Hi ladies Im trying to decide what route to travel. Does anyone have any suggestions or feelings on a midwife vs a Dr? I do understand their roles I just don't know anyone who has experience with a midwife or how people really feel about them?
Thanks ☺
Re: Nurse midwife Vs Dr???
I specifically choose a practice with midwives and OBGYNs to get more individualized care, and also hopefully avoid a C-section. I ended up having 2 c-sections, which was fine in the end.
A midwife assisted my second C-section and I loved her - she was awesome.
But when I gave birth the first time (And didn't know I was having a C yet), I saw my midwife TWO times all day. She had a poor bedside manner, was inattentive, and disappeared when I went into full labor. The day nurse at the hospital ended up tending to me. It was not a pleasant experience at all. I also had a friend who choose a midwife, the midwife kept insisting she would probably end up with a C section based on lack of progression. When the doctor came in later - he scolded the midwife for the position he had my friend laboring in. He took over, the baby came out an hour later. She switched to an OBGYN for her next baby.
So it really depends!