March 2017 Moms

Loss mentioned...

Today I miscarried at 5.5 weeks.  I woke up at 4am with period like bleeding and cramping.   I am traveling and I'm in the middle of a week long class for work.  I decided to go to class hoping the cramping wouldn't be too bad and I knew if I was going to have a miscarriage there was nothing I could do to stop it.  The cramps got progressively worse throughout the morning and so did the bleeding.  It was very similar to a bad period.  And just now I passed the embryo.  I am devastated by what has happened and the worst part is my husband and child are in a different city than I am and I can't be with them right now.  I go home tomorrow night and I can't wait to get out of this hell hole.  I feel so incredibly alone right now.  It's awful.

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  • I'm so so sorry that you had to go through that, away from your husband and child.  I'm thinking about you.
    Me: 36  DH: 35.
    Married: 8/2005.
    BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD: 3/4/2017.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. It must be so incredibly hard to be going through this right now. Sending you hugs, and hoping that being reunited with your family tomorrow will help brong you some peace. Take care of yourself.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get home to your loved ones soon
  • So sorry for you loss and that you are going through this without your loved ones! You are in my thoughts! Take care of yourself!
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  • I am so so deeply sorry. I can deeply empathize with your sadness of being away from your husband during your loss. I miscarried my last babe the day my husband left for two weeks in Uganda. It was so, so hard to be apart. I'm praying for you, that you can be on the same page when you see each other again. I hope you are able to take a day away from your work to take care of yourself. I hope for a season of healing. Xoxo
    Married DH 12/31/13
    BFP#1  1/21/14 ended in loss DNC 3/5/14
    BFP#2  7/2014 Baby Girl born 4/15/15
    BFP#3  2/10/2016 natural mc 2/27/2016
    BFP#4 6/25/2016 Due 3/2/2017
  • Thank you all for your replies.  As I sit here weeping over my computer your replies are helping me feel just a little less alone.
  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I wish you safe travels back home tomorrow so that you can hold your family close.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss and for the fact that it's happening while you're away from home and your support system. I hope that you're able to take care of yourself. Hugs to you.
        
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    Married: June 2011
    TTC since Feb 2016
    BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 
    BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
    BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
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    edited August 2016
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been through this twice and know it's so painful in so many ways. My last one was while I was directing on a film set with a crew of all men. The port-o-potty was a disgusting nightmare to begin with.  I was far from home too. We are such tough beings. I hope you get back to your family speedily where they'll meet you with the warmth you need. Hugs. 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and that you had to go through it alone. You are strong...hope you are reunited with your family soon.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. I will have you in my T&Ps. Hoping you get back to your family soon, so you have the support and love you need during this difficult time.  ::Hugs::  

    Me: 27 - DH: 33

    Married: June 2011

    TTC #1: January 2016

    BFP #1: February 22nd 2016  MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum

    BFP #2: July 6th 2016  EDD: March 15th 2017



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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. 

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and that you were away from your family during this difficult time! I hope being home with them brings you some peace!
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  • I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must be so hard to be alone at this time. Hoping when you get home you can grieve with them properly.
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers 

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss, I can only imagine how difficult it would be to be away from family during this difficult time. I am happy you will be reunited with them soon. Sending some prayers to you and yours. 
  • So sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you get home safely to your loved ones today.  Hugs to you.  
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  • so very very sorry. get home quickly and treat yourself to a mental-health day. you are in my thoughts!
    Me: 29 | DH: 31
    TTC Since: Nov. 2015
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    Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss and that you are having to deal with this alone right now. Praying for comfort during this awful time. 
  • I'm so sorry. Hope you can get home soon.

    Me: 33 Hubs: 34

    TTC since 5/2014

    BFP: 7/27/14 MC: 9/20/14

    BFP: 6/29/15 MC: 7/6/15

    BFP: 7/17/16 EDD: 3/22/17

  • Oh hun I am so very sorry you had to go through that alone. Ive been there and I know that there's isn't much that can be said to make you feel better. I hope your home now holding your lo tight and resting with the hubs. Make sure you allow yourself some time to grieve, rest and love on your family 
  • I am so so sorry to read this experience. Like PP, hoping you are back in the arms of DH and LO. Hugs!
  • I'm so so very sorry. I wish I could hug you right now. You're not alone, even though your family is not physically with you. Hugs. 
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  • So, so sorry for your loss. Safe travels to your family 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • Thank you all for your kind and warm replies.  I am back home with DH and LO and I'm so grateful to be able to hug my baby girl.  Looking back at some of your stories and those of you that have been through multiple losses my heart goes out to you too.  The sadness this has created in me seems unbearable at times and I can only think of how strong and resilient women are built to be.  Thank you all so much for your support.  I hope to back here soon.
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