@mrsstuessy- I'll just echo what @Neikoda said. If you are trying to say that you are upset that she is leaving, then maybe starting every single post afterwards with "This is ridiculous," is probably not the best way to do it. @Neikoda and @TheJerilu have been busting butt to get things to work out. They have every right to leave and to tell this BMB to start over. I'm pretty sure Neikoda's pretty hurt right now, too.
Ok. I'm a horrible person. I get it. They do have ever right to do whatever they want. We will start over. I have every right to express disappointment. I personally do think it is a little ridiculous and dramatic to just flounce out. And I am sad it had to be like this. I personally enjoy this board and I enjoyed Neikoda's contributions. I just wish I could understand why she is hurt. I'm sorry she is. I just honestly don't get why. Oh well. I hope we can all just move on now.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Sorry, I didn't think of that option. I thought she could say here. I am moving forward. Sorry people have hurt feelings. I take ownership of being a little harsh today. But, before that I didn't do anything negative. So, there is nothing to apologize for there. I am moving forward. Sorry for being a horrible person.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
@mrsstuessy- OMG. Don't be so dramatic. No one ever said you were a horrible person. She's hurt because she's hurt. If you don't understand why @Neikoda 's hurt, tough. Maybe you should ask her what's going on, instead of just complaining about how you don't understand. Frankly, I'm tired of the AWs on here. I'm tired of hearing people complain about how they don't understand why we have to have organization and how they don't think it's necessary. It's interesting to me how they are complaining about it, but now all of sudden everyone is all gung-ho about taking over daily threads and participating more. Maybe people weren't such TWs about the organization on the thread, @Neikoda and I might stay. People were blatantly saying they didn't want to follow the organization, and posting whatever they wanted to...and now those people are ironically taking over and are all about board organization. Nope. I'm done.
Had my US today. No picture but everything looked good. I had estimated being 7w6d. Technician said I measured 7w4d. Hb was 133! Do people generally adjust their site days and ticker changes as they go or keep it the same?
@SJG812 I had my US today, too, and measured 2 days behind (7w6d versus 8w1d). I'm keeping my original EDD on here but the later due date is helpful and gives baby more time to cook
SJG812 I am keeping my ticker the same until I am further along, giving babies some time to catch up. It's super early and I know these things can change a lot and very quickly too.
****Trigger mentioned****
Us: 37, 38, unexplained IF TTC for the second time
Married 10/21/12 to my wonderful wife
TTC with frozen donor sperm and science
since 2/2014
7 IUIs, 1 cancelled due to too many follicles, 6 BFNs. IVF #1 & 2 Failed
IVF #3 20 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized with ICSI, 6 made it to day 5 2 blasts transferred 7/17
Beta #1 7/26 ***BFP*** 144 Beta #2 7/28 271
Beta #3 8/4 1972
8/15 - Officially pregnant with TWINS
9/1 - Baby B no longer has a heartbeat, Baby A is holding on! 9/29 - MMC
Just had a positive trip to the doctor this morning. Got to see my little jelly bean! HB 164 and everything is looking good. So relieved to hear this morning!
so im 6 weeks and i got to see my little bean today!!! no heartbeat yet should i be worried?? i have to go back in 2 weeks for another ultrasound and am so anxious
Here's my little nugget! OB says he/she is measuring a few days ahead of schedule but they will keep the due date of 4/5/17. Heartbeat was 171 and the baby is moving those arms and legs like a pro! All is well and we are very, very thankful and relieved.
I will upload it later, but just wanted to share the good news - I went to an US today because I am a nervous person and just wanted to get it checked.. and there is a viable baby, measuring at 6w1d, (i thought it was 6w4d), with 128 bpm!!!! so crazy happy - I am going to be a MUM!!!! :) Apparently now the m/c chances go down to 5%, is what the obgyn said - I am so happy.. the little thing was beating and super cute!!!
Me: 35 year old FTM, a busy city banker living in London, and a constant worrier. My DH: French guy, car fanatic, best husband ever. Our baby boy: Due on 17 April, currently 37 weeks. I can't believe it - I made it to full term!!!! Last measurement: 3150 gs at 37+1! This is going to be a big baby
Checked in on baby today and while the doctor cautioned me to not get concerned if we couldn't hear a heartbeat, the little ticker was beating away at 114! He's having me come back in two weeks for a dating ultrasound then we'll get started on the maternity appointments!
Can't upload image, and let's be honest, "Minnie" is a chubby blob, but we got a good look today! EDD is five days later than I thought. 6w4d and HR of 120s. We couldn't see the placenta, so can't speculate over Ramzi Method to pass the time until my next appointment.
PCOS Diagnosis | September 2015 IF Specialist | November 2015 Provera | November 2015 | 179 Days since last AF HSG | December 2015 | All Clear Provera | January 2016 | 46 Days since last AF 1st round of Femara 2.5mgs | January 2016 | No response Provera | February 2016 | 44 Days since last AF 2nd round of Femara 5mgs | March 2016 | O CD18 | AF 3/28/2016 3rd round of Femara 5mgs | March/April 2016 | No response | AF 5/6/2016 4th round of Femara 7.5mgs | May 2016 | BFP June 4, 2015 EDD: 2/15/2017 | Loss Discovered: 6/11/2016 | NMC: 6/15/2015 Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 100 IU | June 2016 | IUI June 29, 2016 | Beta: July 13, 2016 | AF 7/12/2016 Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 112.5IU | July 2016 | IUI July 27, 2016 | Beta: August 10, 2016 | + Beta 171! BFP on Digi 8/8/2016 | Beta #2: 396 = 39 hour doubling time | Beta #3: 1659 = 34 hour doubling time First ultrasound: August 17, 2016; 5 weeks; Gestational Sac and yolk Second ultrasound: August 25, 2016; 6W+1D; Heartbeat 105bpm Third ultrasound: August 31, 2016; 7 weeks; Heartbeat 136bpm Graduated from RE: August 31, 2016 EDD: April 17, 2017
So I will be 7 weeks tomorrow. I had a doctors appointment yesterday and she didn't do a US or check heartbeat...... She said to wait till 10 weeks. My last child was born at 35 weeks because of an illness and lived for 2 days and sadly passed away. I waited 5 1/2 years before we tried for this baby..... I just want to know this pregnancy is viable. Everyone else is getting US. and I dont understand why my doctor is waiting. Im anxious enough as it is...... Any suggestions as to how I can get one sooner than 10 weeks? Im dying here.
So I will be 7 weeks tomorrow. I had a doctors appointment yesterday and she didn't do a US or check heartbeat...... She said to wait till 10 weeks. My last child was born at 35 weeks because of an illness and lived for 2 days and sadly passed away. I waited 5 1/2 years before we tried for this baby..... I just want to know this pregnancy is viable. Everyone else is getting US. and I dont understand why my doctor is waiting. Im anxious enough as it is...... Any suggestions as to how I can get one sooner than 10 weeks? Im dying here.
I would simply request one! If you say you are stressed out about this and your unfortunate and sad past more than warrants it, they should give you one! I would push for it.
Today! Measuring 3 days ahead which is a relief. Heartbeat good.
TW!!!! Lost angel baby in June a week after first u/s so this helps only a little. I still don't feel confident but they asked me to come back in two weeks for a follow up to make sure things are going well. Hoping this is my rainbow baby!
@Delanie I would agree with @MrsBakes! If nothing else, given your history they should be willing to do that. If not, I'd try a new doctor. If that's not an option, maybe you have an imaging center in town that does 3D ultrasounds and you could pay for one of those? They're not allowed to tell you anything about the pregnancy but at least you could see. I'm sorry they didn't give you one at your appointment.
@Delanie, I'm so sorry for your loss, first of all. Secondly, I agree with the other ladies. I would request one and explain your circumstance. If they aren't willing to do one, I would call around and seek out an alternative doctor who is willing.
@Delanie I am so sorry for your loss. If your Dr still wont give you one after asking, I agree I'd find a new Dr to work with that is willing. I would be a mess waiting until 10 weeks as well.
Loving all the ultrasounds! My dr. doesn't do an early ultrasound, unless, I suppose, it's needed for dating. DH and I refused genetic testing with our first two pregnancies, so we decided to not have it this time, either. That means no ultrasound until the anatomy scan. I am hoping at my 10 week appointment they will doppler for a heartbeat (they did with the last 2 pregnancies). Once we hear the heartbeat we will feel more comfortable telling people.
Had my first US today... couldn't see anything on the belly and had to do a trans-vaginal... didn't give me any pictures and now I am worried about what is going on... supposed to be 7w today... She said there was a gestational sac, but didn't say anything else... waiting for my doctor to call me.
Welp. I woke up this morning and had a little bit of blood, so of course I start freaking out (PGAL). Had an appt today and the nurse practitioner tells me it may be too soon to see anything on the transvaginal ultrasound, so not to worry if we don't see anything. Turns out baby was ready to be seen! Measuring exactly on track (5w5d), everything looks great, and we saw a heartbeat! The circle to the left is the yolk sac and the blob to the right of it is the baby!
Had my first US today... couldn't see anything on the belly and had to do a trans-vaginal... didn't give me any pictures and now I am worried about what is going on... supposed to be 7w today... She said there was a gestational sac, but didn't say anything else... waiting for my doctor to call me.
We had our 8 week appt today and got to see our little one! Measuring 2 days ahead and heart rate of 167. You can already see the nose! My family has a lot of big noses so my husband was joking that it already has my side of the family's nose. This is our first and the ultrasound made everything so real...if it wasn't already with the vomiting and exhaustion!
First u/s was yesterday. Our little peanut measured 6w1d (a little behind from the expected 7w, but I probably ovulated or implanted late). Perfect heartbeat at 126, we get to see our peanut again next week to make sure everything is progressing like it should ❤️
Re: AW Ultrasounds
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
TTC for the second time
7 IUIs, 1 cancelled due to too many follicles, 6 BFNs.
IVF #1 & 2 Failed
2 blasts transferred 7/17
Beta #2 7/28 271
9/29 - MMC
12/21 - Baby Boy born
12/10 - FET transfered 1 3BB blast
Beta #1 12/19 - 88
Beta #2 12/21 - 230
Beta #3 12/18 - 3066
Here is my gummy bear from last Friday. I'm measuring exactly in line with my lmp. Heart rate 164
So in love
And sorry it's so big :O
@mrsstuessy YGPM
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
My DH: French guy, car fanatic, best husband ever.
Our baby boy: Due on 17 April, currently 37 weeks. I can't believe it - I made it to full term!!!!
Last measurement: 3150 gs at 37+1! This is going to be a big baby
*Apologies if it's huge, I'm on mobile
Baby #2 due April 2017
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
IF Specialist | November 2015
Provera | November 2015 | 179 Days since last AF
HSG | December 2015 | All Clear
Provera | January 2016 | 46 Days since last AF
1st round of Femara 2.5mgs | January 2016 | No response
Provera | February 2016 | 44 Days since last AF
2nd round of Femara 5mgs | March 2016 | O CD18 | AF 3/28/2016
3rd round of Femara 5mgs | March/April 2016 | No response | AF 5/6/2016
4th round of Femara 7.5mgs | May 2016 | BFP June 4, 2015
EDD: 2/15/2017 | Loss Discovered: 6/11/2016 | NMC: 6/15/2015
Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 100 IU | June 2016 | IUI June 29, 2016 | Beta: July 13, 2016 | AF 7/12/2016
Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 112.5IU | July 2016 | IUI July 27, 2016 | Beta: August 10, 2016 | + Beta 171!
BFP on Digi 8/8/2016 | Beta #2: 396 = 39 hour doubling time | Beta #3: 1659 = 34 hour doubling time
First ultrasound: August 17, 2016; 5 weeks; Gestational Sac and yolk
Second ultrasound: August 25, 2016; 6W+1D; Heartbeat 105bpm
Third ultrasound: August 31, 2016; 7 weeks; Heartbeat 136bpm
Graduated from RE: August 31, 2016
EDD: April 17, 2017
I would simply request one! If you say you are stressed out about this and your unfortunate and sad past more than warrants it, they should give you one! I would push for it.
Good luck! so sorry you are dealing with this
Today! Measuring 3 days ahead which is a relief. Heartbeat good.
TW!!!! Lost angel baby in June a week after first u/s so this helps only a little. I still don't feel confident but they asked me to come back in two weeks for a follow up to make sure things are going well. Hoping this is my rainbow baby!
do one, I would call around and seek out an alternative doctor who is willing.
DD: 6/20/11
DS: 2/23/13
EDD: 4/15/17
Prayers please... I'm a nervous Nelly over here
The circle to the left is the yolk sac and the blob to the right of it is the baby!
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
Thinking of you! Please keep us posted