Hey Ladies,
FTM here. I just went to my 32 week appointment and I found out at 36 weeks they start me on Primrose oil to soften the cervix. I found out that at my Midwife clinic they induce at 41w5d. I asked more about this and found out they do the primrose as early as 36 weeks and then at 40 weeks they talk about castor oil and membrane sweep. Then, they told me that normally FTMs go an average of 10 days late... so why do all these things if its normal? Also, I heard bad things about drinking castor oil( sorry if my spelling is wrong).... My husband thinks I took it wrong but it felt like wow they expected my body not to do it on its own to start priming things at 36 weeks.... any opinions on primrose oil? I haven't looked into it... Will you ladies get internal checks or decline them? I'm scared I heard they don't mean anything and they hurt.
Re: Interventions prior to being late- opinions/ what is your doc's policy
I'd be inclined to turn down the primrose oil and the castor oil, unless your midwives can offer you strong evidence of their effectiveness. The membrane sweep didn't do anything for me, but if offered, I'd likely try it again, since it is minimally invasive. I don't mind the internal checks-- I like to know where things are at-- but that is totally a personal choice thing.
Keep in mind that it is YOUR body and you are entitled to decline these things if you want.
Ask your midwife for the pros and cons of each-- my midwife is very careful to give me all the information first and then lets me make my own decisions about the procedures I want to undergo.
BFP #1: 08/17/2012 DD1 born 05/01/2013
BFP #2: 07/31/2015 M/C 09/23/2015 (11.5 weeks)
spicy food, long walks, raspberry leaf tea, etc.) are just wives tales. None of it worked for me and I was induced at 41w1d.
As far as the internal checks, I believe you have to get one done around 36 weeks for
the Strep B test. After that, it's up to your doc. Some will give you the option; others will want to do it every week after 36 no matter what. If you're given the option, all
they really tell you is how much you're dilated/effaced at that point, which doesn't necessarily mean anything. Some women walk around at 3-4cm for weeks; some go from 0-10 in just a few hours. It can kind of mess with your mind so it's a matter of personal preference.
My MIL tried to tell me to take castor oil since she did it and went into labor, but the risk of it not working and still being stuck in the bathroom kept me from doing it. I've never looked into the primrose oil.
My OBGYN never mentioned anything about oils. At my 36 wk appt, he said he's going to assess bacteria down there and whether I need to be on antibiotics or something (I may be totally wrong about antibiotics) but he mentioned if I have a lot
of bacteria culture, it will impact something related to labor. He showed me the kit with long q-tip and said he'll measure my cervix. Nothing on oil but now I'm tempted to ask.............
I would seriously question the castor oil and even showing article to your doctor or midwife that I can be really dangerous for the baby!! It can induce diarrhea to you, but studies showed it can make the baby have a bowel movement in-utero. Meconium aspiration is a real deal and brings lots Of babies in NICU every year.
In terms of strep B, mine was positive last pregnancy and it just meant I had to have one bag of antibiotics through my IV before DS was born. This wasn't an issue for me, since I had an epidural and didn't have any problem with needing an IV, although I know some women want to avoid any IV's during labor.
That being said, my ob said they'd induce anywhere from 39 weeks (if there's medical reason) to a week or so later. They don't want you going 2 weeks late since that can cause complications of its own.
I personally wouldn't want to do anything before my due date to make the baby come early.
Strep b really isn't a big deal. I tested positive with dd1. I had to have an IV but I only had to be attached when they were giving me the medicine, otherwise I was free to walk and labor how I wanted.
strep b test was what my doc was referring to!!!
@LWC112 The MW mentioned that it can either be taken orally or vaginally... which one did you do? and did you feel like it helped?
Everyone else thank you for your responses... as a FTM I'm not sure what to expect... my MWs are usually very hands off... but maybe I just got way to much condensed info that may never even apply to me. I meet with the new MW again on July 7th and then the rest of my appts are back with my main MW.
I had read that primrose oil can help avoid an episiotomy which I didn't want and I also did not want to be medically induced, so I was comfortable trying it. DD came at 39 weeks 5 days.
I tested positive for Group B strep with my first and all it meant was that I would need IV antibiotics throughout my labor. That was fine because I had an epidural. This time around I'm hoping I'll test negative for the Group B strep because I want to do a natural childbirth this time and don't really want to be chained to an IV. The swab is taken from your anus, not your vagina, so you don't have have to have an internal exam.
I opted for the internal exams with my first and will likely do so again, just because I'm curious more than anything. I think with my first I was 1-2 cm starting at about 35 weeks. I didn't find them uncomfortable, but if you are bothered by PAP smears or anything like that you might find it uncomfortable. The only thing was that I would usually have some mild bleeding (normal) afterward.
Good luck!
Married: 10/04/2014
DD1: 03/02/15
DD2: 08/04/16
Baby 3 Due: 11/23/18!
@texasmama2014 I'm so glad you explained the reasoning for your doctor wanting to induce at 41, I never thought about the induction being rescheduled because of having no room... Maybe that's why my MW practice wants to do an induction on 41w5d so that there are 2 days to kick start the labor. I completely understand the need for induction at that time... I mean I want baby to be ok.. and I know when I conceived so I'm not worried the due date is wrong.
@kekoff01 I think I got ahead of myself by asking those questions haha. I always do that and my regular MW handles me better... at my 18 week appt I busted out my Birth plan... and she was like lol "Oh, so you want to do all your prenatal care in one appointment" and we both laughed and I relaxed a bit.
My OB starts internal checks at 36 weeks. I talked to them about declining when I was pregnant with my son. She said they didn't have to tell me the number if I didn't want to know, but they want to know because if I'm already 3cm when my water breaks or I go into labor, they're more likely to tell me to come in quickly as opposed to if I wasn't dilated at all.
My OB also doesn't even start talking about induction until after you pass 40 weeks. I was scheduled for induction on 41+5, but kept getting bumped because of a full moon. My water ended up breaking and I had DS at 41+6.
1. When do you start taking it orally and as a vaginal suppository?
2. How much did your doctor recommend that you take for each dose?
I plan to wait to ask my doctor about this--my next appointment is in 2 weeks and I think that I will have the GBS test done then. Are you even able to do the EPO (vaginally) if you test positive for GBS?
My MW said they would discuss it at my 36 week appointment... but I read online that you start with a lower dose like 1000mg a day and then move up to like 4000mg closer to delivery, but idk.. apparently it cures alot of other diseases.... so its like a supplement... and not really strong enough to kind of force you into labor.
@rubredvelvet My MW was answering my questions about induction for after 41 weeks.. she mentioned they might suggest castor oil prior to pitocin... she didn't recommend taking it at 36 weeks... just the primrose oil
Would not do caster oil, like at all. I am being induced at 37+5 by a high risk dr but this is due to medical conditions. They don't induce or do anything until after 39 weeks here usually.