We've been TTC since April and this is my chart. My thermometer is almost dead so I didn't get the most accurate reading this morning compared to what I usually do.
Could my temp rise again? We really wanted to get pregnant this cycle. I don't even want to try next month or even the month after if we are not this month because we started going to the university again and I don't want a June baby because there are too many in our fam lol.
We've been TTC since April and this is my chart. My thermometer is almost dead so I didn't get the most accurate reading this morning compared to what I usually do.
Could my temp rise again? We really wanted to get pregnant this cycle. I don't even want to try next month or even the month after if we are not this month because we started going to the university again and I don't want a June baby because there are too many in our fam lol.
We've been TTC since April and this is my chart. My thermometer is almost dead so I didn't get the most accurate reading this morning compared to what I usually do.
Could my temp rise again? We really wanted to get pregnant this cycle. I don't even want to try next month or even the month after if we are not this month because we started going to the university again and I don't want a June baby because there are too many in our fam lol.
I don't understand what you're asking. You have a clear ovulation day... Why do you need your temp to rise again??? Also, you should post in TWW- not create your own post for things like this. All of the ladies in TWW are very knowledgable. Again though, I don't really understand why you are wanting another temp rise at 10dpo......
ETA: even if my entire family had June bdays I would gladly take a June baby...
Wanting to avoid because of school is understandable. But tossing in the bit about June? We have a lot of June babies in my family too, but I really DGAF. I would love to have any baby, regardless of its birth month.
I don't know who you are, because you have a super generic Knottie name and profile picture, so if you've been around here already, apologies. But if not, then read izza2's Newbies Read This First thread, lurk, learn, and join in on the daily threads (TWW & WTO) rather than AW yourself.
But I just want to say there are a lot of women here who are having a rough time with TTC. It's not a choice of month for majority of us so this post rubbed me wrong way.
We've been TTC since April and this is my chart. My thermometer is almost dead so I didn't get the most accurate reading this morning compared to what I usually do.
Could my temp rise again? We really wanted to get pregnant this cycle. I don't even want to try next month or even the month after if we are not this month because we started going to the university again and I don't want a June baby because there are too many in our fam lol.
1) Could your temp rise? We don't know. We do not know the future, we are mere mortals. 2) We all want to be pregnant this cycle. Get in line. 3) Okay you don't want a June baby because other people were born in June in previous years?
Based on your chart, looks like you are out this month (sorry). Also, like @antoto said, we all "really wanted to get pregnant this cycle." I've also really wanted to get pregnant the last 11 cycles and no longer give a shit what the birth month would be...just give me a baby any time of the year.
I can't tag the OP because of the nondescript user name.
Oh, you really want to get pregnant this cycle? Interesting. Most of us are just lukewarm about wanting to get pregnant now. But you *really* want it so it'll probably happen. That's what we're all doing wrong.
And I just can't even with "too many June babies."
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It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
As someone who has been been TTC going on 14 months, and is now going thru IF treatments I truly can't with your post . I would take a baby in any month. This post won't be well received here with your comment "there are too many June bdays in the fam lol"
Buy another thermometer. They are less than $10. If you'd like to join this community read the Newbie guide like previous posters advised.
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April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
We really wanted to get pregnant this cycle. I don't even want to try next month or even the month after if we are not this month because we started going to the university again and I don't want a June baby because there are too many in our fam lol.
If you don't want a June baby, I'd happily take one. In June or any other month.
@furbabymom2007 me too. Before my loss, I was due on my niece's birthday. My mom hoped so much that they would share a birthday. Now, if I get pregnant, I'll be due the day before my sister's birthday. I'll be thrilled with that too.
I will admit, as a teacher, I'd prefer to not have a baby at a time that would cause maternity leave to overlap with the beginning of school. The first weeks of school are crucial for setting up procedures, but if it happens that way, then that's how it happens.
It's true that I am new here. I don't even know how to change my name here and I've been accessing this site from my phone. You're right, I should have searched around more first and read more first.
I certainly wasn't asking for a gang up here. I want a baby just like everyone else, and I don't think that it's going to hit us like some magic spell and happen exactly the way we want. I'm not trying to push buttons with anyone because of my personal desires, and I am new to this. I just thought it would be good to see a triphasic chart of pregnant.
I thought this place would be full of more encouraging people with more insight to help, but everyone's just taking my wishes personally.
If we got pregnant this month and things were to go smoothly, it would be perfect timing at work and with family celebrations. It doesn't mean it is going to happen. That is ALL I meant. I'm not going to give up my baby if it happens to be born in June. Some of my favorite people were born that month. (Including my husband and my father)
I don't know if I have fertility problems, and I am trying not to break down like I have the past two months at this time. My mom was told she couldn't have kids (but in the end was able to) so I have no idea if I even CAN have kids. I have NEVER had a child, so I really don't know and I am making no assumptions about my body.
I'm trying to think more positively now and just started working on my bachelors degree again, so if we have to take a break trying then we have to take a break. It's all very personal. My husband even laughed in my face when I told him about the June thing. It really doesn't matter, folks. It will happen when it happens and if it does, I will be glad.
I definitely feel bullied here and I wish that y'all didn't just run with that one small comment I made and take it personally. I may be trying for over a year when April comes back around - I do NOT know what the future holds. I certainly hope it doesn't take that long but who knows what life holds for me or if we will need to adopt. I was hoping for encouragement because I am getting really frustrated and in sometimes I do just want to give up - even though we haven't been trying that long I am getting more upset every cycle that we aren't. I'd always been good about being safe before and thought that it would "just happen" and now I know that it doesn't work that way. I'm just trying to not let myself get torn down to the point of giving up. We do want kids no matter what.
<blockquote class="Quote"> <div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/Knottie1443909511">Knottie1443909511</a> said:</div> <div class="QuoteText">It's true that I am new here. I don't even know how to change my name here and I've been accessing this site from my phone. You're right, I should have searched around more first and read more first.
I certainly wasn't asking for a gang up here. I want a baby just like everyone else, and I don't think that it's going to hit us like some magic spell and happen exactly the way we want. I'm not trying to push buttons with anyone because of my personal desires, and I am new to this. I just thought it would be good to see a triphasic chart of pregnant.
I thought this place would be full of more encouraging people with more insight to help, but everyone's just taking my wishes personally.
If we got pregnant this month and things were to go smoothly, it would be perfect timing at work and with family celebrations. It doesn't mean it is going to happen. That is ALL I meant. I'm not going to give up my baby if it happens to be born in June. Some of my favorite people were born that month. (Including my husband and my father)
I don't know if I have fertility problems, and I am trying not to break down like I have the past two months at this time. My mom was told she couldn't have kids (but in the end was able to) so I have no idea if I even CAN have kids. I have NEVER had a child, so I really don't know and I am making no assumptions about my body.
I'm trying to think more positively now and just started working on my bachelors degree again, so if we have to take a break trying then we have to take a break. It's all very personal. My husband even laughed in my face when I told him about the June thing. It really doesn't matter, folks. It will happen when it happens and if it does, I will be glad.
I definitely feel bullied here and I wish that y'all didn't just run with that one small comment I made and take it personally. I may be trying for over a year when April comes back around - I do NOT know what the future holds. I certainly hope it doesn't take that long but who knows what life holds for me or if we will need to adopt. I was hoping for encouragement because I am getting really frustrated and in sometimes I do just want to give up - even though we haven't been trying that long I am getting more upset every cycle that we aren't. I'd always been good about being safe before and thought that it would "just happen" and now I know that it doesn't work that way. I'm just trying to not let myself get torn down to the point of giving up. We do want kids no matter what. </div> </blockquote> QFP
You can log into the knot and change your name to something more recognizable there.
I think a lot of people will appreciate your honesty and admission that you really don't know how long it could take to conceive, and that you may have a real struggle ahead of you, like many of us have.
No one here can predict what your chart is going to do, or see inside your ute. So there's that. You see how that kind of sounds like a silly question? I hope?
This is a bonded community of women and we have a way we do things, so when we see a random post like this by a stranger, it's called a drive-by. We all log in eager to see if there's some way we can be helpful, or if it's just some crazy rando, and when we look, sometimes we get to read things that actually really hurt. That's what happened today.
I think it's great you came back and shared. Please read the newbie guide. Lurk and read orther members' posts and get to know us by posting in the daily wto/tww threads. We'd be happy to have you, provided you can also see and understand why people were so upset today by your initial post.
I certainly wasn't asking for a gang up here. I want a baby just like everyone else, and I don't think that it's going to hit us like some magic spell and happen exactly the way we want. I'm not trying to push buttons with anyone because of my personal desires, and I am new to this. I just thought it would be good to see a triphasic chart of pregnant.
Not all charts are triphasic with pregnancy. Mine wasn't, but I also didn't stay pregnant more than a couple months. Fertility Friend has a lot of charts in the gallery that show pregnancies. Some are triphasic, but many are not.
OP - no one 'bullied' you. That's a strong word. You only got some snark because of the post. If you were just posting your chart people would have redirected you (which many did) but the way you posted abou not wanting a June baby because of too many in the family hurts people who have been TTP so a little snark is expected.
Sorry you felt ganged up on OP. The community is very protective of its members and I think if you stick around you will find that its usually a very good thing. I hope you join us in the WTO/ TWW threads.
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2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
OP several of wonderful ladies on this board made a miss step on their first post, but they stuck it out and have are valued members. Glad you shared more, please keep lurking and join in on the TWW and WTO daily posts. These ladies are worth it
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TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
I was supposed to have a June baby this year. It was taken from me. I was supposed to have a December baby this year. Also taken from me. I was supposed to have a February baby next year. Also taken from me.
I appreciate the apology but I'm still not sure you understand the way your comment came across.
Everyone else said enough so I'll leave it at that.
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Re: 10dpo
ETA: even if my entire family had June bdays I would gladly take a June baby...
I don't know who you are, because you have a super generic Knottie name and profile picture, so if you've been around here already, apologies. But if not, then read izza2's Newbies Read This First thread, lurk, learn, and join in on the daily threads (TWW & WTO) rather than AW yourself.
Edited bc spelling
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
2) We all want to be pregnant this cycle. Get in line.
3) Okay you don't want a June baby because other people were born in June in previous years?
4) LURK MOAR
I can't tag the OP because of the nondescript user name.
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
And I just can't even with "too many June babies."
ETA gif for emphasis
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
I know I don't need another
So let's all refrain from giving ridiculous statements any more attention than they deserve.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
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Buy another thermometer. They are less than $10. If you'd like to join this community read the Newbie guide like previous posters advised.
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August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
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November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
Me: 42 | DH: 45
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Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
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I will admit, as a teacher, I'd prefer to not have a baby at a time that would cause maternity leave to overlap with the beginning of school. The first weeks of school are crucial for setting up procedures, but if it happens that way, then that's how it happens.
As a mom of a preemie, sometimes babies don't even come when they were "supposed" to, soooo....
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I certainly wasn't asking for a gang up here. I want a baby just like everyone else, and I don't think that it's going to hit us like some magic spell and happen exactly the way we want. I'm not trying to push buttons with anyone because of my personal desires, and I am new to this. I just thought it would be good to see a triphasic chart of pregnant.
I thought this place would be full of more encouraging people with more insight to help, but everyone's just taking my wishes personally.
If we got pregnant this month and things were to go smoothly, it would be perfect timing at work and with family celebrations. It doesn't mean it is going to happen. That is ALL I meant. I'm not going to give up my baby if it happens to be born in June. Some of my favorite people were born that month. (Including my husband and my father)
I don't know if I have fertility problems, and I am trying not to break down like I have the past two months at this time. My mom was told she couldn't have kids (but in the end was able to) so I have no idea if I even CAN have kids. I have NEVER had a child, so I really don't know and I am making no assumptions about my body.
I'm trying to think more positively now and just started working on my bachelors degree again, so if we have to take a break trying then we have to take a break. It's all very personal. My husband even laughed in my face when I told him about the June thing. It really doesn't matter, folks. It will happen when it happens and if it does, I will be glad.
I definitely feel bullied here and I wish that y'all didn't just run with that one small comment I made and take it personally. I may be trying for over a year when April comes back around - I do NOT know what the future holds. I certainly hope it doesn't take that long but who knows what life holds for me or if we will need to adopt. I was hoping for encouragement because I am getting really frustrated and in sometimes I do just want to give up - even though we haven't been trying that long I am getting more upset every cycle that we aren't. I'd always been good about being safe before and thought that it would "just happen" and now I know that it doesn't work that way. I'm just trying to not let myself get torn down to the point of giving up. We do want kids no matter what.
<div class="QuoteAuthor"><a href="/profile/Knottie1443909511">Knottie1443909511</a> said:</div>
<div class="QuoteText">It's true that I am new here. I don't even know how to change my name here and I've been accessing this site from my phone. You're right, I should have searched around more first and read more first.
I certainly wasn't asking for a gang up here. I want a baby just like everyone else, and I don't think that it's going to hit us like some magic spell and happen exactly the way we want. I'm not trying to push buttons with anyone because of my personal desires, and I am new to this. I just thought it would be good to see a triphasic chart of pregnant.
I thought this place would be full of more encouraging people with more insight to help, but everyone's just taking my wishes personally.
If we got pregnant this month and things were to go smoothly, it would be perfect timing at work and with family celebrations. It doesn't mean it is going to happen. That is ALL I meant. I'm not going to give up my baby if it happens to be born in June. Some of my favorite people were born that month. (Including my husband and my father)
I don't know if I have fertility problems, and I am trying not to break down like I have the past two months at this time. My mom was told she couldn't have kids (but in the end was able to) so I have no idea if I even CAN have kids. I have NEVER had a child, so I really don't know and I am making no assumptions about my body.
I'm trying to think more positively now and just started working on my bachelors degree again, so if we have to take a break trying then we have to take a break. It's all very personal. My husband even laughed in my face when I told him about the June thing. It really doesn't matter, folks. It will happen when it happens and if it does, I will be glad.
I definitely feel bullied here and I wish that y'all didn't just run with that one small comment I made and take it personally. I may be trying for over a year when April comes back around - I do NOT know what the future holds. I certainly hope it doesn't take that long but who knows what life holds for me or if we will need to adopt. I was hoping for encouragement because I am getting really frustrated and in sometimes I do just want to give up - even though we haven't been trying that long I am getting more upset every cycle that we aren't. I'd always been good about being safe before and thought that it would "just happen" and now I know that it doesn't work that way. I'm just trying to not let myself get torn down to the point of giving up. We do want kids no matter what. </div>
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QFP
You can log into the knot and change your name to something more recognizable there.
I think a lot of people will appreciate your honesty and admission that you really don't know how long it could take to conceive, and that you may have a real struggle ahead of you, like many of us have.
No one here can predict what your chart is going to do, or see inside your ute. So there's that. You see how that kind of sounds like a silly question? I hope?
This is a bonded community of women and we have a way we do things, so when we see a random post like this by a stranger, it's called a drive-by. We all log in eager to see if there's some way we can be helpful, or if it's just some crazy rando, and when we look, sometimes we get to read things that actually really hurt. That's what happened today.
I think it's great you came back and shared. Please read the newbie guide. Lurk and read orther members' posts and get to know us by posting in the daily wto/tww threads. We'd be happy to have you, provided you can also see and understand why people were so upset today by your initial post.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
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Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
I appreciate the apology but I'm still not sure you understand the way your comment came across.
Everyone else said enough so I'll leave it at that.
Lucy 07-13-11
Violet 03-13-14
Conceived #3 since September 2015
11-25-15 twelve week loss
07-21-16 ten week loss
10-03-16 5 week loss
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