I lost my mucus plug at 31 weeks and my belly dropped at 30 I've been having Braxton hicks here and there but not frequent I'm only 33 week I have a Dr appointment on the 18th I'll be 35 weeks
You could but we have a few moms on here who had their babies early and I'm sure they don't reccomend it. While I can't speak for them I'm sure they would much rather still be pregnant than have to visit their baby in the NICU.
Pregnancy is hard. Its what you sign up for when you have unprotected sex.
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks. 10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero placenta surgery 11/2/17 Twin A & B born 11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU Benched 6 months BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
I lost my mucus plug at 31 weeks and my belly dropped at 30 I've been having Braxton hicks here and there but not frequent I'm only 33 week I have a Dr appointment on the 25th I'll be 35 weeks
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DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks. 10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero placenta surgery 11/2/17 Twin A & B born 11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU Benched 6 months BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
You could but we have a few moms on here who had their babies early and I'm sure they don't reccomend it. While I can't speak for them I'm sure they would much rather still be pregnant than have to visit their baby in the NICU.
Pregnancy is hard. Its what you sign up for when you have unprotected sex.
This!! Even though Avery was close to full term, she still ended up in the NICU hooked up to a bunch of things. She may not have needed other interventional support given her size and weight but when I saw her distressed because of the cpap up her nose and what not, I couldn't help but feel sad for her. She didn't ask for any of this. I instantly thought of my vents on even some threads saying I'm so over this pregnancy and feet swelling.
Trust me, if I had known what she would have gone through, I would take feet swelling, pelvic pain, and all the discomfort that comes with esp. at the last trimester ANY day to keep her in my womb longer.
Hope this gives some perspective. Even if I know it's not my fault for water breaking early, I really just cannot get over the guilt of getting discharged tomorrow while she's still hooked up to machines, away from her mom & dad.
@AliKay20 Sending creepy internet hugs your way. I can't imagine how hard it must be to leave her hooked up to machines. And no, it's definitely not your fault and I'm glad you recognize that, even if you do feel guilty (which I'm sure we all would).
Re: Can I go into early labor
Pregnancy is hard. Its what you sign up for when you have unprotected sex.
Baby #2 due 8/11/2016
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero placenta surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero placenta surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
In that case, you should go to L&D right now!!!
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Trust me, if I had known what she would have gone through, I would take feet swelling, pelvic pain, and all the discomfort that comes with esp. at the last trimester ANY day to keep her in my womb longer.
Hope this gives some perspective. Even if I know it's not my fault for water breaking early, I really just cannot get over the guilt of getting discharged tomorrow while she's still hooked up to machines, away from her mom & dad.