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KyCade3013 · August 2016

Hi Ladies, unfortunately I am back again. I had another loss at a little over 7 weeks on Wednesday. I'm crushed that this happened again and I am now RPL. I have to see a high risk doctor and am booking my consultation for 3 weeks from now when my labs are back. I had the miscarriage in the doctors office as she was examining me for bleeding. I'm hopeful, but having all the emotions of how things are not turning out as I had so desperately hoped once again. This is going to sound so dumb, but I'm also bummed that if we ever have another baby they won't be close in age. I am a 3rd child and 4 years younger then my middle sister, 5.5 years younger than my eldest sister, in a stupid way I wanted to try to have a 3rd 2.5-3 years apart because I felt a little lonely as a kid and they were best buds. Now we are all close, so that's all the matters, I just was hoping this one would stick. Sorry for the rant, having a really tough time today.

TScalei · August 2016

Sorry you are here again @kycade3013. I have had 2 mmc and Im just waiting to start RPL testing....it all just really sucks. I think we all have ideas in our head of we want to have a baby by this age or another child at this time and its hard to see things not going according to plan.

JessyKV · August 2016

So sorry for your loss. I'm also bummed about the spacing between my 2nd and next baby after my loss. My first 2 are under 2 years apart and my youngest is already 21 months so with this loss it just pushes any sibling farther out and that really bums me out for some reason. So I totally understand!

brooklyngirl18 · August 2016

@KyCade3013 I am so so sorry. I can relate to being upset about the spacing between children. Please be kind to yourself and take it easy. so many hugs

BitterBetty12 · August 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself

roxgibbons · August 2016

@KyCade3013 I am so sorry you are back here and I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get some answers from the high risk dr. and can figure out a plan moving forward.

Taggarab · August 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. I am also in the more age between than I wanted bandwagon. Mine will be 3 in October so we are looking at 3 1/2 years apart minimum if we got lucky this cycle. I was 9 years younger than my closest sibling so I have always wanted to have kids that could relate to each other growing up.

RiverSong15 · August 2016

I'm so so sorry for your loss @KyCade3013. RPL sucks so bad. And no need to apologize for the rant- that's what we're here for!

ladipale · August 2016

So sorry for your loss @KyCade3013 and I feel you on the sibling spacing. My first 2 are 3 years apart and that is not going to happen now with the miscarriage...

szwill86 · August 2016

So sorry for your loss, @kycade3013 and to see you back here. Hugs to you and your family.

stephann85 · August 2016

So sorry for your loss. I wish you the best on your RPL testing. And feel free to rant away... that is what we are here for.

KyCade3013 · August 2016

Thanks for the kind thoughts everyone and sorry for your losses as well. It's very comforting to know you're not alone and it really helps so much to get through these tough times. I hope we all get our rainbow babies soon and it's amazing.

Hopefulmommy1980 · August 2016

I am sorry for your loss

lilyaster · August 2016

I'm so sorry. I'm a repeat visitor here too. We've now been trying over a year and I understand your sadness at the increasing space between kids.

CTRMommyof4 · August 2016

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. After many losses, we too had similar testing, and it was frustrating to wait for the results, but you will feel better once you have some answers hopefully. Just try to be patient I know it's hard.

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