the same as yesterday's (WTF Wednesday) because I talked to DH about it yesterday after work and he doesn't seem to understand my side of it....

    My husband and FIL.

    We need a new engine for his car (we've needed it for 1 year) and finally have the means to get one. Anyway, we were looking at 3 different ones and finally decided on one. We have a friend of my FIL who's a mechanic (let's call him Bob) and is going to put the engine in for us (yay!). Well DH and I agreed on how much we were going to pay Bob. This was about 2 weeks ago.

    Fast forward to a couple days ago, DH tells my FIL we're going to pay Bob x amount. Why DH decided to tell FIL is beyond me but oh well. My FIL says you should pay Bob y amount. DH agreed and then told Bob that we we're going to pay him y amount. NEVER was the change in payment discussed with me first before telling Bob. I found out yesterday (Wednesday) on the way to work. The new amount is way too much (IMO) and I don't want to look like the bad guy by saying no, we're paying x amount like we agreed on... ugh

    @Dilynne - I'd be staying with my parents since I am allergic as well.
    @rainbowturtles - That's kind of funny hehe
    Me:35 | DH: 32
    Married: 06-2024
    TTC #1: Since November 2015
    Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
         due to previous issues.
    ***TW***
    BFP: 11/4/2016 
    BFP: 07/17/2024
  • @swimsister Wow, that is over the top for sure! We didn't even use those tissue paper things in our wedding invitations! 
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Dating since: 11/17/2001
    Married: 9/26/2009
    TTC: June 2016
    BFP: 9/01/2017
    EDD: 5/14/2018


  • @swimsister a three hour drive for a kid's ONE YEAR BIRTHDAY??!! Nope nope nope. Probably not even for family. I thought an appropriate and cute 1st birthday was the cake smash photo shoot and posting it on Facebook lol Send pics. Don't expect a huge party; that's so strange to me. (or maybe I'm just cranky today lol)
  • @rainbowturtles - beware playing games the wait it out game with men... DH has put something BACK in the fridge after I took it out when he said he'd clean it up. 
    @SaphireSweetie88 - oh that would NOT fly with me! I am not a happy camper when DH talks about our finances in any way with Mil/fil. It's between you and bob. If Bob has a problem with it, he can tell you!
    @BertieMeetsGertie - I totally remember that episode of Everybody Loves Raymond. Somehow, that doesn't work with MH. Something gets stinky in his car and I end up cleaning it...
    @swimsister - yikes! Sounds excessive. If it's not a super close friend, I would personally have no problem saying you can't be there...

    Mt TPT is just a general one to all employers who use the stupid HR programs that look for key words in your application/resume. I promise I will be a great employee! Yes, even remote! I'm getting so frustrated, like just throwing my resume into the wind would be more effective. I'm so sick of all these automated things with no real contact info to a real person! 
    DH & I: 27
    Dating: 11/14/2010
    Married: 10/18/2014
    TTC April 2016
    BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
  • @KhRun17 - My thoughts exactly. I talk to my mom about finances in general a little but she doesn't know specifics about our finances.
    Me:35 | DH: 32
    Married: 06-2024
    TTC #1: Since November 2015
    Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
         due to previous issues.
    ***TW***
    BFP: 11/4/2016 
    BFP: 07/17/2024
  • @KhRun17 the part I don't understand is that HE brought it out onto the counter and then left it there. Like, what is the thought process? Especially when you see it again after work and then again the next morning lol

    But yes, sometimes I feel like I should just know better lol We share a vehicle right now and I haven't been able to borrow it this week so I sent him to get fake blood for our costumes for a party this weekend and now I think he's gone and spent over $100 at the costume store when I only sent him for blood :# I love that he loves Halloween but I already spent around $100 so I'm just like yeeeesh!

    Meanwhile, I'd like to TP these awful cramps because omg I'm in agony :s
  • @rainbowturtles Sorry AF is being a nasty bee-otch!!


    "It's time to try defying gravity."

    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married 6/11/16
    TTC Since 6/2016
    12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
    3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
    8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
    7/2018 Clomid+IUI
    11/2018 Letrozole+TI
    12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
    2/2019 NTNP
    5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
  • edited October 2016
    @littlebug2010 TB has been really slow for me today too for some reason. It keeps getting stuck!

    @SaphireSweetie88 I don't blame you for being mad. I would not be happy if my H discussed our finances with anyone but me. That stuff is between you guys. 

    @swimsister Some people go way too over the top for 1st birthday parties. IMHO it should just be family and a few select close friends. It does seem like you're just looking for gifts. 

    @KhRun17 I know your pain. I lost my job last summer and looking for a new one was a nightmare. I hope it gets better for you!
     
    @rainbowturtles I am with you. AF hasn't showed yet but I am already crampy and pissed off. 




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