1) I am annoyed by how much of a hornball DH has been lately. I want to play to, but with two kids, it just isn't happening. I want to tell him to stop rubbing up on me, (mainly the boobs because then they leak) and making sexual innuendos because it's not helping my frustration with the lack of sex, however that will hurt his feelings and we definitely won't be having any play time.
2) SFIL was supposed to take DD1 today. Until I return to work and he takes both girls, he had DD1 M, T and Thu. Last week he asked if he could pick DD1 up by 7 this am so he could make it to his apt on time. I wanted to be able to sleep since DH has been pulling late nights with the business and may or may not be up by 7 depending on his schedule. So I told him no because DD2 might actually let me sleep and he could pick her up after his appointment. Cool - 930 at the latest he tells me. Of course both girls are up for the day at 6 so she could have gone with. Then SFIL shoots me a text at 10 saying he has a couple of errands to run before he comes to get DD. It's past 11 here now and he's still not here. I just texted him asking he just wants to switch days, and take her Friday. His reply "Nope" and he is at the house five minutes later. I'm pretty sure he just wanted to goof off at home or around town for a few hours before picking up DD.
3) I told my boss and temp if they needed anything to give me a call while I am out for the first few weeks while the temp is getting used to things. I am starting 8 weeks out of work today and both the temp and my boss call all upset about different things....things that should have been done weeks ago, like the first week I was gone. Seriously??
I was telling MIL yesterday how LO only naps on his tummy right now. He can sleep for a few hours on his tummy, but if we put him in his bassinet on his back or in the RnP he will wake up after 20 minutes. So for now, he sleeps on his tummy on our couch (because it is very flat and firm) and either DH or I sit next to him to supervise. He is good at holding his head up, but until he is actively rolling around with ease, his tummy naps will be supervised. Anyway, I told her that we watch him while he naps and how it will be better once we can lay him in his bassinet or crib on his tummy without worrying. And she made the commen about how we all survived sleeping on our tummies as babies. And I firmly told her that he will continue to be supervised during his tummy naps, and until we feel he is ready, that he will continue being put down on his back at night. What I wanted to say was "yes we survived, but many babies did not and thats why it is recommended that babies sleep on their backs now." She is babysitting in 2 weeks while we go to a wedding, and Im already nervous about it.
I was telling MIL yesterday how LO only naps on his tummy right now. He can sleep for a few hours on his tummy, but if we put him in his bassinet on his back or in the RnP he will wake up after 20 minutes. So for now, he sleeps on his tummy on our couch (because it is very flat and firm) and either DH or I sit next to him to supervise. He is good at holding his head up, but until he is actively rolling around with ease, his tummy naps will be supervised. Anyway, I told her that we watch him while he naps and how it will be better once we can lay him in his bassinet or crib on his tummy without worrying. And she made the commen about how we all survived sleeping on our tummies as babies. And I firmly told her that he will continue to be supervised during his tummy naps, and until we feel he is ready, that he will continue being put down on his back at night. What I wanted to say was "yes we survived, but many babies did not and thats why it is recommended that babies sleep on their backs now." She is babysitting in 2 weeks while we go to a wedding, and Im already nervous about it.
My mom says also pulls the "when you were babies" card...um yeah that was 28+ years ago. Things have changed!
My BFM goes to my mom for trying to make me feel bad about my visit tomorrow. Be happy that I am visiting first of all! I am driving 1+ hours in the worst freeway ever to spend a few hours with her and I'm sorry I have to leave before my dad gets home to about being stuck in traffic during rush hour. LO has a bedtime routine I would like to keep and I don't want to be stuck in traffic too long with a baby (he cries if the car is stopped). Oh and way to give me guilt trip about not wanting a welcome baby party. Sorry but I don't feel like dealing with 30 ppl right now (or her million planning questions).
My DH drops his laundry 3 feet from the hamper every damn time. We're listing our house next week and I'm trying to stage it. It's hard with 2 young kids, but near impossible with this man-child of a husband. Pick up your shit!
My DH drops his laundry 3 feet from the hamper every damn time. We're listing our house next week and I'm trying to stage it. It's hard with 2 young kids, but near impossible with this man-child of a husband. Pick up your shit!
Yes! His clothes are on the floor, touching the open hamper. Also, he leaves the mustard out and bag of bread open every day after eating a sandwich for lunch.
Re: BFM 6/6
1) I am annoyed by how much of a hornball DH has been lately. I want to play to, but with two kids, it just isn't happening. I want to tell him to stop rubbing up on me, (mainly the boobs because then they leak) and making sexual innuendos because it's not helping my frustration with the lack of sex, however that will hurt his feelings and we definitely won't be having any play time.
2) SFIL was supposed to take DD1 today. Until I return to work and he takes both girls, he had DD1 M, T and Thu. Last week he asked if he could pick DD1 up by 7 this am so he could make it to his apt on time. I wanted to be able to sleep since DH has been pulling late nights with the business and may or may not be up by 7 depending on his schedule. So I told him no because DD2 might actually let me sleep and he could pick her up after his appointment. Cool - 930 at the latest he tells me. Of course both girls are up for the day at 6 so she could have gone with. Then SFIL shoots me a text at 10 saying he has a couple of errands to run before he comes to get DD. It's past 11 here now and he's still not here. I just texted him asking he just wants to switch days, and take her Friday. His reply "Nope" and he is at the house five minutes later. I'm pretty sure he just wanted to goof off at home or around town for a few hours before picking up DD.
3) I told my boss and temp if they needed anything to give me a call while I am out for the first few weeks while the temp is getting used to things. I am starting 8 weeks out of work today and both the temp and my boss call all upset about different things....things that should have been done weeks ago, like the first week I was gone. Seriously??
My BFM goes to my mom for trying to make me feel bad about my visit tomorrow. Be happy that I am visiting first of all! I am driving 1+ hours in the worst freeway ever to spend a few hours with her and I'm sorry I have to leave before my dad gets home to about being stuck in traffic during rush hour. LO has a bedtime routine I would like to keep and I don't want to be stuck in traffic too long with a baby (he cries if the car is stopped). Oh and way to give me guilt trip about not wanting a welcome baby party. Sorry but I don't feel like dealing with 30 ppl right now (or her million planning questions).