Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Re: TGIF!!
@fivetimesnoluck good luck tomorrow! i'll be thinking of you.
@SnobunnieMel lmao that's so funny
I don't have anything planned and am looking forward to lounging around my house in the air conditioning. I am CD8 so maybe i'll have a few a cocktails, you know, to help keep cool in the heat wave
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
we are having new carpet installed tomorrow!! So excited to get rid of the ratty old carpet! Then preparing for the wedding in Florida next weekend the rest of Saturday. Sunday I have a baby sprinkle to go to, so that should be interesting. Same family that last time I almost cried seeing her pregnant because we would of been weeks apart. Saw her since then though and was fine so hopefully will be on Sunday too!!
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
@SnobunnieMel That image is hilarious! love it!
@lilylover27 It's always nice getting a little upgrade to the house! Random, but true: I grew up in the "Carpet Capital of the World" (Dalton, GA), so I can appreciate some good flooring!
@brooklyngirl18 Have a cocktail for me! Sounds like a great way to beat the heat!
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
This weekend my plan is to not test. If I manage that it'll be a success (only 5 dpo but SS like crazy right now).
DH and I have our nephew over for the night. He's such a sweetie and lives 7 hours away so we don't often get to see him. He's staying with MIL but she needs a break so we're taking him.
Tomorrow we are going boating and Sunday I'm cleaning the house and packing for my trip next week.
Fx! @fivetimesnoluck
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
I have a baby shower on Sunday that I'm dreading...it's for people I can't even consider friends at this point. Why am I going?? No idea... Please let there be mimosas
My mom is visiting from Texas, arrived a day late because of the Southwest SNAFU, but it's all good. DH and I saw endocrine this morning and if my T3 goes down from my blood draw today, I am officially off. The. Bench. Oooooh, I hope so!
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
Cheers to mimosas and cocktails! I may also indulge in a beverage or two this weekend. I think it's CD1 for me so I'm basically on the brink of hysteria...might as well say screw it and have a nice cold summery beer.
@SnobunnieMel..you crack me up!
DH and I have his family's annual golf tournament tomorrow. It's supposed to be 95* and I'm terrible at golf so it should be awesome! Sunday we're going to my college bball coaches lake house and spending some time on his boat! I used to nanny his kiddos who are now 12 and 10, yikes! I'm really looking forward to hanging out with them
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
yoir IUI! Sending lots of good luck your way!
@Aera11 enjoy your day! A couple's massage sounds great!
AFM.. Met with a new therapist today, she was awesome. I'm excited that I liked her. I'm also a therapist, so I tend to have high expectations and be skeptical, but she seemed cool.
tomorrow I am going to visit my niece at camp. It's a long ride, but it is the same camp I went to as a kid and I haven't seen it in years. I'm excited for some childhood nostalgia!
also, got AF today so officially on the path to my frozen transfer! Bring on the high doses of hormones... Again.
@fivetimesnoluck why is your DH anxious? I always find it strange when the ladies on the board talk about their DHs getting weird about giving samples and such. I guess I got really really lucky that my DH never once voiced any concerns about his procedures (though he did bitch about his one vial blood draw for months!). If he ever was nervous about it, he made sure I didn't know so I didn't have to worry any more than I already was.
@BornReady Yay! I'm so excited you can finally start the FET process! Hopefully you won't need tons of hormones! This time around, I've needed way less than usual. I'm at my highest dosage of estradiol, and I'm only taking 8 mg orally. I usually get up to 8 mg orally and 4 mg vaginally, and my lining is usually thinner.
@Aera11 Why are you going if they aren't even your friend? If I were you, I'd totally just skip it!
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@aera11 Yay for a new car! We got one in December and I love it! I also got a massage yesterday.
@SoonToBeMommaHowe I suck at golf too. That's sound not like fun to me either,
@fivetimesnoluck Good luck at your IUI!! Will be thinking about you.
AFM I'm in a spectacularly shitty mood today. DH and I had a fight this morning and I don't even feel like making up. I feel like I could explode and rain down PMS on everyone around me.
Tomorrow we are going to a wedding of a friend who is my only friend both from high school and college. I was so excited to go, but now I'm DREADING seeing my friend who sent the the insensitive email announcing her pregnancy due the same month as mine, replying all to my horrible loss email. As a survivor if 4 losses, including a 3rd trimester loss, my best friend from college is usually my go to support person for this stuff. Unfortunately she's also pregnant and due in September and seeing her in person is going to be incredibly hard.
Somehow I managed to start down a rapid hole obsession of my BRCA1 variance of uncertain significant results- which basically means I could have the gene or I could not have it. My aunt got breast cancer at 44 and died at 55 -2 weeks shy of her son's graduation from high school. Knowing all of this, I start questioning whether I should have kids if I'm going to possibly leave them early. And I worry if I do get my rainbow, about my ability to give them a sibling at 39 or 40. Is it fair to them to just have one?? Sorry I'm down a deep dark hole today. I question every single decision I've ever made today.
@Aera11 The massage sounds great! Enjoy
@BornReady I'm so excited for your FET! One step closer
@SnobunnieMel you are the meme MVP- hope all is well.
@fivetimesnoluck GL tomorrow!! Sending you positive vibes
AFM: We are having dinner with friends tomorrow night but unfortunately, I am feeling a bit under the weather. I haven't been sick once this year and hope I am not catching something. I am swamped at work and can't be sick right now. I've been generally feeling really good, but today I feel like someone kicked my ass. Also- for the first time since my loss I have EWCM!!!! I can't believe it. I started a regimen of chinese herbs from my acupuncturist and I'm wondering if it's helping. It's CD 14 which is early for me since I usually don't O until CD 17 or 18 on un-medicated cycles. I am going to take an OPK as soon as I get home and see what my body is up to- dammit I wish I was temping!!
Me (39) DH (40)
From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06
DH- no kids
******************
TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN
IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!! 2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days, D&C: 2/17/16
TTCAL: May 2016
IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
**10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!!
Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
He has always supported me when I'm feeling the pressure and I do the same for him. We are damn good team. I'm so lucky to have married my match.
Since we we have experienced five miscarriages, we have both been changed. DH started seeing a therapist last year and also recently started taking Lexapro after the therapy alone didn't address all the issues. After 3.5 years of this, I'm just thrilled that we have grown together rather than apart.
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
As as for the rest of the weekend I am working tomorrow with a hair appointment. Finally. I haven't had my hair done since early March since every appointment falls when I was "pregnant" so I canceled. Then had a CP and i am so busy the roots are bad. Couple of surgeries Sunday so he whole weekend is already shot. Oh well.
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@fivetimesnoluck good luck
@chloe97 sorry things are so hard right now. It is easy to ask lots of what if when you are feeling down. I hope that you get to feeling better
my weekend plans are pretty boring. I plan to sleep in, take the dog to the vet to get her shots, and do some house work. This is the first weekend in two months that I haven't worked at least one of the two days
@Hopefulmommy1980 Thanks! It is weird isn't it? I feel like I have the "tools" in so many ways, but applying them to myself at this particular time has been challenging.
@SnobunnieMel Glad you had the follow up and have a couple of options for how to proceed. This whole infertility business is a lot of hurry up and wait.
@AandDM2014 Thanks, I hope I don't need too much either. I'm currently on the patch and 4 mg orally. Pending for an August 11th transfer. When do you plan to transfer? How many will you transfer? I'm sure you've mentioned this before, but I get lost with those long IVF threads on the infertility board!
@fivetimesnoluck That's so great that this experience has brought you and DH closer as opposed to apart. I can totally see how this whole process brings people to divorce and other relationship issues. There are so many opportunities to feel anger, resentment, depression, etc. Glad you can both support one another and continue to your shared goal. Hoping it comes sooner than later, you've waited long enough!
@BornReady That seems like a really long time from now for already being on estrogen! Oh, unless you just started. My transfer is scheduled for Thursday morning. We have three left, so we decided to transfer all of them. Our previous three transfers have all been 2, and none of them have resulted in a successful pregnancy past 10 weeks, so my doc was comfortable with transferring all 3, even though I'm only 26. And I hear you about the long IVF threads! I have a hard time keeping up, especially when 30+ responses show up overnight!
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@SnobunnieMel I remember it took a bit for my AMH results to come back as well but your FSH looks good so that's promising. I'm glad you have a plan lined up- although the journey can be frustrating having a plan seems to help.
@fivetimesnoluck I hope everything went nice and easy for you this morning.
Me (39) DH (40)
From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06
DH- no kids
******************
TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN
IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!! 2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days, D&C: 2/17/16
TTCAL: May 2016
IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
**10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!!
Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
She also wants two gift tables...one if you want your gift opened and one of you don't. Uh once again....the point of the shower is to open your gifts.
All my friends were commenting about how we must not get up early because we don't have kids as if our life is easy and this is the way we want it. I feel like we are destined to be the child free couple of the group forever. And it just sucks.
Oh and I'm definitely on CD 1 or CD 2 and the blood is not coming out, so now I'm in pain. Eventually the blood broke free last time, so I'm trying not to call the Dr. I have a feeling I will be fighting with the nurse tomorrow about whether I should get DOR bloodwork if I have no bleeding since they define CD 1 as medium flow. Why does my body have to do weird shit all the time?!?
If you can believe it, after my crappy weekend last weekend, I seriously got questioned by a lady at a church cookout on Thursday about "when I was due". I just rubbed it off and said oh I'm not, thinking she'd get the hint. Well today at church she came up to me, rubbed my belly (in front of DH) and said "I just love seeing these things and watching them grow. I love having new babies at church." The last time this happened (last Friday) I held it together but after three pregnancy announcements and two belly rubs in like a 10 day span, I just couldn't. Meltdown started in the lobby at church after I explained I wasn't pregnant and was full force by the time I got to the parking lot and into the car. I am just so so so sad...and to be on my period right now just amplifies the whole crappy situation.
Sorry about the surprise announcements @crazypt2285. The. Worst.
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@chloe97 good luck tomorrow talking to the nurse. I hope it all works out and you get to start your testing.
Me (39) DH (40)
From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06
DH- no kids
******************
TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN
IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!! 2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days, D&C: 2/17/16
TTCAL: May 2016
IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
**10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!!
Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
Tw: abortion---
And I don't know why she would tell me that either but this is the same friend who likes to compare her abortion to my miscarriage, saying that she understands...even tho that was her choice and she says she doesn't think she ever wants kids!!! She's lucky I'm incredibly understanding and patient with her but ya, I think she just really doesn't understand.
---Tw over
Sounds like we're all having a rough time; let's make sure we do something nice for ourselves today
edited for clarity