I mentioned this in another thread, but we are pretty sure our LO is suffering from reflux. She is 17 days old and has had issues from the start, not letting us put her down to sleep. We've been basically holding her since she was born. She eats well and often (maybe too often, as now I'm learning that sometimes babies with reflux with try to eat when they aren't hungry to in order to suppress the acid), but most of the time after she eats she gets very uncomfortable. She'll get tense, arch her back, gasp, cough, gag, stick her tongue out, make faces, and scream. She does spit up, but not a ton like I've heard is common for babies with reflux.
After learning that these symptoms could be reflux, I started keeping her upright as much as possible during and after feedings, burping her well, trying to get her to sleep propped up, and initially it helped. We noticed a difference right away last night when I started doing those things, and it was the first night that she let us put her down to sleep without her screaming. But this evening has been terrible. Despite doing all of these things, she has been inconsolable. I finally got her to fall asleep around 10, only to have her wake up about an hour later and she has been up screaming for the past 3 hours. Every time she seems to finally be feeling a little better, its time for her to be fed again and the whole thing starts over.
We went to the pediatrician today and he wanted me to continue to try to prop her up, burp her well, etc. for the next week and see if there is improvement. But after tonight, which has been the worst night yet, I don't know how on earth we'll make it that long. I need relief for her, I can't stand to watch her scream in pain like this. I've done some basic research regarding dietary changes that I can try to make, but everything I'm seeing is that it can take weeks to do an elimination diet, and while I'll of course do that, like I said, there has to be something I can do in the meantime. Does anyone have any experience or advice? Is there anything I can do to comfort her or ease her pain while I'm waiting for the doctor to hopefully prescribe some medicine? I'm going to call first thing in the morning to ask, but while I'm awake tonight, I figured I'd see if anyone has any advice. I'm desperate
Re: Newborn Reflux, help!
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
DS: Born 5-17-16
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
My daughter was a screamer, which led to a trial of Zantac. Never solved anything, but she never had true symptoms of reflux.
Good luck! Hope it gets better!
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
The pediatrician told us to expect to see difference by Tuesday. Ive also adjusted my diet so hopefully we see some change !
Question about the colic drops: do you see instant improvement with that or was it something I recommended for long term benefits ? Just curious! We did end up buying some
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
Married: Oct 20, 2013
BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
EDD 1: May 12, 2016
DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)
BFP 2: October 07, 2019
EDD 2: June 20, 2020
edited for poor english and proof reading abilities late at night!
If you suspect reflux, definitely pay close attention and go to the doctor and get LO checked out. These medicines can be trial and error and a lot of them take a week or so to kick in, so it can be time consuming and the sooner you start, the better for your sanity!!! Good luck!