Hi everyone,
I'm a regular on the TTCAL board but, I've never posted here.
I could really use some help because I feel like I've tried everything.
I started trying to potty train my son at 3 years old.
For awhile, he did GREAT. I thought we were like at least 80 % potty trained. And then he regressed. He will use the potty at preschool and come home and want a diaper. I regret the day I consented to him wearing a diaper after school. I've never wanted to push him so I let him wear one.
Now MONTHS later, I have a child that refuses to use the potty at home and wants nothing to do with underwear at home.
I've tried bribery, begging, 500 pairs of new underwear with his favorite characters on them and nothing works.
I have bought him 2 different pottys.
He is almost 4 and a half!
I feel like a complete failure and I don't know what else to try.
If anyone has any input I would greatly appreciate it.
I'm concerned and embarrassed about his age

His preschool teacher and many friends have assured me it will happen but, I'm starting to worry he will go to Kindergarten in a pullup. We still have one more year of preschool to get it together.
Re: I need some help
DS#1 born 02/19/2013
Thank you!
It took a knock down drag out ultimate meltdown and some favorite things revoked plus, he missed a fun activity, and it was like a 40 minute fight but I dug my heels in and got him in underwear! !!!!
I think I was conflicted because my dumb mother thought I was "pushing it" but, thank Goodness you ladies talked me off that ledge.
We are on day 3 of underwear and no accidents. FX this is finally it.
Unfortunately he has a drawer full of character underwear from all the other failed attempts so he's wearing characters but, I don't care at this point as long as wears underwear, any underwear.
Thank you again. Honestly, I don't think anyone was harsh. I wanted honesty and you all confirmed what was already in my intuition. Like, I said, I had my dumb mother on my shoulder telling me totally opposite and it was causing me doubt.