Anyone getting a tubal august 2016?

Re: Anyone getting a tubal august 2016?

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• cal031686 member

  June 2016

  We are 2 and through as well. 3yr old DD and another girl coming August. I'm hoping hubby will take care of his business so I won't have to worry or undergo anything further. He's not completely on board yet but I don't want to go on birth control again either. We shall see what happens come August lol. 

  

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• searchingforameaning member

  June 2016

  OB asked me this last week since I am having a C/S, but although we are done, I don't want my tubes tied... and would rather DH get fixed. I heard that (don't know if it is correct or not), that this is more painful for the woman and makes the C/S recovery longer... don't know if this is true... 

  Married - 4/7/07
  Son #1- 2/15/08
  Son #2- 8/18/10
  Baby 3 due 8/8/16

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• bearsandbeets7 member

  June 2016

  I was talking with one of my MILs friends and she was telling me how after they had their son and oldest daughter they were in a standoff. She said she wasn't getting fixed and her husband said the same thing and lo and behold 11 years later they got pregnant and had another girl. She had a c section and said that she got the tubal while they were in there but she said she has regretted it everyday since. I don't know much about the tubal but she said that every time the time of the month comes it's living hell. 

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• ShanRum3 member

  June 2016

  I don't want to have a Tubal,  but it appears my husband is too much of a pansy to have a vasectomy!  I'm on my 3rd boy, and I'm already AMA!  I do not want to risk getting pregnant again after this one! I also hate being on birth control! *sigh So, it looks like I have to do everything from carrying,  to birthing, to preventing any more babies.

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• ginger819 member

  June 2016

  We are done after this one as well and birth control isn't really an option besides condoms. I thought I would have to beg him to get a vasectomy, but before we even really talked about who was going to get fixed he volunteered. 

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• Stephanie7693 member

  June 2016

  My husband is getting a vasectomy sometime this winter. I don't plan on a c-section,  and I'm done putting my body through anything related to babies, including preventing them! My husband has no problem with getting snipped though. 3rd baby or not, he was going to get snipped this year anyway. 

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• Alygohome member

  June 2016

  My husband is getting a vasectomy when this one is 6-9 months (and the risk of sids is lower not to be morbid but it's what out dr recommends) 2 girls and done!

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• rubredvelvet member

  June 2016

  I'm pretty sure this one (#3) will be out last since it took quite a bit of convincing to get my husband on board. I am not having a c/s so I will not be having my tubes tied but my husband has pretty much volunteered to get sniped- I suppose that proves how much he is done. 

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• Stephanie7693 member

  June 2016

  @Alygohome ... that's why I think we will be waiting a little while too. It sounds terrible, but it'd something to think about

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• megframe16 member

  June 2016

  I've been questioning this also.. My H apparently refuses to get snipped. This will baby babies 3&4 for us and I know I'm just done after they arrive. The thought of it being so permanent though freaks me out a little.. So might just go for the 10year implant... 

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• Nicey2x member

  June 2016

  As it gets closer to the date..I'm getting very very emotional about it.. just the fact that this will be it..it's freaking me out bad. But I do want it, my papers are already signed. Good my doctor said I can back out if I want to..

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• tinkerbell11210 member

  June 2016

  DH is getting snipped after this DD is about 3-6 months old. He was acctually ok with it after talking with several other guys who confirmed that they did it. I think it made home feel better knowing that several of his friends already had the procedure. 

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