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rainafire77 · August 2016

It's so sad to move over here from the March mom's group. I'm going to miss it but from lurking here, I can tell I'll need you ladies who know what I'm going through. Supposed to be 9 weeks. Went for my US Friday and there was no HB, baby measured 6 weeks and only the yolk sac and fetal pole were visible. They did HCG beta Friday and I go for another today then another US on Thursday. I don't have much hope that my dates are off because I used OPKs and got my BFP at 12dpo. This baby was very much wanted and my fiancé and I will try again but we're both devastated. So glad he was with me on Friday. He is my rock and hasn't broken down in front of me but I can see in his eyes he's hurting badly. I've already decided I'm just going to go with the D&C and not try the meds. The knowledge that I've already been carrying my dead baby for three weeks is messing with my head and I need it to be over.

We are going to plant some flower bulbs in the yard to remember our little angel even though we both know we'll never forget even when we do get our rainbow baby.

So sorry to hear about your experiences @weareturtles and the other ladies whose stories I followed in the March group. Love you all.

I hope my signatures have been suppressed. I'm on my mobile and checked the boxes to hide them so I apologize if that didn't work.

allie92089 · August 2016

I'm from the March group as well. You have to delete your signature. I don't think there is a way to hide them. I'm just telling you for your own good because I know it hurt to be reminded how far along pregnant I was by looking at the tickers. I would have been 9 weeks along on Tuesday. I lost my little one this past Thursday. Me and my husband are the same way. Very heartbroken. Just hang in there and take time for yourself. If you can afford to take time off, do it. Even if it's just a few days. Most bosses I think would be very understanding if you explained the situation. I'm praying for you girlie.

rainafire77 · August 2016

I'm sorry if I upset you. I'm trying to follow the rules but it's hard when settings for mobile are different than the Web so you can't even see if it worked. I've deleted the images now I hope. If not I'll delete this thread and try again when I can post from the site.

misha0130 · August 2016

I'm sorry to see you here as well. So many of us from the March group. I'm sending thoughts prayers and positive vibes to you and your fiancé. The flower bulbs is a great idea. I think I will do something to honor my LO. Hang in there.

weareturtles · August 2016

So sorry to see you here as well @rainafire77. This group has been incredibly supportive and helpful as they are going through this with us. I am so with you on how messed up it makes you feel to know you have dead babies inside of you. It was so sad when they passed, but also such a relief.

Wishing you all the best! Support your partner at home (as he may not have anyone but you to turn to) and communicate as much as you want on here!

Good luck with everything!

Hopefulmommy1980 · August 2016

I am sorry for you loss

hearing the baby doesn't have a heartbeat is one of the hardest things I have heart in my entire life. Pleas be sure to be kind to yourself

rainafire77 · August 2016

It's official and I'm going in for a d&c tomorrow. Nothing has started naturally and it's already been three weeks since the baby stopped growing. Thank you everyone for your support.

Knottie1448065635 · August 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. I am also from March and I saw your posts. I'm sad to see you here as well. Take care of yourself tomorrow and post if you need to. We are all going through similar things so don't be afraid to reach out to us.

weareturtles · August 2016

So sorry to hear. Take care of yourself and your partner @rainafire77. We'll be here with you through this. *hugs*

Mack2342 · August 2016

So sorry for your loss

Sugargirl1019 · August 2016

I'm so sorry to see you here

best wishes for a simple recovery from your d&c. Please let us know if you have any questions. I had 2 D&Cs.

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