First: this is NOT a thread for arguing for or against vaccination.
This is thread is to openly discuss ideas on which vaccines you're giving when (if any) and how to help LOs feel better as well as prepping other new mommas know what to expect.
LO is getting his first round tomorrow morning. Probably going to space them out a bit. 8-9 different vaccines in one go seems ridiculous
Re: Vaccines
My guy got his at his 2 month appointment at 9 weeks. He got 2 shots, one in each meaty thigh, and one orally like the vitamin D. The oral one was for pertussis I think. He was fine with that one but screamed bloody murder for the shots. They suggested feeding him 10 mins before or even during so he's content and in a milk coma when he gets it. I nursed him during and he popped off and cried for probably 2-3 mins (felt like 15) but as soon as he calmed down enough to latch again he ate for 10 mins and then passed out cold. He slept a lot that night and was a little fussier the next day then totally fine. No rash no fever.
He gets the next set at 4 months.
I think his second shots will be harder cause I'll be more prepared for his reaction. With the first ones I wasn't sure how he would react!
We we did do a modified vaccine schedule for her rotavirus vaccine. We are supposed to get that at 3 and 5 months, but we did it early bc my FIL is going through chemo and can't have contact with us for 3 weeks after she gets the vaccine (it's a live virus). The schedule they have it we would have missed Christmas with them. We have another two weeks until she gets the second dose (we did them 4 weeks apart as opposed to 8).
I personally wouldn't want to wait too long just because I want her protected ASAP
If any of you are getting the flu shot, which appointment are you doing it at? I wasn't sure if her pedi mentioned it was going to be at her 4 or 6 month appointment, or if we had a choice.
https://thescientificparent.org/vaccines-101-too-much-too-soon/
We were told to make sure everyone in the house has their flu shot since he won't be able to get his during peak flu season (after 6 months is what we were told for him to get it)
I was pleasantly surprised, she cried during the injections but once I picked her up and bounced her, she stopped (to me, the crying wasn't even that bad but I also had to sit through a tongue tie revision and compared it to that). I nursed her for 5 minutes after and she was giggling and smiling as we left the office. I spiked a high fever in response to my vaccines as a kid but she was fine, didn't go above 99.6. The worst we had was some epic dirty diapers from the rotavirus vax.
I have a lot of Co-workers with Autistic children (nurses are the number one career choice of parents of a child with Autism. Followed by Engineering; which is my DH). A majority will say they say issues reaching social milestones as early as 6 months old, which is 12 months before the 'evil' MMR.
My alma mater is recognized as a leading institution on educational research and there was a large focus on autism research which I ate up. I'm not going to start spewing data, but I have yet to meet one legitimate academic or medical professional that could in any way make a connection to vaccines and autism. I can steer you in a few directions if you want scientific research articles. Additionally, in the educational community we work on early childhood evaluations for autism and like Pugs said, markers show up inconsistent with the MMR or any other vaccine. I love that once you school someone on autism and MMR, the second "go-to fear" of MMR is the level of mercury (thimerosal). There is more mercury in the tuna sandwich you fed your kiddo than in that vaccination where its basically nonexistant/only trace amounts and has been used FAR longer than the "sudden" increase of ASD. Which don't get me started on the rate of 1 in 68 kiddos. There have been some interesting studies on the over-diagnosis of children and autism (both medical and educational diagnoses). I can unfortunately attest first hand to that.
TLDR: Follow the CDC schedule because reasoning for alt schedules are crap. Vaccines don't cause autism. Tuna fish is yummy. Listen to Penn & Teller.