September 2016 Moms

Quick Monday rant :)

OKAY a little Monday vent session for ya.
Is it just me, or is anyone else tired of other people putting in their two cents when it comes to YOUR pregnancy? Let me elaborate. I was just in my husbands boss' office talking to them about some upcoming work (we work together) and his boss proceeded to tell me how much bigger I'm going to get and how I better get prepared for the stretch marks and blah blah. I told him not everyone gets stretch marks and that right now I didn't have any on my belly yet and he was just like "no you're definitely going to get them". I am 33 weeks and am fully aware that I could get them from now until after my son is born, but give me a freaking break. Just because your wife, who had twins, got them, doesn't mean every single person gets them. I even told him about my friend who just gave birth in July, literally not getting a single stretch mark throughout her whole pregnancy and after and he said "No, she probably has one somewhere". And it's not even the stretch marks that bother me, I have a ton on my ass now, it's the fact that people, in this case a person that doesn't even possess a uterus, think they know everything. You don't know my body AT ALL and you sure as hell don't know as much as you think you do about women's bodies in general. Oh and my hubs was sitting right there and said nothing, so that pisses me off more. UGH this has been a frustrating morning altogether, just glad my due date is coming up and I won't have to deal with the ignorance that is my work place for much longer. 

Re: Quick Monday rant :)

  • Wow, how unprofessional of him for one. Especially since it was a completely unprovoked comment it seems like. He shouldn't be commenting on any aspect of your body. I don't understand why people can't get it through their thick heads that the size of a pregnant woman's belly has NOTHING to do with the size of the baby, and genetics determine the stretch marks! Also, I would probably have been more made at DH for not saying anything and calling this creep out for being disrespectful, but that's just me...
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  • Wow! I am so sorry you had to deal with that! Not only is it a really stupid comment to make but like... He would not even believe you that some people don't get stretch marks??? Some men are just hopeless -_-
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  • ah, thank you ladies, glad I am not alone! Some men will never know/learn! 
  • I kept hearing a lot of this early on with twins and I'm almost 33 weeks it was scary and disheartening being my first experience with being preg you know what ( not trying to brag at all) babies are great and I'm not huge and eating healthy ppl have said ive lost weight elsewhere and no stretch marks! 
  • I haven't gotten the stretch marks commentary, but I've definitely gotten LONG lectures from total strangers about 1) how my due date can't possibly be right 'because you're HUGE', 2) are you absolutely SURE there's only one in there?  (Umm, no I'm not sure.  I kept my eyes closed at all the ultrasounds.  Asshats.) and, my personal favorite, 3) some combination of the following: there's no way you're not going early...  And I bet you need a c-section because she's SO BIG you couldn't possibly push her out!

    The last one totally makes me see red.  I've pushed out an 8*13 baby and a 9*2 baby with absolutely no issue.  Shut the F*** UP!
     
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  • My biggest comment/compliment is that I don't look pregnant from behind and that I'm all belly.

    I was overweight to begin with so are you impressed that I didn't become more overweight? 

    Is this a tribute to my pregnancy stealth? I can go from not pregnant to pregnant in 2.5 seconds?

    Why are you all looking at my backside with such purpose?

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