I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. At this point it is important for you to take care of yourself emotionally and physically. However you feel the need to grieve is how you should spend the next little while. Whatever you feel right now is ok. Just remember that we are here for you if you ever need to talk.
I had a similar experience with a prior pregnancy and the tech wouldn't say anything to me, saying the dr would call me and talk to me that day or the next day if something was wrong. But the dr didn't call me for 4 days, I had to call her repeatedly and the office person told me over the phone.
I'm so sorry for your loss. That tech really needs to understand the importance of professionalism. How incredibly insensitive of her! I would've punched her.
So sorry for your loss. I wish you lots of comfort as you heal over time. Prayers for you and yours.
Married May 2009, TTC since November 2012 (Together since 2006 ish - had my eyes on him since 2001)
Me: 32 (33 in May), Him: 37 (January)
DX: Me: High Prolactin, Possible Autoimmune Disease Issues, though RE not concerned (?) New RE has a plan!!
Him: Minor Varicocele, low morphology, slightly low count
History:
Beta 5/9/2016 BFP!! Embryo transfer scheduled for April 28, 2016 and beta test May 9, 2016 (day after Mother's Day!) Transfer Meds include: Lupron Depot (4/1), Minivelle Patch (every 3rd day), Estradiol (3x daily), Amoxicillin, Progesterone in Oil, Methylprednisonlone. Lovenox and baby asprin added after transfer.
3/22/16 - Sono Saline ultrasound cyst to be aspirated on 4/1/16 if not cleared up by 3/29 US - It cleared on its own Retrieval 3/4/16 - 26 eggs retrieved, 23 mature, 20 fertilized, 14 embryos currently frozen Starting IVF Stims on +/- Feb 22, 2016 HSG scheduled for 1-26-16 - All clear "beautiful uterus" (though inverted)
Switched clinics and now prepping for IVF in February / March
I am so incredibly sorry to hear this @moonlady, and I would absolutely make a phone call about that tech, once I was in a mental place where I could handle it.
((hugs)) maybe when you are able to talk about it, call the place back and let them know how rude and inconsiderate she was. Let me know if you want to chat. I will listen, er read.
There are no words that will soften the pain in your heart. Take time to grieve, take time for yourself, and take time for you and your husband. Bless you and your family in this most difficult time.
Re: Bad news (tw, loss)
Me: 28 | DH: 31
Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
TTC #1 since November 2015
BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
I had a similar experience with a prior pregnancy and the tech wouldn't say anything to me, saying the dr would call me and talk to me that day or the next day if something was wrong. But the dr didn't call me for 4 days, I had to call her repeatedly and the office person told me over the phone.
Beta 5/9/2016 BFP!!
Embryo transfer scheduled for April 28, 2016 and beta test May 9, 2016 (day after Mother's Day!)
Transfer Meds include: Lupron Depot (4/1), Minivelle Patch (every 3rd day), Estradiol (3x daily), Amoxicillin, Progesterone in Oil, Methylprednisonlone. Lovenox and baby asprin added after transfer.
3/22/16 - Sono Saline ultrasound cyst to be aspirated on 4/1/16 if not cleared up by 3/29 US - It cleared on its own
Retrieval 3/4/16 - 26 eggs retrieved, 23 mature, 20 fertilized, 14 embryos currently frozen
Starting IVF Stims on +/- Feb 22, 2016
HSG scheduled for 1-26-16 - All clear "beautiful uterus" (though inverted)
Switched clinics and now prepping for IVF in February / March
Trying to conceive since November 2012
BFP 2/3/16 --> MC 2/13/16