If we are in the position to be able to help out, we totally will. We won't be footing the whole bill though. We have a "fund" that we are starting for the kids. Like a "welcome to adulthood fund" and I think we will see where they choose to use that money...then our help will be decided case by case. Like if one kid uses that money for school and needs more help, cool, we can help. But if they blow it partying, then we won't. Although like my GF said, it's easy to say what we will or won't do in 20 years!