@kirstynikole instead of writing a list, I recommend you do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Seriously, leave everything as is. Wash and use whatever dishes you need and put them right back in the sink. Take a shower, throw the towel on the bed, leave your bed unmade, etc. And then when he comes home and sees what a mess the house is in.....just tell him "well, since you accused me of not doing anything, today I decided to literally not do anything." For reals, it's not until the house is messy, do people realize just how much you do. Good luck.
@AfKash the only problem with that is that it would give me anxiety before he even noticed it as a problem.
He came home for lunch and brought food, so I thought we'd be able to have a conversation. Nope. When I told him he hurt my feelings by saying I don't do anything all day, he responded well you hurt mine by acting like I don't do anything. How was me asking about the dishes accusing him of not doing anything? Just got pissed off all over again. Damn I can apologize if it truly hurt his feelings but I feel like he's just deflecting and not taking accountability at all. Seriously what crawled up his ass and died last night?
Edit: H's lunch trip home also was right as I was trying to get DS to nap. H is now gone and DS is still awake.
I was supposed to be at work at 9:30 this morning, but had it in my head that I worked at 1:30 this afternoon. So I get a call at 11:30 (I just sat down at a Chinese restaurant and ordered lunch with a friend) that my store didn't open at 10. I called one of my employees who lives really close to work and had her beat me there to get it opened up for me so I could eat my lunch before I went to work Pregnancy brain has gotten the best of me for sure.
@kirstynikole Thanks for the tip! The only hobby lobby near us is actually near the Buy Buy Baby (which we will be visiting Sunday) so I will add that to my list for the day!
S/O from some UO's. My kids are 9.5 and turning 5 next week. We have never been on vacation with them without other family members because traveling with kids is such a hassle.
Don't blame you! My kids are 3, 5 & 6 and we've never been on vacation with them without other family either. We always go with either my parents or my in laws. I WILL say, however, that I've been flying alone with all three kids at least once a year since my youngest was a little baby. Just imagine having a newborn, 2 and 3 year old on a plane by yourself. People avoid you like the plague! Lol.
@kirstynikole Thanks for the tip! The only hobby lobby near us is actually near the Buy Buy Baby (which we will be visiting Sunday) so I will add that to my list for the day!
You won't be able to go to hobby lobby on Sunday, they're all closed!
Re: FFFC*!! 9/23
Ditto. I watch the first like 3 movies once because my sister made me...but I still don't know what people are talking about.
ME: 25, DH: 27
TTC #1 since 09/2015
Miscarriage @ 10 wks 02/28/2016
BFP 05/28/2016!
MOTY!
For reals, it's not until the house is messy, do people realize just how much you do. Good luck.
He came home for lunch and brought food, so I thought we'd be able to have a conversation. Nope. When I told him he hurt my feelings by saying I don't do anything all day, he responded well you hurt mine by acting like I don't do anything. How was me asking about the dishes accusing him of not doing anything? Just got pissed off all over again. Damn I can apologize if it truly hurt his feelings but I feel like he's just deflecting and not taking accountability at all. Seriously what crawled up his ass and died last night?
Edit: H's lunch trip home also was right as I was trying to get DS to nap. H is now gone and DS is still awake.
Me three
BFP #1- March 4 (MC March 24)
BFP #2- May 26