I just finished Expecting Better by Emily Oster and I liked it but I think it may be time to dive into some more serious baby/development/delivery books. Any suggestions on books you found helpful?
I'm currently reading sibling rivalry books, but when I was pregnant with DD I loved Penny Simkin's writing style (Pregnancy, Childbirth, and the Newborn). I also found The Nursing Mother's Companion extremely helpful, and the Happiest Baby on the Block. Note that the Happiest Baby is a very repetitive book (there's a DVD that covers all the important parts that's great to watch with your partner once baby has arrived).
For more narrative books, I enjoyed Bringing Up Bebe and How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm: And Other Adventures in Parenting.
I just read Ina May's guide to childbirth. I think it's worth reading especially if you're considering nonmedicated labor, but there are parts of it that are very biased or otherwise pissed me off. Still, I'll reread parts of it when I get freaked out about labor.
I think Baby Bargains is a must-have as well. I haven't looked into baby development stuff yet though so I'll be watching for suggestions on those.
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16 BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16 BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
Breastfeeding made simple. Apparently breastfeeding is more than just putting your baby's mouth up to your nipple. Very informative, although a little crunchy.
A friend dropped off some books about food in the first year which I'm looking forward to skimming through. I'm over reading about pregnancy, I've been doing it since day 1 and I am out of new material!!
Me: 33 | DH: 34
TTC #1 Oct 2015
BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 TTC #2 since Mar 2017 DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility) IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts! FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269
Re: What Baby/Maternity Books are You Reading?
For more narrative books, I enjoyed Bringing Up Bebe and How Eskimos Keep Their Babies Warm: And Other Adventures in Parenting.
I think Baby Bargains is a must-have as well. I haven't looked into baby development stuff yet though so I'll be watching for suggestions on those.
BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
TTC #2 since Mar 2017
DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269