My husband informed me he no longer wants to be married. We have a 15 mo old son. My husband said he isn't happy, he doesn't regret having our son but having a family isn't what he thought it would be... I've seen an attorney and started our paper work. My husband has never been involved in helping take care of our son, unless forced to. He's never taken him in the car anywhere by himself, I have to leave a schedule of what to feed him/when, he's never gotten up with him during the night or in the morning on his own... So he's currently agreeing to me having sole custody, he'll get visitations. No weekends or over nights. Our son also has a few health problems that my husband does not handle well.
Does anyone know how specific I can get with the visitation requirements? We're going to put in the paper work that we will set a schedule basically on a weekly basis since my husbands work schedule would not allow a normal court ordered one. Plus he's already missed one visitation and been over an hour n a half late within the first week.
Since he's never taken care of our son without assistance, I don't want him to be able to take him anywhere he pleases. My husband's family also isn't very involved with our son. But now my MIL and SIL keep pushing wanting to take my son places or over to their homes (which they've never done before). I don't mind them seeing him, but I don't see how they would have rights to take my son anywhere when they haven't been involved this entire time.